AITA for causing my former tutor to lose the majority of her clients?

Imagine a high schooler, hunched over her desk, sweating over an essay about John Proctor from The Crucible. With her grade teetering on the edge, 17-year-old Sarah books sessions with Pam, the town’s go-to tutor, expecting guidance and wisdom. Instead, Pam strolls in with a prewritten essay, urging her to copy it like it’s no big deal. Shocked, Sarah cancels the next session and spills the tea on Nextdoor, sparking a viral firestorm that torches Pam’s client list.

This isn’t just a tale of a bad tutoring session—it’s a modern-day morality play. Sarah’s post exposed Pam’s shady shortcut, but at what cost? With Pam losing 80% of her clients in a tough economy, Sarah’s left wondering if her petty streak went too far. Readers, buckle up for a story that’ll make you question where honesty meets consequence.

‘AITA for causing my former tutor to lose the majority of her clients?’

I (f17) had this huge essay a couple weeks ago. It was an argumentative essay on the character John Proctor from the crucible, if I thought he was a good or bad person and why. If I got an F on this essay it would bring my grade down from an A to a D and I’m not good at writing essays so I decided to book myself a couple sessions with a very popular tutor in my town, Pam, to help me.

I booked myself 2 sessions at $65 an hour so I expected her to help me draft an outline and get quotes from the book and just make sure I was doing it right. Instead she showed up to my house with a prewritten essay and told me to copy it. That was the entire session.

I canceled the second session and posted on nextdoor about my experience working with her and asked if anyone else had similar experiences. My post went nextdoor viral and a lot of parents saw my post.

Pam texted me and told me to take down my post because she was losing clients but I was feeling kinda petty so I decided to keep it up. Well, Pam texted me a couple days ago to say that thanks to my post,

she lost around 80% of her clients (most of her clients are younger kids so I guess their parents saw the post and asked the kids what they did with Pam). I feel kinda bad because we’re in a pandemic and it’s really hard to get jobs and I basically made Pam lose her job so I wanted to know if I was the a**hole.

Handing a student a prewritten essay isn’t tutoring—it’s a shortcut to academic disaster. Sarah’s decision to call out Pam on Nextdoor was bold, driven by betrayal and a gut sense of right and wrong. Pam’s push for plagiarism wasn’t just lazy; it risked Sarah’s academic future. Her viral post, while petty in tone, served as a public service, exposing a scam that could’ve harmed more students.

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Academic integrity is no small matter. A 2021 study by the International Center for Academic Integrity (ICAI) found that 68% of high school students have engaged in some form of cheating, often due to pressure or opportunity. Pam’s actions fed into this cycle, offering a cheat code instead of skills. Dr. Donald McCabe, an ethics expert, once said, “Integrity is taught through example and accountability” (Academic Integrity). Sarah’s post held Pam accountable, but it also sparked a debate about fairness.

Pam’s loss of clients reflects the market correcting itself—parents want tutors, not paper mills. Sarah could soften the blow by offering Pam a chance to explain privately, but she’s not obligated to protect someone who misled her. Moving forward, Sarah might suggest schools vet tutors more carefully to prevent such scams, ensuring students get real help.

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Here’s what the community had to contribute:

The Reddit squad rolled in with pitchforks and applause, serving up spicy takes on Sarah’s tutor takedown. Here’s the unfiltered scoop from the digital peanut gallery:

[Reddit User] − NTA, she was a tutor and told you to plagiarize. Not only is it a surefire way to fail, it does nothing to help you learn how to write and research future essays.

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[Reddit User] − NTA.. I think I understand why she's so popular, though.

AmethysstFire − NTA. ***You*** did not cause her to lose her job, ***her actions*** did. What she had you do was plagiarism and could have gotten you into a lot more trouble.

reedandsue − NTA. She’s running a scam and you killed it.

GAKDragon − NTA.. Why do people think they're immune from the repercussions of their own ILLEGAL actions?. What's the saying? Commit the crime, do the time?

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rockpaperllama − NTA. If anything, you've saved these parents and others from wasting money on a 'tutor' that wasn't teaching or tutoring anything, and was instead asking you to plagiarize an essay, which she could have even plagiarized from somewhere else or paid someone for.

Not only is it likely those kids weren't learning anything, but it was only a matter of time before someone else outted her for bad practices. I understand you feeling compassion because of these hard times, but if she's going to offer her services she needs to provide the expected service.

Also, with so many people struggling financially, it's not okay for them to be paying someone to help them or their kids only to get what you got from her. So think of their financial situations, too. We're struggling and I can't imagine trying to pay for a tutor for my nephew, only to find out she was not really tutoring anything. You're definitely NTA here!

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CakeisaDie − NTA. Academic Integrity Whatnot.

[Reddit User] − NTA.. You could be expelled for copying an essay. Your post constitutes a warning - a public service.

holisarcasm − NTA. She is not tutoring kids as she claims, she is selling them papers. The parents are paying (or at least most of them probably are) with the impression that she is actually teaching the kids how to do an assignment so they can do them in the future by themselves when in fact she is not teaching them at all. She is setting them for future failure and to get more money out of the parents. She deserved to be called out.

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illogicalfloss − You’re solidly NTA. Academic cheating isn’t really in vogue anymore.. 

Redditors hailed Sarah as a whistleblower, slamming Pam’s plagiarism scheme as a scam deserving exposure. Some saw her post as a lifesaver for parents wasting money, while others noted the irony of Pam’s popularity. But do these fiery comments capture the full story, or are they just cheering the drama? One thing’s clear—this tutoring fiasco has the internet buzzing.

Sarah’s story is a wild ride through ethics, pettiness, and consequences. By exposing Pam’s plagiarism push, she protected others but tanked a tutor’s livelihood in a tough economy. Was it justice or overkill? Maybe a private talk could’ve softened the blow, but Pam’s actions set the stage. What would you do if a trusted mentor betrayed you with a shortcut that could cost your future? Share your thoughts below!

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