AITA for saying things my wife gives our infant in front of our child’s doctor?

Imagine a sleepless night, a 2-month-old screaming, and me (say, 30M) begging my wife (maybe 29F) to stick to formula. She’s been dishing out mashed potatoes, applesauce, sweet tea—stuff our pediatrician banned until 4-6 months. Baby’s constipated, wailing, and my wife calls it “colic,” shrugging off the doc’s orders.

I sneak a bottle; she flips. At the checkup, she lies—“just formula”—and I spill it all: the food, the fights. Doc says stop, wife’s pissed, calls me a rat, and now I’m banished to my parents’. AITA for outing her?

‘AITA for saying things my wife gives our infant in front of our child’s doctor?’

This is a gut-wrenching standoff. My wife’s playing chef with a 2-month-old’s tummy, ignoring science—babies need formula or breast milk early, not table scraps (AAP, 2023). Dr. William Sears warns, “Premature solids can scar digestion long-term” (from The Baby Book). Our girl’s misery—screaming, constipation—screams evidence, yet my wife’s “I know best” trumps it. I snapped at the doc’s, sure, but her lie forced my hand—truth over truce.

The rift? She’s dug in, maybe postpartum fog (10-15% of new moms face it, Mayo Clinic), while I’m desperate to protect our kid. Her “ratted me out” dodge reeks of guilt—she knows she’s off. I could’ve cooled my “twat” jab, but her banishing me? Overkill. Next? I stay, supervise feedings—CPS looms if this persists. Readers, am I the jerk for snitching, or is she for starving sense?

Here’s the feedback from the Reddit community:

Reddit’s unanimous: I’m not the asshole. They’re horrified—wife’s risking baby’s health, lying to the doc, and gaslighting me. They shout abuse, urge intervention—some say grab the kid and bolt. Postpartum’s floated, but her stubbornness wins no sympathy. Consensus? I’m right, she’s reckless—protect the baby, stat.

 

So, AITAH? I blew her cover, called her out—harsh, maybe—but our daughter’s cries drown out regrets. Wife’s mad, I’m exiled, yet her “colic” excuse holds no water against a suffering infant. Should’ve bitten my tongue? Maybe. Let her harm our kid? Never. If your spouse fed your baby junk and lied, would you hush or holler? Weigh in—let’s bottle this up!

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