This Coworker Secretly Gave Away Her Husband’s Prized Card Collection, Now the Truth Is Out

We all know that moment when a generous gift feels just a little too good to be true. For one card-game enthusiast, a coworker’s sudden offer of five briefcases stuffed with Magic: The Gathering cards seemed like a dream come true. The colleague claimed her husband was simply done with his old hobby and wanted the clutter gone.

Sensing the immense value of the collection, the recipient double-checked to ensure the gift was legitimate and that the husband was truly on board. With explicit reassurance in hand, they set to work trading and selling parts of the treasure trove, completely unaware of the domestic storm brewing just beneath the surface. What started as an exciting windfall quickly transformed into a high-stakes workplace dilemma when the truth about the “gift” came to light. Want to see how this act of “generosity” completely unraveled and how the recipient managed to navigate the fallout? Read on for the full, messy details.

This Coworker Secretly Gave Away Her Husband's Prized Card Collection, Now the Truth Is Out

AITA for keeping a collection of MTG cards that were wrongly gifted to me?

We’ve all been there—the sheer excitement of stumbling upon an unexpected treasure trove of a hobby you love. For the poster, what seemed like a dream come true quickly turned into a complicated situation.

Early in December, a coworker asked me if I wanted some Magic: The Gathering cards her husband wanted to get rid of. I accepted and ended up with five briefcases...

Going through the cards, I found that there were a lot (and I mean a lot) of cards ranging anywhere between $15 and $80. I thought it was a little...

Her response was, "Yes, he is sure. He doesn't play with them anymore. Enjoy. " So I kept the cards to build decks, trade some, and sold a bunch of...

An awkward lunch break soon exposed the massive gap between a well-meaning gift and the unauthorized disposal of personal property. The coworker approached the poster with a desperate request that turned the entire workplace dynamic upside down.

Fast forward to yesterday. My coworker came to me during lunch to ask if I could give her back all the cards. It turns out that she didn't ask her...

I told her that I could give back the cards I still own, but I've traded and sold a lot of them and didn't have them anymore.

She got pretty desperate when I told her that, and then asked if I could also give her, in addition to the collection I still own, the money I made...

I told her that I thought I was already being pretty nice to give back some of her husband's collection, but it's too late for the cards I've traded and...

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She got very mad, and when she started yelling at me to give everything—money included—back to fix this, I told her that is her problem, and she stormed off. She...

Just to clarify some things, I did tell my coworker that there were valuable cards in her husband's collection when I texted her to reconfirm. The collection I was "gifted"...

Also, I've read a lot of comments about keeping "stolen goods" for myself. I'm willing to give back the rest of the cards I have to her husband, but my...

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I managed to speak with my coworker's husband via Messenger and showed him the screenshot of the discussion I had with her, telling her about the value of some cards...

Fortunately, the husband’s calm and pragmatic resolution shifted the blame entirely back to the spouse who crossed a major marital boundary. Rather than taking his anger out on the poster, he focused on holding his wife accountable.

About the cards I've sold or traded, he told me not to worry about it and to keep everything because what's done is done. He did ask, though, how much...

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Overall, the dude was pretty chill with me and very thankful to get most of his collection back. Sidenote: I wouldn't be surprised if my coworker announced next week that...

Community Opinions

Reddit users overwhelmingly declared the original poster not the asshole, with many pointing out the coworker's blatant dishonesty.

u/peachteahoney You're NTA but damn I feel for the husband here. Just try to imagine yourself in his place: someone close to you gave away your belongings and can't get...

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u/pottersquash NTA. This sucks though. Depending what lies shes telling, he might end up filing a police report. If you have text/emails about this, save them. Don't chat about it...

u/JazzyKnowsBest13 NTA. This is her problem to fix with her husband. I think you did the right thing by offering to return the cards you still have from his collection,...

u/Rredhead926 NTA. She made a mistake - twice. First in giving you the cards, and then in not verifying with her husband when you asked if they were sure. I...

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u/hin_inc ESH, anyone who plays any card games knows 5 briefcase worth and giving away means the wife hates his hobby and is sneaking to get rid of it. Any...

u/Ravensong42
NTA, she is and having a FAFO moment. I see divorce in her future

u/NOTTHATKAREN1 Definitely NTA. She screwed up. However, the right thing to do would be to give her back whatever's left, as this was not her husband's fault & he should...

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u/wesmorgan1 It isn't your problem that she gave away her husband's stuff without his knowledge and consent. It isn't your problem that she lied to you. You're being generous to...

u/CatsAndDogs314 NTA You asked her not once but twice if it was OK. It's been over a month since she gave them to you. You aren't a storage facility. Just...

u/Dame_Niafer Oh my, this sounds like Angry Spouse Gave Away The Heirloom Collection On Purpose. This is the kind of thing that drives a kid to break all ties with...

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u/Sirix_8472 Nta She's an absolute AH. Unfortunately I know this story all too well as an MTG player. Women who dump or give away their partners cards/decks as they perceived...

u/1962Michael
NTA.
You're being nice to give back what you still have. She can go to the card shop and buy back the cards you sold with her own money.

u/Successful-Spite2598
NTA - it is her problem.
She got caught out and knows she did the wrong thing so trying to push the responsibility to you.

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u/Otherwise-Topic-1791 NTA. She thought she was pulling a fast one on her husband. She got rid of the cards long before he knew anything about it. Now, she needs them...

u/JustANoteToSay
NTA but she sure is.
Wow.
I can’t imagine just giving away my husband’s stuff without talking to him.

A few commenters even warned the poster about the legal ramifications of unknowingly receiving stolen property before the husband cleared the air.

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Navigating the delicate boundaries of marital property and workplace ethics is never easy. In this case, a seemingly generous gift turned out to be a ticking domestic time bomb. While the coworker tried to shift the blame, direct communication between the two gamers ultimately defused the situation, even if the marriage itself remains on shaky ground.

Do you think the coworker should have to pay back the full value of the sold collectible cards, or was the husband too soft? And how would you handle a colleague who dragged you into their marital drama?

Drop your thoughts in the comments!

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