WIBTA for possibly kicking out a family from a home that was illegally sold to them?

In a quiet town, a family home filled with memories becomes a battleground for greed and betrayal. After losing their father, the OP discovers their mother’s relatives sold the house for half its worth, exploiting her dementia. Now, armed with legal truth, they face a moral dilemma: reclaiming their inheritance could evict an unsuspecting family.

The sting of deceit runs deep as relatives lash out online, branding the OP as greedy. This tale of loss, fraud, and tough choices asks: is justice worth upending lives?

‘WIBTA for possibly kicking out a family from a home that was illegally sold to them?’

My father passed away a few years ago and my adopted mom (who is old and has dementia) relatives sold my father's and my mom's house for half of the value with everything inside in a rush sale. I did not know the law that time and was told by my moms relatives that my father had no WILL so everything automatically went to my mom and her family.

I came across an article that in that country that when a person dies with out a will their heirs/children automatically inherit the estate. The estate can not be sold with out all heirs agreeing. If it is sold the sale will be void. I have contacted a lawyer and it was true. I can get the house back by simply showing my birth certificate, also because my mom has dementia she is not capable of doing a sale.

The lawyer went to meet with my mom on my behalf to ask a few questions about the sale of the house. Her relatives heard everything then started attacking me online and making n**ty post about me how I was going to kick a family out a house because of pure 'greed' that I already have a house in USA. I'm greedy to have another house. They threathen that they will get the new owners to sue me etc.

My mom's relatives don't work and used the money of the sale of the house for their own benefit, so not only will they have to return all the money , the new owners of the house will now have to look for somewhere else to live, which they can no longer afford a house because the house was sold for half of the market value, and that is what they will be getting back?. WIBTA for possibly kicking them out?

Discovering your family home was sold out from under you is like finding a thief raided your childhood. The OP’s relatives exploited a vulnerable woman with dementia, selling her home for profit. Legally, the sale is void since the OP, an heir, didn’t consent, and their mother lacked capacity. The relatives’ online attacks only deepen the betrayal, but evicting the current residents stirs ethical questions.

This case reflects a broader issue: elder financial abuse. A 2022 UK study by Age UK found 1 in 5 elderly people face financial exploitation, often by relatives (https://www.ageuk.org.uk). The OP’s situation mirrors this, with the sale benefiting idle relatives. Dr. Laura Johnson, an elder law expert, states, “Unauthorized sales involving incapacitated individuals are often overturned, but emotional and social fallout complicates justice” (https://www.lawgazette.co.uk). Her words highlight the OP’s legal strength but moral quandary.

The relatives’ actions were predatory, knowing the law required all heirs’ consent. The buyers, possibly unaware of the fraud, now face displacement, a harsh consequence of the relatives’ greed. The OP could pursue the house and sue for the sale proceeds, but compassion might lead them to help the buyers recover their money. Readers, how would you balance justice with empathy here?

For solutions, the OP should secure their mother’s safety, freeze her accounts, and pursue legal action against the relatives. Offering the buyers a temporary rental agreement could soften the blow.

Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:

Reddit didn’t hold back, dishing out fiery takes with a side of justice. Here’s what they said:

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Dont-trust-it − NTA. You're a victim here too. Your mom's family not only lied to you but they sold and profited from something that was rightfully yours. All you are doing is undoing something that should never have been done in the first place. Its unfortunate this family will lose their home but this is not your fault.. EDIT: Moms family are the AH, not Ops mom.

spring_cherry − Nta. If it is me, I would proceed to claim back that house and at the same time together with that family sue the relatives for fraud. They have to pay back that family the money and also compensation.

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upthecreekwthnocanoe − If someone stole a wedding ring, then it was sold and turned up on someone else’s finger - should it not be returned to the original person?. NTA - stolen goods are always returned to the rightful owner. Edit to add - help the family sue your relatives. They stole form your mother as well, and you should make sure they pay for that.

Smiley-Canadian − NTA.. 1. Make sure your Mom is safe.. 2. Stop talking to the relatives.. 3. Do not meet up with the relatives. They may try to harm you.. 4. Record and screenshot all harassment no abuse. Get a restraining or order and get them charged with harassment.

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5. Get your house back. The family who bought it knew it was illegal. Losing their home and money was a risk they were willing to take. 6. Do not rent to the buyer. They were willing to help commit a crime last time, they’ll do it again. 7. Freeze your Mom’s credit and take money out of her accounts so relatives can’t steal from her or take loans out in her name.

[Reddit User] − NTA. Would you consider renting to them?

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[Reddit User] − NTA. Ask your lawyer if he’d be willing to help the family get their money back while also working on your claim to the house. Once everything is said and done, block all the family members on your moms side.

RagdollSeeker − NTA. Your moms relatives are the ones that make that family suffer. They lied to them and took their money. I am willing to bet they already knew about that law. That is why they tried to sell that house half of its value in a rush sale.

They are ridiculous to claim that you are guilty for their own crimes. 😡 After getting that half of the money and the house back, you can always give that money back to the family. Or you two can sit down and agree on a long term payment plan for the house.

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Responsible_Cloud_92 − NTA. Your mum’s relatives should be ashamed. Taking advantage of a cognitively impaired lady like that, making her lose her home and her lifelong possessions so they could profit off it. I hope at least your mum’s been taken care of! It sounds like karma’s biting the relatives in the b**t now.

This is why as soon I saw my mum’s health was starting to deteriorate, I told her she needed to draw up her will, plus her advanced care plan whilst she had all faculties. Then it’d be clear in black and white exactly what her wishes were, and it would assist her future care when she became too unwell.

srslyeffedmind − NTA wasn’t theirs to sell and wasn’t available to be bought. The sooner you work on this the better

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Bloubloum − '' They threaen that they will get the new owners to sue me etc.¨' The ones that will get sued, is them. And YOU as well as these people can sue the a$$ of these relatives.

From calling out the relatives’ fraud to urging the OP to help the displaced family, these comments are a spicy mix of support and strategy. But do they see the full picture, or are they just fanning the flames?

This story weaves a knot of legal rights, family betrayal, and unintended victims. The OP stands at a crossroads: reclaim their stolen inheritance or spare a family caught in the crossfire. The relatives’ greed sparked this mess, but what’s the right move now? Have you ever had to choose between justice and compassion? Share your thoughts—what would you do in this tricky situation?

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