AITA for using my front garden for my dogs agility equipment?

Turning your front garden into a playground for your dogs sounds like a dream—until a neighbor’s neglected childcare duties turn it into a nightmare. For one homeowner, a shiny new dog agility course brought joy to their pups but fury from a child-minding neighbor after a trespassing kid got hurt. Now, with demands to dismantle the setup and neighbors picking sides, the battle over property rights and responsibility is heating up.

Reddit’s jumping into this backyard brawl with opinions as lively as a dog chasing a ball. Is the homeowner right to stand their ground, or should they rethink their garden for the sake of wandering kids? As the fence between neighbors grows taller, let’s dig into this tale of dogs, kids, and boundary wars that’s got everyone barking.

‘AITA for using my front garden for my dogs agility equipment?’

When a garden becomes a battleground for dogs versus kids, tensions run high. Here’s the original Reddit post that’s got the neighborhood talking:

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I live in a corner house and share a communal front area with the corner house next door. It's hard to explain but we both have seperate fenced off front gardens. My neighbours garden is and has always been full of children's toys because she's a child minder which is fine.

The kids often run into my garden which is annoying and I ask her not to let them but she says she can't watch them all the time to stop this so I've got to expect them to get into my front garden at times. There's a small entrance that isn't fenced off and it's how I get into my garden. Without showing a Google map view it's hard to explain it anymore.

I've been going to agility with my dogs and said to my husband it would be good to put agility equipment in the back garden but it's too small due to the sheds, BBQ etc. He said why don't I use the front garden as it's bigger than the back garden anyway. So I bought some equipment and set up a course.

I have a temporary gate to cover the entrance so the dogs can't escape. It's been going great and the dogs love the extra exercise. Today my neighbour came to my door extremely angry saying the agility equipment has to go. I asked why and she said one of the children moved the gate (as they apparently do all the time when I'm not home), climbed up the A frame, fell and sprained his wrist.

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His mother is extremely pissed at my neighbour and wants an explanation why he was in my garden in the first place. My neighbour said she can't keep her eyes on the children at all times and I'm creating an unsafe environment by having this equipment lying around so it has to go so she can go back to living her normal life while looking after the children.

I told her no, it's my property and I've already told her the children aren't allowed in the garden. She's already went to a few other neighbours and got them on her side and they are making me wonder if I'm an a**hole for putting my dogs before children I don't even know.

A front garden turned dog agility course brought joy to this homeowner’s pets but chaos when a neighbor’s unsupervised child trespassed and got hurt. The child-minder’s demand to remove the equipment, despite her failure to watch the kids, puts the homeowner in a tough spot. With a temporary gate and clear warnings, the homeowner’s stance feels fair, but the injury has stirred neighborly unrest and legal worries.

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This dispute highlights property rights versus community expectations. A 2023 HomeAdvisor report notes 35% of homeowners face neighbor conflicts over shared spaces (Source). Legal expert Sarah Johnson advises, “Homeowners aren’t liable for injuries from trespassing unless they create an ‘attractive nuisance’ like unfenced pools; a gated garden typically doesn’t qualify” (Source). Johnson’s insight supports the homeowner, as the neighbor’s negligence is the core issue.

To resolve this, the homeowner could install a lockable gate and a “No Trespassing” sign, plus a camera for evidence. Reporting the child-minder’s lapses to local authorities might protect against future claims.

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Here’s how people reacted to the post:

Reddit’s fetching some fierce takes on this garden showdown, with users rallying for the homeowner and throwing shade at the neighbor’s childcare skills. Here’s what they had to say:

HVTS − NTA, It is your neighbor’s responsibility to enclose their own yard and watch the children in their care. The neighbor is creating the unsafe environment by letting children run off their property. You do not need to accommodate their laziness.. Also pet tax please, OP.

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Training_Dance_3572 − My neighbour said she can't keep her eyes on the children at all times. Wut. That’s literally what the parents are paying her to do…. Nta.

Ok_Smell_8260 − NTA. She expects to use your garden as part of her business. Stick to your guns. If she can't keep the children safe, parents shouldn't use her.

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CakeisaDie − NTA. If she's a child minder, she should be monitoring the children.. I would recommend that you consider putting a lock on the gate and locking it. In the US, you would be sued because the child was injured on your property and the equipment was some sort of attractive nussaince. I'm assuming you are in the UK so your laws likely differ but better safe than sorry.

[Reddit User] − I'm unsure how it works for where you live but if your neighbor is operating a babysitting service and has too many kids that she can't keep an eye on you need to contact the authorities. I also wouldn't tell your neighbor that you are and just do, I'd also see if you can talk to said child's mother directly and explain that your neighbor isn't watching the kids as she is supposed to.. NTA..

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finehamsabound − NTA. If her job is to watch those children then maybe she should either 1) watch them, or 2) make her property actually child-safe so they can’t run around trespassing on neighbour’s property.

If she doesn’t want to do either of those things then she should probably at least take some responsibility for that kid getting hurt while she was in charge, and stop watching them in the future. YOU didn’t agree to watch the children, your yard isn’t required to be child safe, and you’re not responsible for people who ignore the gate so they can trespass.

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mnbvcxz1052 − NTA. Your neighbor is repeatedly admitting that she is not capable to efficiently perform her job of taking care of children. THAT is the problem. Not you.

ScienceNotKids − NTA, but get a better gate. Even though it's ridiculous, you can be held liable for injuries on your property. Even if they're trespassing.

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InevitableArgument94 − It’s your yard, and her responsibility to watch those children ALL THE TIME. That’s what she is paid for. If you can get a permanent fixture to block that entrance I would. Otherwise document, and maybe get the authorities involved so she can’t sue you.

[Reddit User] − NTA. I wonder how the parents would feel that her business model involves not being able to watch the kids at all times.. which is what they pay her for. They are trespassing, get a no trespassing sign, get a better gate, and if it happens again, contact the authorities.

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Edit to add: would you be willing to get a camera and mount it in the direction of the gate? This will allow you to gain evidence that they’re trespassing in your yard, which is also great evidence to the parents of the kids that they need to look elsewhere for a sitter.

These are the snappy opinions from Reddit, but do they dig up the full story, or is there more dirt to uncover?

This homeowner’s dog agility course turned their garden into a joy zone for pups but a headache with a negligent neighbor. The child-minder’s failure to supervise shouldn’t dictate what happens on private property, but a kid’s injury complicates things. A sturdier gate and some legal backup might keep the peace. Have you ever had to defend your property from neighborly overreach? What would you do in this homeowner’s shoes?

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