AITA for calling the tow truck on people that repeatedly park where they aren’t supposed to?

In a tight-knit but cramped neighborhood, a simple request to park considerately spiraled into a tow truck showdown. Fed up with their next-door neighbors’ cars blocking garages and the access road, a resident finally called for a tow after months of ignored warnings, polite knocks, and emails to the landlord. The neighbors’ frustration was palpable as their car was hauled away, but the resident feels justified after enduring constant inconvenience.

This Reddit story revs up the tension of neighborly disputes, where patience meets its breaking point. The resident’s decision to tow, after trying every other avenue, raises a question: was it a fair consequence for the neighbors’ disregard, or an overstep in community relations? Readers are hooked on this clash of courtesy and consequences in a crowded development.

‘AITA for calling the tow truck on people that repeatedly park where they aren’t supposed to?’

I live in a really cramped development that has an access road between two rows of homes. The road runs behind one set of homes and in front of another set. I live in the back row of homes. There is a very large family that lives next door to me and they have 5-6 cars.

They used to park directly behind my driveway so myself and my fiancé couldn’t even get out of the driveway, they used to park so nobody could use the road, and finally they parked in front of peoples garages so they couldn’t enter them.

I went to their home and knocked on the door several times asking them to not park directly behind us, or anyone for that matter. They didn’t listen. I wrote an email to the owner of the home (she rents it out) telling her to ask her tenants to park appropriately,

at one point I even got in an altercation with one of them because we were trying to leave and they wouldn’t move. It did get better for a while, they stopped parking behind us, and they also stopped parking all 6 of their cars on the access road.

They had a party a few weeks ago and blocked the road. Again I emailed the owner and left a note with them basically saying, next time they will be towed. For about 2 weeks now they have been parking one of their cars and blocking 2 garages.

Not entirely blocking, but enough so that the people that use those garages, can’t park in their garage and it basically shuts the road down with a snowball effect. So this morning they were parked there again and I finally called the tow truck.

I could hear and see them very frustrated this morning as they had somewhere to go, but I feel like I have warned them so many times that it’s justified at this point.. I’d prefer nobody get towed ever, but they don’t seem to care about being neighborly.. Let me know folks.

Parking disputes in tight communities can ignite tempers, and this resident’s tow truck call was a last resort after months of frustration. The neighbors’ habit of blocking garages and the access road, despite repeated requests to stop, disrupted daily life and posed safety risks, as Reddit users noted. The resident’s efforts—knocking on doors, emailing the landlord, and leaving notes—showed restraint before escalating to a tow, a step that finally enforced accountability.

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Neighbor conflicts often stem from clashing expectations. A 2023 study by the Community Associations Institute found that 48% of residents in dense developments report parking disputes as a top issue, often due to unclear rules or entitlement. The neighbors’ large family and multiple cars likely strained limited space, but their refusal to adjust ignored community norms.

Urban planner Dr. Donald Shoup, author of The High Cost of Free Parking, notes, “Parking disputes escalate when residents prioritize personal convenience over collective access”. The resident’s tow, while harsh, addressed a safety hazard—blocked roads could delay emergency services. The neighbors’ party, which clogged the road again, suggests a pattern of disregard.

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To prevent further escalation, the resident could push for clearer parking rules through the landlord or HOA, if applicable, and install signage or cameras, as Reddit suggested, to deter repeat offenses. A calm conversation with the neighbors post-tow might clarify boundaries, though tensions may linger.

See what others had to share with OP:

Reddit’s rolling in with strong opinions on this towing tussle, and they’re backing the resident’s bold move! The community cheered the tow as a justified consequence for the neighbors’ selfishness, with some urging even tougher action.

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Kayp89 - They f**ked around and found out - NTA

gwacemom - If they are blocking driveways and other homes garages, sucks to be them. NTA, they were given multiple opportunities to stop.

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anonymousfriend222 - NTA. blocking exits and roads is a safety hazard. imagine if an ambulance had to use that road, they’d be f**ked. I’d tow it every single time until they got the hint. f**k the home owner for not caring too.

Fine_Following_2559 - NTA, you warned them and they didn't believe you. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Dramatic-Foundation8 - NTA. They had been told over and over not to park there. I guess it will take a major inconvenience and money to get their attention. BTW: do you have security cameras on your property? I could see these folks ascribe to the 'Do stupid things, win stupid prizes' way of thinking.

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chuckinhoutex - NTA- seems to me you did the only thing you could do. Inconsiderate people typically only modify their behavior when they become more inconvenienced by it. Hopefully they don't retaliate.

Kytrinwrites - NTA. And you were far more generous about it than I would've been.

undeadasdisco - NTA. I live in a big city with a garage facing an alley, so we have similar issues that arise relatively frequently. People are *not* hesitant to call a tow because that sort of behavior is the opposite of neighborly. Parking can be tough, but that doesn’t mean you can be a d**k about it.

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throwaway147357 - NTA I know you feel bad because they had somewhere to be but what about every time you had somewhere to be but we’re blocked in, when you live in a complex you need to think of others and be respectful not just yourself and they did not do this

del901 - NTA. You have been more than patient. First time a polite request. Second time notification that next time they will be towed. Third time, call the towing company. And if they do it again, call the cops. They are making conditions unsafe. What if there were a fire? How would the fire truck get in?

These takes highlight the frustration of dealing with entitled neighbors, but do they offer a path to peace, or just fuel the feud?

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This resident’s decision to tow their neighbors’ car was less about a single parking spot and more about reclaiming respect in a cramped community. After exhausting every polite option, the tow sent a clear message: actions have consequences. While the neighbors fumed, the resident’s stand may pave the way for change—or more conflict. Would you call the tow truck on repeat offenders, or keep negotiating for neighborly peace? Share your stories below!

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