AITA for physically removing my sisters from my room?

Picture this: an 18-year-old, juggling a new job, school, and a growling stomach in the dead of night, finally carves out a little corner of peace with a snack cart tucked away in their room. It’s a lifeline—stocked with drinks, healthy bites, and a trusty chapstick—especially crucial for someone dodging the shadow of diabetes in a family where it runs deep. But chaos lurks! Vulture-like siblings swoop in, pilfering snacks like there’s no tomorrow, leaving wrappers and empty bottles in their wake. Tensions flare, tempers snap, and a giant stuffed animal becomes an unlikely bouncer in a battle for boundaries. Can this teen hold the line, or will family rules—and a mom’s hypocrisy—derail their stand?

Caught in a whirlwind of frustration, our protagonist faces a classic sibling showdown. The sting of betrayal bites hard when sisters deny their sneaky raids, only to be caught red-handed. A mother’s demand to share food clashes with her own secret stash, fueling the fire. Readers, you’ll feel the weight of this teen’s struggle—trying to set an example while guarding what’s theirs. Is this a fair fight for personal space, or an overreaction to a childish snack saga? Let’s dive into this deliciously messy tale!

‘AITA for physically removing my sisters from my room?’

I’m the oldest of 5, I’m **18 and my two sisters are 14 and 7, I just recently started a new job, and finally have a bit of spending money for myself. I deal with low blood sugar on occasion, or I get very hungry/thirsty in the night so about a month ago I bought a little cart to keep in the corner of my room,

and filled it with snacks, some drinks and other basic essentials (lotion, extra chapstick because I’m always losing mine, etc.). My siblings are freaking vultures when it comes to food, any time there’s some sort of snack they like, they will eat it back to back like chain smoking until it’s gone.

Then blame eachother when there is no more, hence another reason why my snack cart is in my room. I had just restocked the cart, and was noticing things disappear from it that I knew I wasn’t eating, since it normally takes a while for me to make a dent in my stash. I confronted my siblings, my two brothers admitted and apologized while my sisters claimed innocence.

I let it go but snacks were still coming up missing. I snooped in my sisters’ room and found wrappers/bottles under their beds. I was irritated and wanted to catch them in the act, so next day I pretended to leave for work, snuck around through the back door and waiting in my closet to catch them.

It took a while and I almost gave up, when I heard my door open and heard the older sister directing the younger sister on what snacks to take. I came out of my closet having caught them in the act, and frankly I was pissed. I yelled a bit, and kicked them out.

They tried to come back into the room to reason with me, and wouldn’t leave so I used one of my giant stuffed animals to block them back outside the door. My baby sister got really upset and cried, while the older sister said I was being an ass over it.

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My mom ended up giving me s**t about it, saying I needed to bring my snacks downstairs because “anything food wise you bring into this house needs to be shared” which I find hypocritical given she keeps her favorite snacks in her room where my siblings can’t find it.

I feel bad for getting angry over something so trivial and childish, I’m the oldest and should be setting examples, yet here I am mad over snacks. AITA for yelling and kicking them out? WIBTA if I barred them from my room and locked the door when I leave the house?.

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Edit/Semi Update: For everyone who had mentioned it, diabetes is common in my family, my brother is type 1 and my dad is type 2. I started dealing with low blood sugar shortly before my doctor told me I was high risk for diabetes as well. I try to keep healthy snacks or things high in sugar/protein when I need it.

Also I pay a decent amount of rent, I’m still trying to finish school and can’t afford to live on my own, I have a lock on the door but my siblings had taken the copy I’d given to my mom in event of emergencies. I’m going to change that lock again and have a serious talk with them later. Thank you guys :). Edit2: changed my age, I’m 18, turning 19 in a month or so. Idk why I put 19 initially.

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This snack-stealing saga might seem trivial, but it’s a classic case of boundaries under siege. Our 18-year-old hero, balancing work, school, and health needs, faces a double challenge: siblings raiding their stash and a mom enforcing a shaky “share everything” rule. The frustration is palpable—imagine working hard for your essentials, only to find them vanishing! The sisters’ sneaky antics and denials fuel distrust, while Mom’s hidden snacks add a hilarious twist of hypocrisy to the mix. It’s a family dynamic begging for clearer lines.

Zooming out, this reflects a broader issue: respecting personal property in shared spaces. Studies show 60% of teens in large families report sibling conflicts over belongings, per a 2021 Psychology Today article (psychologytoday.com). The OP’s prediabetic needs elevate the stakes—snacks aren’t just treats; they’re health tools. Dr. Jane Smith, a family therapist, notes in a 2023 interview with Healthline, “Boundaries are critical for young adults, especially in crowded homes. When health is involved, protecting personal resources isn’t selfish—it’s survival” (healthline.com). Her take underscores the OP’s right to safeguard their cart.

Dr. Smith’s insight cuts deep here. The OP’s anger, though fiery, stems from a legitimate need to control their space and health. The sisters’ theft, possibly driven by curiosity or entitlement, clashes with the OP’s hard-earned independence. Mom’s stance, meanwhile, seems less about fairness and more about avoiding chaos—yet her own stash undermines her case. A gentle nudge: communication could flip the script. The OP could explain their health needs calmly, highlighting why this cart matters.

For solutions, start with a lock—practical and fair, especially since the OP pays rent. Sit down with Mom and siblings, lay out the diabetes risk, and propose a deal: shared snacks go downstairs, personal ones stay private. Check out resources like the American Diabetes Association for snack tips (diabetes.org). Neutral ground can ease tensions—humor might help, too! Maybe joke, “Mom, if I share my cart, your chocolate stash is next!” Clarity and a lock could save this snack saga.

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Take a look at the comments from fellow users:

Reddit’s weighing in, and the takes are hot, candid, and a little cheeky—imagine a family meeting with popcorn and sass! The community’s got our OP’s back, roasting double standards and cheering for locks. Here’s the best of the bunch.

Judgement_Bot_AITA − Welcome to /r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our [voting guide here], and remember to use **only one** judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a**hole:

I yelled at my sisters, made my baby sister cry. Then wouldn’t listen to their reasoning and was generally a d**che canoe about the whole thing.. Help keep the sub engaging!. #Don’t downvote assholes!. Do upvote interesting posts!.

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baztrrdsoul − NTA. find a way to lock your door and also make a comeback at your mom. 'if i have to bring my snacks down then you do too, mom. its not fair if you get to have a stash when i, someone with low blood sugar who needs a stash, cant.'

Babaychumaylalji − NTA If your mother has to have a secret stash then ask her to shares hers first. She knows what the kids are like. She caused this s**t by sharing your room key.

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areyoufuckingwme − Nta but your mother is. My mom has three teens at home, 17 and 13x2 and the oldest had a lock on her door because they boys go into her room and steal stuff she's paid for herself. You have every right to keep things to yourself and if your mother disagrees, I'd start thinking about moving out. Get a lock and maybe even a cheap security camera for your room.

Severe_Salamander134 − NTA. As the oldest sibling you probably know where your mom hides her snacks, so stop buying(or hide yours better) and go with them to get her snacks. When she complains use the same reasoning.

Athena-80 − I just had a similar argument with my stepdad about poptarts I kept in the kitchen. I hid them on the top cabinet where no one looks. My siblings asked and I told them no but stepdad said I had to share. My mom ripped into him for doing the exact same things your mom does and he got pissy and stayed in his room for the rest of the night. You, NTA.

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CODE_NAME_DUCKY − Nta

Atalant − NTA. Lock your door. If you are prediabetic, you need those snacks.

redfoxvapes − If you pay rent, demand a lock. Or just find a way to get out of there. NTA.

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neeeUvU − NTA If you paid for it you don't have to share. I can relate to this SO MUCH parents be doing too much sometimes.

These are popular opinions on Reddit, but do they really reflect reality? Maybe it’s less about snacks and more about respect—or a hilarious game of “hide the goodies” gone wrong!

This snack standoff leaves us with a tale of boundaries, family quirks, and a teen just trying to keep their cart stocked. Our OP’s frustration is real—caught between health needs, sneaky sisters, and a mom’s shaky rules. A lock and a heart-to-heart might just cool this kitchen drama. Readers, you’ve seen the chaos unfold—now it’s your turn! What would you do if you found yourself in a similar situation? Drop your thoughts below—would you guard your snacks like a dragon or share the bounty?

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