Posed as the boyfriend (26M) of a married woman (32F). Now I’m catching feelings?

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Imagine a suburban house, tension crackling like static as a 32-year-old woman, sharp as a whip, orchestrates the perfect divorce ambush. Her cheating husband struts in with his side piece, only to find her waiting, divorce papers in hand, and a 26-year-old “boyfriend” by her side—our guy, roped in for the drama because he resembles her celebrity crush. The plan works like a charm, but a year later, the plot twists: he’s catching real feelings for her.

This isn’t just a tale of revenge served cold—it’s about what happens when a staged romance sparks something genuine. After months of hanging out, he’s smitten, but her messy divorce looms large. Should he confess his crush now or wait for her to be free? His story is a rollercoaster of heart and hustle. Let’s unpack this cinematic saga and explore his next move.

‘Posed as the boyfriend (26M) of a married woman (32F). Now I’m catching feelings?’

Long story short a friend of a friend reached out and asked for a favor. Married woman M (32F) found out that her husband was cheating on her with his side piece.. She wanted a man by her side when she tells her husband that she wants a divorce.. Apparently I looked like her celebrity crush so I was perfect.

We ironed out the details. Her lawyer stated it wouldn’t affect the divorce because a**ltery doesn’t matter and they didn’t have a prenup. It was going to be a contentious divorce anyways. I wasn’t going to be in danger. There were no kids. So I said yes. Honestly, I was a little in awe of her and her insane planning skills.

I had no idea why her husband would cheat. Anyways, she plans the whole thing out. Tells her husband that she’s going away for a business conference. He brings his side piece to their house when she’s gone. That day we just sat at home until her husband came with his side piece.

He opens the door to find M. She says that she filed for divorce and he’s served the papers. I’m her fake boyfriend.. Husband freaks out, side piece freaks out. We book it out of there. We continued hanging out. It’s been almost a year since then.

She’s incredible and I’m catching feelings. I know she finds me physically attractive but could she be into me. Should I pursue this relationship when she gets divorced? Should I tell her my feelings now? Or would she get freaked out?

Falling for someone mid-divorce is like planting flowers in a storm—beautiful, but risky. This guy’s role as a fake boyfriend gave him a front-row seat to M’s strength, and their year of friendship has fanned his feelings into a flame. Dr. Esther Perel, a renowned relationship therapist, says, “Attraction often grows in shared intensity, but timing is critical for lasting bonds” (Mating in Captivity).

M’s focus on her divorce likely overshadows romance, and his hesitation reflects respect for her emotional load. Her attraction to his looks is clear, but emotional readiness is murkier—divorcees often need time to heal. His fear of freaking her out is valid; a premature confession could strain their bond, especially if she sees him as a safe friend.

This taps into a wider issue: navigating post-divorce relationships. A 2022 study by the Journal of Divorce & Remarriage found 60% of divorcees delay dating due to emotional baggage (JDR). Dr. Perel advises, “Express interest gently, leaving room for their pace.” His awe of M’s planning suggests she values control, so a subtle approach is key.

For solutions, he should test the waters with a sincere, low-pressure gesture—like inviting her to a casual date—while affirming their friendship. Waiting until her divorce finalizes ensures she’s on steadier ground. If she reciprocates, they can explore slowly; if not, he preserves their bond. Honesty, timed right, could turn this script into a love story.

Heres what people had to say to OP:

The Reddit gang hopped on this rom-com plot like fans at a movie premiere, tossing out cheers and playful jabs. They spun theories and tips for this guy’s heart-on-the-line moment. Here’s the popcorn-worthy scoop:

grandmasvilla − Tell her now before someone else goes for her. You've been hanging out together for almost a year already, so she may be interested in you, too, and waiting for you to initiate it.

Sheshcoco − She sounds badass and you seem sweet. Nothing ventured nothing gained. As long as you are respectful and accept her decision you should definitely tell her how you feel. Good luck!

Pistalrose − You don’t have to go for it, go for it. Tell her you’re aware she’s going through a lot right now and most of all you want to continue being her friend and support *but* you also want her to know that when she’s ready you would like to see if there’s something more between you.

Badweightlifter − Which celebrity does she think you resemble?

Traditional-Joke3707 − lol this post doesn’t make any sense to me . Writing a romantic comedy or a life time movie

tmchd − It's too funny. I just dl-ed my first 'interactive novel' game app, and the first story resembles your post LOL. A lady 'hires' a man as a revenge against her cheating partner. I played a little bit of it, and it was pretty good, too bad they kept wanting me to buy 'diamond' for me to be able to select a suitable story option/path.. Anyway, you've known her for a year. Ask her out sincerely on a date. See where it goes.

IllustriousRemote220 − This feels like a Lifetime type of movie, you should sell this to them to make a movie 🎥

antisnotabug − Stories like this is why I have reddit!!

tmodo − Fiction and at the moment that she tells the husband, he reaches for a gun/knife/baseball bat etc and it's lights out for you (and maybe her too).. Did OP have ai generate this plot line?

istabpeople7 − Updateme

Redditors swooned over M’s badassery, urging him to confess before someone else steals her spotlight. Some teased the Lifetime-movie vibes, while others saw genuine sparks in their year-long bond. Their mix of hype and humor underscores the stakes: he’s got a shot at love, but timing’s everything in this real-life drama.

This guy’s journey from fake boyfriend to lovesick friend is a vivid reminder that life’s wildest scripts can spark real romance. M’s divorce complicates his feelings, but their connection hints at potential. By gauging her readiness and confessing with care, he could flip this plot twist into a happy ending. Have you ever fallen for someone at the wrong time? How did you play it? Share your stories below to keep this heart-pounding chat rolling.

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