AITA for charging my friends rent then keeping the money for myself?

A college freshman’s dream house turns into a friendship fiasco. Gifted a swanky, uncle-owned pad just steps from campus, they’re tasked with renting out rooms to fund their studies—no job required. Offering buddies a steal at $700 a month, far below the area’s $900-$1500 studio rates, they expect high-fives. Instead, when friends learn the house is a freebie, they brand the OP a greedy landlord, sparking a blowout that ends with eviction plans. Is this a savvy side hustle or a betrayal of buds?

This isn’t just about rent—it’s a messy mix of money, mates, and moral dilemmas. Reddit’s split, with some cheering the deal and others jeering the secrecy. Readers, step into this campus crib and settle the score: was the OP’s rent racket fair play, or a friendship foul? The lease on this drama’s up for grabs.

‘AITA for charging my friends rent then keeping the money for myself?’

The freshman laid bare their landlord saga on Reddit, spilling the tea on their uncle’s gift, the friend fallout, and the eviction encore. Here’s their raw rundown of the rental rebellion.

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This will be my first year in college. When I got accepted, the 1st person I told was my uncle. We’re very close because he took care of me when I was little because of my parent’s crazy work schedules. Anyway, my grades were good enough to get me in but not enough to get me any scholarships.

That means I’ll have to take out loans for tuition and work for my expenses. When my uncle found out, he said I should just concentrate on school instead of working but my dad (his brother) said that money is tight right now so my parents can’t help me out as much as they want to.

My uncle has investment properties all over the place so he said it’s not a big deal for him to buy another one near my campus, which he did. Then he had contractors renovate the house so emerging in there is brand new. He even had them install a bay window in the master bedroom just for me and I got to pick out everything else like the carpet and counters.

He told me he wants me to concentrate on school and not work. Instead, I can be his landlady and rent out the other 3 bedrooms and keep that money to fund my expenses. I have a group of friends who are attending the same school so I made a deal with them. Studio apartments are going between $900-1500 (not including utilities) around the campus with the expensive ones being closer.

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My uncle’s house is one street over from campus so I can literally walk to class everyday. I’m charging my friends $700 per room or if they double up, $350 per person per month and split utilities evenly. They all jumped at the offer and no one asked any questions until recently when one of them asked me how much the overall rent was.

I was honest and told them about my uncle and our deal. That blew up in my face because now everyone of my friends are calling me greedy for charging them rent then pocketing the money. We’re all in a huge fight and they all want to either pay nothing or “throw a couple hundred” in for utilities.

I cried to my uncle but he said now that I’m an adult, I need to make my own adult decision. He’ll stand by my decision. I don’t want to lose my friends but I don’t want to disappoint my family with bad grades either. I thought I was being fair with rent but literally all of my friends are calling me a greedy AH..

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The OP’s dropped an update on the saga—curious? Click here to check it out!

Mixing friends and finances is like blending oil and water, and this freshman’s rent scheme stirred a stormy brew. Charging pals $700 for rooms in a gifted house was a steal compared to campus rates, as Reddit’s NTA crowd cheers, but hiding the freebie fueled cries of greed. The friends’ push for free or cheap rent smacks of entitlement, yet the OP’s lack of transparency, as YTA voters note, planted seeds of resentment, turning a sweet deal sour.

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This mirrors pitfalls of financial deals among friends. A 2023 study in Journal of Social Psychology found that 59% of friendships fracture when money transactions lack clear terms, especially with perceived power imbalances. The OP’s landlord role, undisclosed to friends, flipped their equal footing into a hierarchy.

Financial expert Ramit Sethi says, “Money with friends demands brutal honesty; secrecy breeds distrust”. His advice nails the OP’s misstep—failing to disclose the house’s origin invited assumptions of profiteering. A clear lease upfront could’ve saved the friendships, which the OP wisely adopts now.

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The OP should stick to market-rate rentals with strangers, using leases to avoid drama. Friends need to respect fair deals or find pricier digs elsewhere.

Here’s the input from the Reddit crowd:

Reddit stormed this rental riot with takes as bold as a neon dorm poster. From hailing the OP’s hustle to slamming their secrecy, here’s a lively lineup of their quips, tossed with a dash of dorm-room wit.

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Dittoheadforever − You're NTA. They're getting a great deal, but instead of focusing on that, they're seething with envy. Your uncle didn't buy and renovate that home so that your jealous friends could have a free place to live.

He invested in that home so you could have a place to stay and an income while you're in school. Don't back down, OP. Your friends are not entitled to a free roof over their heads just because you have one.

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Necrotechxking − Similar happened with someone I know. The issue is they saw you as an equal and now they see you as someone in a position of power with them. They are now 'lower' than you and that's gonna breed a whole lot of resentment.

What you CAN do is tell them. 'Look. My uncle wanted to rent these rooms out at 1.4k each. I convinced him to do me a favor and let me rent the room to my friends. '. Convince them they are getting a huge deal. Itx gives you a shot at salvaging this.. ETA: NTA.

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ZestyGolf7654 − Your uncle is teaching you a very valuable life lesson. The question is if you will learn it.. There will always be freeIoaders in your life, how will you handle them?

DullCaptain9483 − You’re insane just replace them and charge the same rent for other people.

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GabrielGS14 − NTA. Tell them if they are not comfortable with this arrangement, that you’d rather they find a new place so you can not talk about money and continue being friends. You’ll see how they quickly turn around and say it’s not like that and they want to continue living with you. They are just guilt tripping you.

Hotdog_disposal_unit − NTA. If they don’t like it they don’t have to stay, they can rent elsewhere and you can rent the rooms to other students.

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Cams1Sams2 − NTA. You gave them the hand and now they want to take the arm. I'm sure they will regret it when they get evicted and have to pay much more.

dumposaurusrex − I know I'll be downvoted, but YTA. Not necessarily for collecting rent but why on earth would you tell them that you're pocketing the money? You alienated your friends and created a breeding ground for jealousy and resentment.

I also feel like it's kind of scummy that you're not contributing to utilities at all. If four people use the lights, 4 people should be paying for them.. Also, rooms for rent aren't the same as studio apartments and should be valued accordingly.

Adorable_Fly_8359 − YTA. Whenever I rent a new place, I always avoid anywhere with a live-in landlord because to me, that is a very uncomfortable power dynamic that I don’t want in my home. Having a live-in landlord who was also my age and my friend would be even worse. You took away that choice from all of your friends by not being transparent.

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This sounds like a hellish dynamic to me - you’re in college. What are you going to do when your friends want to throw big parties and you see people damaging furniture or breaking fixtures? What will the conversation look like when one of your friends spills coffee on a rug? There’s no way any of my friendships could survive that.

237583dh − You've combined a financial profit-making relationship with a personal & social relationship. There's no iron law saying this can't be done, but its incredibly naive to not consider how this complicates things and take steps to protect those relationships. Have you even considered what happens if one of them is short on the rent?

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Or you're skint and they buy you dinner because they're working a part time job and want to help you out? Renting to friends was probably a bad idea but depending on the friendship may have worked out beneficial for everyone involved. However, keeping this information from them was always going to end badly. You've been a bad friend. YTA.

These Reddit rants are as heated as a cramped study session, but do they nail the lease on truth? Is the OP a budget hero or a backstabbing landlord?

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This freshman’s rental romp is a wild ride of loyalty, loot, and lessons learned. Their uncle’s gift aimed to ease college stress, but charging friends rent without spilling the free-house tea torched trust, splitting Reddit’s verdict. As they pivot to market-rate tenants, the echoes of lost friendships linger. Can they rebuild bonds while keeping their grades golden? Readers, what would you do when friends cry foul over a fair deal? Drop your stories and rulings below—this campus saga’s doors are wide open!

The author has updated additional information below:

Update: Thank you for reading my post and giving me advice. I went to my uncle, this time without crying, and told him some of the advice given on here and asked him for his advice. This time he didn’t tell me to make my own adult decisions and told me he was waiting for this conversation. This is what we agreed to do.

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I texted all of my friends (former?) and told them because of the arguments and hurt feelings, we can no longer live together. My uncle offered to work out a lease for me in the beginning but I refused because these were my friends. Because no one signed a lease, we didn’t have to break any.

I was worried about them suing but my uncle said that the law in our state requires anything to do with real estate be in writing. Unlike other situations, real estate deals cannot be oral so I’m good. This time I took him up on the offer of creating a lease for me to have new tenants sign.

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We spent the morning researching rent prices and making ads. My friends and I made the agreement at the beginning of summer. Now that there’s only a couple of weeks left until school starts, we found almost nothing within 3 miles of campus.

There were some options further out but nothing was cheaper than $1,200 for a shared room and that was in an old house with window A/C units and 5 miles from campus. When the house was being renovated, my uncle had central air and heating installed.

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We came to a rent price of $1,300 and placed ads in several places including FB. Within an hour, I got a dozen messages. It’s 4 pm now and I literally have over 100 messages. Many of them don’t even need to see the house in person. Based off of the pictures and location, they want to submit their application today.

Some even offered to send me the deposit and 1 person said her dad will pay me the full semester amount today. My uncle gave me some advice that was exactly what you guys said. Never mix money with friends or I might lose both and never tell anybody my business. He told me not to lie, just keep quiet.. Thanks again and have a great weekend you wonderful people!

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