AITA: My sister used all of my shampoo to make slime and I got angry?

A teenager was left shocked after discovering her expensive shampoo had completely disappeared overnight. The culprit turned out to be her younger sister, who had used the entire bottle while trying to make slime for an online trend. The situation quickly turned into a family argument when the older sister expressed how upset she was.

The shampoo was a high-end product she had been carefully using for months, hoping to improve the health of her hair. Replacing it would not be easy, especially since she had saved up to buy it herself. Meanwhile, her 12-year-old sister had used it all in a single attempt at a slime recipe she saw online. What made the conflict even more frustrating for the teen was her parents’ reaction—they brushed off the situation and accused her of overreacting.

‘AITA: My sister used all of my shampoo to make slime and I got angry?’

The poster explained how her haircare routine relied on a product she used sparingly.

I'm 16f, I use Olaplex shampoo and one bottle typically lasts me 4-5 months. My sister is 12, she's obsessed with slime, making it, buying it. She even has a...

The problem started after the younger sister tried a slime recipe she saw online.

She had seen a recipe on YouTube that involved using shampoo to make the slime so she decided to try it except she used my shampoo to make it as...

This wouldn't have been an issue with me if it was toward the end of the bottle and she only used a drop. Except she used pretty much the entire,...

The situation became even more frustrating when the teen realized the slime experiment failed.

I didn't realise until I went for a shower this morning but she used all of it. When I asked about it she said it was her, and to top...

I was angry because I can't afford to get this stuff again for months and my hair was finally starting to feel healthy again.

I expressed all of this and no one took it seriously. My parents even called me an a__hole for overreacting about this. AITA?

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Conflicts over personal belongings are common among siblings, particularly during teenage years when independence and ownership begin to matter more. In many households, these disagreements reveal deeper issues about boundaries and accountability.

In this situation, the older sibling’s frustration is understandable. High-end personal care products can be expensive, and using an entire bottle without permission crosses a clear line. For a teenager who saved money or carefully rationed the product, losing it all in one experiment can feel like a significant loss. The fact that the slime experiment failed likely intensified the frustration, turning the situation into something that felt wasteful rather than accidental.

On the other hand, younger children often experiment with trends they see online without fully understanding the value of the materials they use. This is where parental guidance becomes important. A balanced approach would typically involve acknowledging the older sibling’s feelings while also teaching the younger child about respecting others’ belongings. Moments like this can become learning opportunities about responsibility, empathy, and the consequences of using someone else’s property without asking.

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Here’s how people reacted to the post:

Many commenters strongly supported the teen and pointed out the cost of the product.

cillianellis − NTA. I'd be insisting that your parents pay to replace it. She's far too old to be stealing other people's s__t to make slime,

(as much as I do tend to agree with her that slime is pretty cool and fascinating), and your products (which it sounds like you purchased yourself) are not communal...

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Hereforthelaughs1234 − NTA - Olaplex is super expensive. Do your parents and sister even realize how expensive? I would show them both to help them better understand.

They should have your sister replace it (or do extra chores or whatever to “work it off”). They essentially allowed her to destroy someone else’s property with no consequence.

anathema_deviced − NTA. Your parents need to replace the shampoo and your sister needs to not use things that aren't hers.

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charryberry998 − NTA I’d be asking her to pay or your parents. That shampoo is not cheap

WebbieVanderquack − NTA, obviously. I have to be honest and say I can kind of relate to the interest in slime, but Olaplex is *expensive. * She needs to use...

Some users shared balanced perspectives and personal experiences with similar family situations.

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pinky-and-the-brainz − NTA. When I (27F) used to live at home with my siblings, my things would get taken and/or used all the time.

During the time when i was 15-19, i had my own part time job and made good money for my age, i bought my own “luxury items”: shampoos, conditioners, makeup...

among other things that i chose to keep around because i could now afford it myself. My siblings literally used to rummage through my things CONSTANTLY. and i hated it.

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it ended up being the reason i moved out because my parents just would not do anything about it. i eventually had to lock my more expensive valued items in...

and lock my bedroom door when i was gone. it was such a hassle. i do realize you are only 16 still but maybe keep your more valuable items out...

i know you shouldn’t have to, but if your parents are not coming up with a solution, that may be your only way of preserving your things. Good luck! !

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PlaneJaneLane03 − NTA. Is her Tik too monetized? She needs to replace it.

[Reddit User] − NTA but your parents reaction is pretty much standard for my house too, when I was young. Your shampoo isn't of any value to them,

therefore they aren't interested.  If your sister had used your mom's shampoo you can vet your mom would have flipped.

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Your sister should know better but she won't learn because your parents don't care enough about your belongings to have her face consequences.

It sucks, I know. I was a young aunt and my mother just didn't value my stuff at all and let the kids ruin it.

A few commenters reacted with humor and disbelief at the situation.

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hereForUrSubreddits − My brain went OOF when I read Olaplex. That must have hurt and it's your right to be upset. NTA.

NumbskullVitamin − Except she used pretty much the entire, new bottle. Did your parents not teach her the house rule of: Don't open something new unless the last one is...

I was angry because I can't afford to get this stuff again for months and my hair was finally starting to feel healthy again.

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So she took....the shampoo YOU bought with YOUR money to make a batch of slime that was a complete bust and it took an ENTIRE bottle of your shampoo to...

My parents even called me an a__hole for overreacting about this So, when this happens to you and you express concern and annoyance it's overreacting,

But if your sister did this to them and THEY went through the same emotions it's understandable and not overreacting???

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The double standards smh Welp, easy solution then, just use all of your family's shampoo until you can buy another one and next time hide it, whether under your bed,...

Just somewhere she won't be able to use it, reach it or see it Also have a talk with her sister and tell her why this isn't okay, my sister...

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but I've already explained to her that you can't just take people's things and use them to makes messes and create slime that's gonna dry up in 3 hours and...

This story highlights how small household conflicts can quickly turn into bigger arguments when people feel their belongings and efforts are not respected. For the teen, the frustration came from losing something valuable that she had carefully used for months.

At the same time, younger siblings experimenting with trends can lead to mistakes—especially when they do not fully understand the cost or importance of what they are using. Do you think the teenager’s reaction was justified? Or should situations like this be treated as normal sibling mishaps that families simply move past?

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