AITA for possibly destroying a a classmate’s grade?

The classroom buzzed with pre-winter break jitters, but a storm was brewing over a major paper. A 17-year-old junior, juggling deadlines, got a sneaky text from a classmate asking to “compare” their work. Smelling trouble, she sent her sister’s old paper instead—brilliant, but not hers. When the classmate copied it verbatim, the teacher’s eagle eye caught the plagiarism, slapping him with a zero. Now, he’s pointing fingers, crying foul over his “ruined future.”

Caught in a high school drama of trust and betrayal, the student faces a barrage of blame from her classmate and his crew. Readers can feel the sting—when does helping a peer cross into enabling a cheat? This tale of academic intrigue and unintended consequences pulls us into a relatable clash of ethics, loyalty, and teenage accountability.

‘AITA for possibly destroying a a classmate’s grade?’

Navigating the pressure of a major assignment, the Reddit user faced a tricky request from a classmate that led to unexpected fallout. Here’s her story:

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Context: I'm a 17F in my junior year of high school, this happened like 3 weeks ago So basically the weak leading up to winter break we had a HUGE paper due, it was worth a large part of our grades and it was basically a summation of all that we've done this semester regarding a book.

It was due the friday before we left, but on the monday before it was due, I had a classmate ask me (over text) if he could see my paper to 'compare,' naturally I was skeptical, so I just sent him a picture of a paper from my older sister who had this same teacher before (she did the same project as us).

She's way smarter than me so I thought it was going to be a better help anyways, but what I didn't expect was for him to copy it word for word. It absolutely destroyed his grade as the teacher recognized my older sister's writing (she was her favorite student) and gave him a 0. Basically, he and his friends have been blasting me and telling everyone I'm an a**hole for ruining 'his future,' but I think that I did no wrong. AITA?

High school assignments can be a pressure cooker, but this student’s quick thinking turned the heat on a would-be cheater. Sharing her sister’s paper was a clever dodge, exposing her classmate’s plan to plagiarize. His zero was self-inflicted, yet his blame game flips the script, painting her as the villain. The real issue? A lack of accountability, with the classmate dodging responsibility for his academic dishonesty.

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Plagiarism is a growing concern in schools. A 2019 study by the Josephson Institute found 59% of high school students admitted to cheating on assignments (source). This classmate’s actions reflect a broader trend of seeking shortcuts, often at others’ expense.

Education expert Dr. Denise Pope notes, “Integrity in academics builds character; cheating erodes trust” (source). The classmate’s plagiarism, not the student’s actions, tanked his grade. His accusations are a deflection, but they sting in a peer-driven high school world.

The student should stand firm, explaining she shared an example, not a cheat sheet. She could report the harassment to a teacher for support.

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Here’s how people reacted to the post:

Reddit’s dishing out some straight-A shade, and they’re not holding back. Here’s what the crowd had to say:

keelhaulrose − NTA. You didn't destroy his grade. He did. If you had sent him your paper his plagiarism would have been even more obvious, and he would have been caught either way.

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lucrece25 − In no way are you the arsehole! He was going to copy your paper and most likely claim that you copied his. He deserves his 0. He ruined his own future by plagiarizing and thankfully your teacher recognised your sister's work. NTA. Just tell him and his friends that he only has himself to blame.

alalal982 − NTA, he copied, he did it to himself.

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Papafynn − NTA ...... Ruined his future......nah. It’s time he learns to take some responsibility. You did abso-*effin*-lutely nothing wrong.. Word of advise.....next time just say no to such requests.

Phoecian − NTA. He's a plagiarist. If he wasn't gonna steal from you, he'd do it to somebody else. Who knows how many other papers he's stolen? And a 0 now will galvanize him not to steal intellectual property in the future. Perhaps the academic dishonesty will stick with him while he's applying for college (if he does apply) and make it harder, but you shouldn't blame yourself for that. He brought it on himself.

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jamer12 − Wait was his plan for you both to turn in the same paper? He would have been caught either way, completely NTA.

bionicfeetgrl − NTA. The plan was to f*ck you. He was gonna turn in the same paper as you. Best case scenario he claims you cheated and you get the zero. Worst case scenario you both get zeros or time to resubmit. Either way your hard work gets you nothing. You did the right thing.

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zookeeperpaige − NTA he ruined his grade by cheating.

ttystikk − NTA for sure; you showed him an example of what good work is supposed to look like, you didn't tell him to copy it.. His friends are the assholes for trying to blame you for his dishonesty- which reflects badly on them.. Time for you to find a better class of friends!

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[Reddit User] − NTA. You didn’t force your classmate to cheat. Don’t want to get in trouble for cheating, don’t cheat! Simple.
These Reddit takes are sharper than a freshly sharpened pencil, but do they ace the issue? Is the classmate’s meltdown justified, or is he just flunking accountability?

This classroom caper proves that shortcuts can lead to a dead end. The student’s savvy move exposed a plagiarist, but the backlash shows how quickly blame can shift. Should she feel guilty for his zero, or is he the architect of his own academic crash? How would you handle a classmate fishing for your work? Drop your thoughts below—let’s grade this drama together!

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