AITA for turning off a performer’s speaker in a Paris metro?

One commuter on the Paris metro was just trying to ride in peace when two street performers boarded and cranked up an accordion and a loud rap performance. Fed up with being forced to listen in a confined space, the passenger reached over and switched off the speaker’s power button.

In seconds, the whole car took notice: the rapper demanded an explanation, a group of guys 20 feet away claimed they were enjoying it, and the commuter fired back that nobody actually wanted the show. The performers quietly exited at the next stop, leaving everyone wondering—was that move justified or way out of line?

‘AITA for turning off a performer’s speaker in a Paris metro?’

It all started normally with OP sitting in a Paris metro car:

Hello there, I was sitting in a Paris metro car, and two guys came onboard: the first with an accordion, and the second with a microphone and speaker. The second...

The speaker was pretty loud, and the guy with the microphone was 25% hypeman/75% rapping in French. I don't like people imposing music on me, so in a VERY bold...

A short exchange in French followed right away:

I had a short conversation with the microphone guy that went like this (in French):.

Rapper: Why did you turn it off?.

Me: Because no one wants to hear your music here.. Group of guys 20 feet away: Hey, you were feeling it man; we liked it!.

Rapper: Yeah, you liked it?

The Rapper, Accordion Guy and I exchanged glances as we arrived to the next stop. The two of them got off, and no one said anything afterwards. I was on...

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My question to you: was I the a__hole in this situation? I'm leaning towards yes, but at the same time, I don't like when people perform on public transportion, and...

P.S. I actually like street performers and donate to them when they're good, but I'm very much against people busking in places where you're trapped together.

Also, I probably would not have done this NYC, for example, because there would be a much higher chance for a physical confrontation.

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Street performing on public transport is always controversial because it pits artistic freedom against passengers’ right to quiet. Many major cities have specific rules: Paris allows official busking in stations but prohibits it on trains to avoid disturbing a captive audience.

While OP’s frustration was valid, physically touching someone else’s equipment crosses a line. Even without damage, unauthorized interference can be seen as invasive and risky. Social behavior experts recommend verbal complaints or alerting staff instead of hands-on action.

Research on “captive audiences” from the University of Paris shows unwanted noise on public transport causes significant stress, especially for daily commuters. More effective solutions include reporting via the RATP app or asking drivers to intervene.

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In the end, both sides have merit: performers should respect shared spaces, while passengers should protest safely and legally to avoid unnecessary escalation.

Here’s the input from the Reddit crowd:

Online opinions split quickly, but most backed OP—everyone’s suffered through loud metro performers at some point.

Plenty hailed OP as a legend and fully supported the move:

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RollingKatamari - NTA-but wow, that could have gone really badly. I absolutely hate these performers that come on the metro. I don't mind them busking on a street corner but...

Ok-Personality-1472 - NTA it’s annoying that they’re performing inside the metro

nottheblackhat - NTA and also a hero. people like those musicians need to respect public spaces. until they do they don't get the respect of private property

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EstimateAlert5974 - I lived in Paris for 3 years and absolutely hated it when these guys got on the trains. Usually I had headphones on but they were so loud...

[Reddit User] - NTA! It's very annoying to have to listen to random music on public transport. In Delhi metro there are regular announcements asking people not to use their...

A regular speaker with loud volume sounds i__olerable. I'm glad you had the courage to turn it off. You could've asked them, that would've been better. But I can understand...

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LighthouseonSaturn - NTA, I actually love Paris just for this reason. 😂 My first day in Paris some performers tried to do this and an older man stood up and...

Performing on the Metro is b__lshit. No one has a chance to get away from your music if they don't want to hear it. They are basically holding people hostage....

Honestly, my favorite thing about the French is their No-B__lshit attitude. Other Americans call it 'Rude', but the way I see it is, the French don't have a fake nice/customer...

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Srvntgrrl_789 - NTA. I’ve ridden the metro. An accordion in a small space like that is a nightmare. Maybe ask, next time, just so no one can give you a...

[Reddit User] - NTA and I would've applauded you lol

Cautious-Job8683 - NTA. They invaded a small space with uninvited noise that you couldn't get away from. You did no harm by turning the speaker off.

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Dear_Tangerine444 - NTA Also if the group of guys 20ft away liked it, the busker could have moved next to them and turned his speaker back on. The fact he...

Others said everyone sucked for different reasons, mainly touching property:

hillyfog - ESH you shouldn’t touch people’s property and performers shouldn’t perform to, a literally captive, audience. It’s not bold, it’s selfish and imposing af. At least on the street...

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MarkMachinist - ESH: Playing music to a captive audience that didn’t sign up for it is pretty obnoxious. Nobody gets on a train hoping to hear other people’s music at...

That being said, and I’m surprised it needs to be said, don’t touch other people’s s__t. Talk to them, ask them to stop maybe? You’ve convinced yourself that touching the...

A few went full extreme:

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Short-Cycle1258 - No dude you are NOT the a__hole AT ALL I cannot stand those idiots that force people to listen to them by hijacking an otherwise peaceful ride and...

No no not happening loser. Go get your d__g money elsewhere. The shutting off the speaker is a warning. If they turn it back in I'm DESTROYING the speaker and...

Competitive_Score_30 - Info: Is that type of performance allowed on the train? Most cities have rules saying this isn't allowed. Edit: Based on OP's reply NTA. You have the right...

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Most people agree that loud performances on enclosed public transport are disrespectful, especially when passengers can’t escape. OP’s action struck a chord with many who’ve been there, even if it carried risks.

Still, the biggest takeaway—even from OP—is to avoid touching others’ belongings and find safer ways to object. Have you ever dealt with loud buskers on a train or bus? Would you speak up, stay silent, or do something drastic? Share your own stories below!

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