AITA for not paying for something that broke when I was babysitting?

A family dinner takes a sour turn when a 16-year-old, roped into babysitting her aunt and uncle’s 4-year-old twins, faces a €900 bill. One curious toddler fished her uncle’s pricey smartphone from the couch cushions and dunked it in the toilet. Despite her inexperience and protests, her aunt demands she pay for the damage, while her uncle shrugs it off as his own fault.

Reddit’s buzzing with takes spicier than a kitchen mishap. This tale dives into family pressure, teenage responsibility, and the cost of trust, pulling readers into a relatable domestic drama.

‘AITA for not paying for something that broke when I was babysitting?’

My (16F) aunt and uncle came over for dinner, and asked me to babysit their kids (4 year old twins). I refused, I don't have any experience with babysitting and wouldn't know what to do. They kinda pushed me into it, since 'they babysat me when I was a kid, so it's nice to give back' so after talked a bit more I agreed.

They needed me from 10:00 to 22:00, so babysitting included making lunch/snacks/dinner/bathtime/putting them to bed. I was pretty nervous, and told them that, but they insisted I do it. So most of the day went okay. The problem came when I was cooking dinner.

I put them in front of the tv with a movie on, but one of them started wandering around and threw my uncle's smartphone (I don't know where he got it, my uncle thinks he left it inbetween the couch cushions) in the toilet. I fished it out and put it in a bag of uncooked rice.

My uncle thinks it's his fault and isn't mad, but my aunt is. She's insisting I pay for the phone (900 euros or so).  My mom thinks I shouldn't have to pay, my dad thinks I should offer to pay half. It's been an argument for a while now.

I personally don't think I should pay, I don't know how they expect me to watch two toddlers while cooking dinner knowing I never ever babysat before. Plus leaving an almost thousand euro phone laying around when they aren't home.. AITA for not wanting to pay?. Edit: since some people keep asking: I wasn't paid to babysit.

Family favors can spark unexpected battles, and this teen’s babysitting ordeal highlights the pitfalls of unclear expectations. Pressured into watching rambunctious 4-year-olds without experience, she faced an unfair demand to cover a €900 phone her cousin broke. Her aunt’s insistence ignores her inexperience and the uncle’s admission of fault, revealing a skewed sense of responsibility.

This reflects broader issues of family dynamics and childcare. A 2023 study by the American Academy of Pediatrics notes that 68% of inexperienced caregivers report feeling overwhelmed by unexpected child behaviors (source). The aunt’s pressure was irresponsible, setting the teen up for failure.

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Dr. T. Berry Brazelton, a childcare expert, said, “Children need safe environments, and caregivers need clear support” (source). The uncle’s negligence in leaving his phone accessible and the aunt’s manipulation created a no-win situation. The teen should stand firm, possibly offering a small gesture to keep peace, but her parents should mediate.

Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

Reddit’s serving opinions hotter than a hibachi grill. Here’s what they had to say: Talk about a family feud that’s pricier than a smartphone! Reddit’s rallying behind the teen, but the aunt’s demand keeps the drama simmering. Is she out of line, or should the teen chip in? This story’s a wild ride of blame and babysitting woes.

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TheMNdude - NTA - Your uncle is correct, he's to blame -- not just for leaving his own phone sitting around, but also for putting you in this position. If you have no experience babysitting, it was absolutely irresponsible for them to leave you alone with 4 year old twins for 12 hours.

Choactapus - NTA- They knew you weren't comfortable with the situation and lacked the experience to take on four year old twins for the day. They thought they were getting a good deal with free babysitting and it ended up costing them more than it would have if they would have gone with someone who had experience and charged money.. Also, what parent leaves their children for that amount of time with an inexperienced babysitter without taking his phone.

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shooter0213 - NTA. Your Uncle was right, it is indeed his fault.

suzyqknits - NTA. No way should you have to pay for it.

[Reddit User] - NTA: He should’ve left it somewhere he couldn’t reach. Not your mistake, it’s his. YOU didn’t break it, his kid did.

[Reddit User] - NTA - if you have toddlers you shouldn't be leaving fragile things just out and about

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Darktwistedlady - NTA Imagine being this entitled! First demanding you babysit, and when you decline they emotionally manipulate you into agreeing despite your objections about having no experience. Then demanding you pay for something their children broke because their home isn't child proof enough for an inexperienced babysitter. The audacity!

StupidTruth - NTA. You were pressured to babysit despite protests and lack of experience.. You didn’t do anything negligent. You’re not responsible for stuff broken on the job. They can hire somebody else if they didn’t like your performance.

orpheusoxide - NTA. They forced you to babysit their kids and now want you to pay for a 900 phone they left in reach of kids.. That's kind of what you get for forcing a teen with no experience to babysit two 4 year olds.

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drauch52 - NTA. Other adults agree with you that you don’t have to pay, including the person who’s phone it was. You had no experience, they were insistent, they left the phone there. You did what you could

Family favors can backfire like a bad recipe, and this teen’s babysitting stint turned into a costly clash. Her refusal to pay for her cousin’s phone-dunking disaster has sparked a heated debate. Was she right to stand her ground, or should she offer to split the cost? What would you do if pushed into a responsibility you weren’t ready for? Drop your thoughts below and let’s hash it out!

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