College Deans Threaten to Drop Student for Testifying at a Trial, Then Her Professors Step In

We all know that moment when bureaucratic red tape turns a difficult situation into an absolute nightmare. For one university student, navigating the aftermath of a traumatic event was challenging enough, but her college administration decided to create unnecessary obstacles. She was subpoenaed to testify against her attacker, a process requiring significant travel away from campus.

While her professors were more than willing to accommodate her exams and assignments, the higher-ups stepped in with a shocking ultimatum regarding her attendance. Curious how it all unfolded? The full story is right below.

College Deans Threaten to Drop Student for Testifying at a Trial, Then Her Professors Step In

[Repost]: My college says if I miss class to testify at my assault trial, they’ll drop me from my classes

The initial response offered a glimmer of hope, painting a picture of an empathetic faculty ready to support a student in crisis. Navigating academic responsibilities while dealing with severe personal trauma requires flexibility, and at first, it seemed like her instructors completely understood the gravity of the situation.

(IA) I was sexually assaulted (while home over a break, not by another university student), and the trial of my attacker starts in two weeks. I am a university student...

I’d spoken to my advisor and all my professors notifying them of the days I’d be out. Everyone was understanding, giving me take-home versions of any tests or work I’d...

My professor was required to get approval from the academic dean and dean of the college to issue a take-home midterm. His request for the take-home midterm was denied. When...

It would be approximately two of each class, maybe three depending on some court scheduling, and four of another class but it meets every day of the week.

In a shocking display of bureaucratic rigidity, the administration effectively equated a legal subpoena with hitting the snooze button. Instead of recognizing the mandatory nature of a court order, the leadership doubled down on their strict attendance policies, leaving the student in an impossible bind between the law and her education.

My professors were comfortable marking these as "reported absences," which basically means there was a justification like a doctor’s note or other official documentation. I showed the deans that I...

The dean said that "personal non-medical conflicts" could not be counted as reported absences and would be treated as unreported absences. So, it would be treated as the same thing...

Otherwise, I’d be dropped from my classes at the third absence and be on probation if dropped from two or more classes, per school policy. This attack took enough from...

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I do not want this man to derail my life further by pushing back my graduation date. I spoke to the Title IX office, who’d promised me they could help....

All my professors were ready and willing to work with me, and I was and am entirely capable of keeping up with the work. Do I have any legal recourse...

I also reached out to a local survivors group (similar to RAINN) who connected me to a wonderful attorney who facilitated between me and the legal services team at my...

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The tide finally turned when the very professors the administration tried to overrule formed an unexpected united front. Recognizing the profound injustice of the situation, the faculty and legal advocates combined their efforts to challenge the rigid institutional policies that threatened the student’s academic future.

Within a day of meeting with the school’s general counsel, my attorney and I were invited to meet with the deans who had made the initial decision. One of my...

He and my other professors submitted a letter on my behalf protesting the administration’s decision. They copied the board, ombudsman, legal counsel, and high-level members of the administration, which was...

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Between my professors’ incredible gesture and my showing up with an attorney raising flags, at the meeting I was given carte blanche to work out the details of my absences...

I’ll take my exams at school, just early, and two were able to give me modified assignments that could be done at home but still exemplified the same knowledge and...

The ombudsman is making sure the policy is being correctly and reasonably enforced, such as not being used to coerce students into violating a subpoena. The legal counsel is advising...

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What OP experienced directly connects to the severe emotional toll of bureaucratic inflexibility during a personal crisis. It is a textbook example of what psychologists call institutional betrayal. As Dr. Jennifer Freyd, the psychologist who coined the term, explains, this phenomenon occurs when an institution a person depends on for support or safety actively harms them or fails to respond appropriately to wrongdoing.

When an administration effectively weaponizes a student’s trauma against them—threatening to derail their education for responding to a legal subpoena—the psychological damage can sometimes rival the initial event. The university transformed from a safe harbor into another adversary she had to fight, compounding her stress significantly.

Fortunately, the situation also highlights the antidote to this trauma: institutional courage. While the deans failed her, the professors who rallied behind her, alongside the legal counsel who recognized the absurdity of the policy, provided the exact support OP needed. They proved that institutions are made of people who can choose to do the right thing.

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If you ever find yourself facing a similar toxic administration, remember to document every interaction thoroughly. Escalate the issue to an ombudsman or seek outside legal counsel, as professional advocacy often forces rigid institutions to reconsider their harmful policies.

This harrowing experience underscores how rigid bureaucratic policies can inadvertently re-traumatize individuals seeking justice. It is a stark reminder that empathy and common sense must prevail over blind adherence to the rules, especially when a student’s well-being and legal obligations are on the line.

Do you think the university should face broader consequences for their initial stance, or is the policy revision a sufficient resolution? And how can other institutions better train their leadership to handle such sensitive legal matters? Share your thoughts below!

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Community Opinions

Reddit came in hot—nearly unanimous in their outrage against the deans, with a handful of legal professionals chiming in to explain just how disastrous the administration’s stance was.

u/brobbins8470 Thank god this ended well but it should never have been an issue to begin with. Whoever made that initial decision should probably not be in their position anymore

OOP: Thank you, I hadn’t even considered the legal team because in my mind they’re there to protect the administration/are the administration. Yes, it's true that the college's legal team are...

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u/MyBonsaiAccount I hope OP also makes the university pay her lawyer fees for this needless display of power tripping by the Dean.

u/Desperate-Angle7720 The country I live in, all you‘d have to do is to notify the court that someone is trying to blackmail you into violating your subpoena and essentially trying...

u/GrizzRich I almost wish OP told the court that the college was going to punish her for testifying just so we could read what happened to the deans in question.

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u/Starry_Gecko I completely missed that this was 7 years ago at first, but I could absolutely see this happening today. Christ.

u/mod_elise My university treated me like an adult, as I was one. The classes were for me. If I chose to skip them, nobody cared. It always surprises me to...

u/breadfruitbanana I can’t find any other explanation for this chain of events apart from the Dean thinking  1. Women who get raped should STFU And 2. Women don’t belong in universities 

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u/dredreidel If you ever want to find a person who perfectly embodies the idea of “High Int, Low Wis.” academia is the perfect place to start.

u/CummingInTheNile Oh boy that judge is gonna have some fun ripping the dean and the school a new one, legally of course (pro tip, never piss off a judge, it...

u/pedanticlawyer They are correct that legal is there to protect admin and the school, but that includes protecting them from their own extraordinarily poor judgment.

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u/KindaDrunkRtNow I was about to say, it would be a shame if that information got out to the local news service. That would be the top story on the 6...

u/SmartQuokka I'm glad this worked out but i am dismayed at what it took to do so. Many other people would not have known how to go this far and...

u/marasydnyjade The school 100% shouldn’t have made this an issue. But, she also should have contacted the DA that was handling her case. I only do civil cases, but we...

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u/AuthorError Posts like this are the ones I am 100% sure are real, and I hate that so much.

And a few reminded everyone that the professors’ solidarity is the kind of everyday heroism we need more of.

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This story is a stark reminder of how quickly rigid policies can lose sight of basic human empathy. The administration’s initial threat to drop a student for fulfilling a legal obligation is baffling, but the swift intervention of her professors and legal counsel turned a potential tragedy into a triumphant precedent.

Do you think the deans were just blindly following policy, or did they actively fail to care about OP’s situation? And if you were in those professors’ shoes, how would you have handled the administration?

Share your hot take below!

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