AITA for leaving a bad review and getting my guide fired?

A trekker on a 65-mile journey to Machu Picchu left a negative Yelp review after the group’s guide abandoned the final 15 miles. Instead of leading the last leg himself, the guide took the train to town while the cook—who spoke no English—guided the exhausted, wet, hungry group. Upon arrival, they couldn’t locate the guide, had no information about lodging or food, and were left anxious and desperate for basic needs.

When they finally reunited, the guide was energetic and immediately pushed for pizza instead of addressing their distress. Frustrated by the unprofessionalism and potential danger, the trekker posted an honest review citing abandonment and fear. Days later, the guide contacted the trekker’s wife on Facebook, claiming the review got him fired. The trekker now questions whether the truthful review made them the asshole.

‘AITA for leaving a bad review and getting my guide fired?’

The final leg of the trek went off-script.

Was on a 65 mile trek to Machu Pichu. Our guide said his name meant Panther because he was tough and strong. On the last leg of the trip he...

Arrival in town became chaotic and stressful.

We get to town, can't find him, can't eat, don't know where we are staying, have to s__t, getting worried, tired, wet, etc. He's excited and lively. We're exhausted and...

The review was honest, but the fallout was immediate.

Since we just had internet in town, I leave a bad review on Yelp saying we were abandoned, lost and scared at times. 2 days later he finds my wife...

This incident raises valid questions about professional responsibility, client safety, and the power of online reviews in service industries. The guide’s decision to send a non-English-speaking cook ahead while he took the train left clients—many exhausted and unfamiliar with the area—without leadership, communication, or basic information (lodging, food, meeting point). That constitutes abandonment of duty during a physically demanding trek where safety is paramount. The group’s resulting fear, hunger, and confusion were foreseeable consequences of his choice.

Posting a factual review describing the experience—abandonment, disorientation, and distress—was truthful and within the reviewer’s rights. Reviews exist to inform future customers; withholding criticism would mislead others. The guide contacting the wife on Facebook to complain about being fired crosses into harassment territory and shifts blame rather than accepting accountability.

Mitigating factors are unclear: was the train ride pre-planned and communicated? Did the cook know the route and accommodations? Absent that context, the guide’s actions appear irresponsible. The reviewer is not the asshole for sharing a genuine negative experience. Employers fire people based on patterns of complaints, not single reviews; if this cost him his job, other issues likely existed.

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Here’s what Redditors had to say:

Most commenters declared the reviewer NTA, viewing the guide’s behavior as unprofessional and potentially dangerous.

ASBF2015 − NTA. Sounds like he deserved to be fired (unless there were mitigating circumstances for taking the train).

Wouldn’t want him as my guide, probably did future guests a favor. Don’t take advantage of your employers, people. It’s all good until it’s very bad. Edit: Deleted accidental double...

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Cat_got_ya_tongue − NTA Sounds like you told the truth? That guy needs to take a hike in more ways than one.

HappyFriar − NTA For him to be fired, your review has to seem credible. For your review to seem credible, he has to already have complaints. In short, tough luck....

beesknees9 − I'm calling b__lshit OP, YTA 1. It is NOT 15 miles from the train station in Hidroeletrica to Aguas Calientes (the town at the base of Machu Picchu),...

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2. It's typical that one of the guides split off at this point so they can sort everything in Aguas Calientes for when you arrive. 3. You couldn't find him,...

You said yourself you were accompanied by the cook. If the two guides were having trouble reconnecting and it left you vexed because you were eager to rest, that's not...

It sounds like your guide wasn't a good communicator, but you're dramatizing/misrepresenting the situation which leads me to believe YTA

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ThunderChild247 − NTA - as long as your review was honest and not written in anger (or of it was written in anger, as long as it was at least...

Odds are he’d had other bad reviews, I doubt someone would get sacked for one bad review.

Several responses questioned details or realism but leaned NTA if the story is accurate.

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_09231994_ − Lmao NTA. What he did was incredibly irresponsible and unprofessional. Potentially dangerous and then contacting your wife is tacky.

But also wow that is the most American s__t you can do. Leave a Yelp review as soon as you get your hands on WiFi. You couldn’t have addressed him...

dalineman78 − This might be a little controversial but ESH. He probably shouldn't have left, but you did have someone there. You wanted to go through the experience of climbing,...

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You go to another country and don't speak the language, but don't prepare yourself. You kind of sound like the cancer that is cancel culture. You let one aspect define...

Seems a little bit entitled to me, but that might just be me. The Facebook thing he did was also unnecessary, but his actions doesn't justify yours.

[Reddit User] − Info: you say you guys get to town and can't find him. Then your next statement is he's excited and lively and says it's time for pizza....

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With out that info is it possible there was a miscommunication and the reason he had the cook take you guys for the end was so that he could secure...

A few kept it concise while firmly supporting the reviewer.

[Reddit User] − INFO - This was quite difficult to read, you jumped quite rapidly through it. You get into town, but you say you can't eat or don't know...

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Is there no places to eat at this town? You have to s__t, are there no toilets? He's excited and lively - ok? Did nobody say anything to him here?...

I find it hard to believe nobody mentioned to him their discontent. ... Personally. .. i think ESH just for how you handled the whole thing without telling him your...

Yes what he did was s__tty, and he is also an a__hole for finding your wife on facebook (which i have a strange feeling that you have made up for...

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itsanincredibleegg − INFO You say it was 15 miles, but others here are outlining it's only a two hour walk. What happened that made it 15 miles for you? Why...

Did he tell the group beforehand? What did you say? The cook? Your tour had its own cook? Are you sure it wasn't another tour guide who just did most...

How long were you in town before you found him? Did you find him, or did he find out? Or did the cook (who I believe was actually the second...

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If you don't speak the same language as the cook, how did you know this wasn't part of the plan all along? How many people in the group? You were...

(and possibly more people unless you and your wife did a solo trek with them?), how scared could you have been? Did you not have any money for a hotel...

This trekker’s review exposed genuine safety and professionalism concerns after being left without guidance in a remote area. The guide’s actions created the problem; the honest feedback simply informed others. Contacting the wife on Facebook to complain crosses into harassment.

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Have you ever left a negative review that led to serious consequences? Do you think guides should be held accountable for abandoning clients, even briefly? Should reviewers soften criticism to protect someone’s job? Share your thoughts below!

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