AITA for only crediting myself in a paired project thus causing my classmate to fail?

In a flurry of last-minute typing, a 14-year-old boy races to finish a crucial school project, his WhatsApp messages to his partner, Jenna, unanswered. With the deadline looming, he completes it solo, erasing her name from the cover page after her zero contribution. The fallout? Jenna gets a zero, fails the subject, and faces holiday classes, sparking her fury and his guilt. Did he snitch, or stand up for fairness?

This story zips into the high-stakes world of school group projects, where teamwork can make or break grades. The boy’s decision to credit only himself feels like a bold claim to his hard work, but Jenna’s failure casts a shadow. Readers are pulled into a tense debate: was his move a justified stand, or a harsh blow to a classmate? It’s a tale of accountability, deadlines, and the cost of going it alone.

‘AITA for only crediting myself in a paired project thus causing my classmate to fail?’

This happened a while ago but my classmate is still mad at me for this so I’ve decided to post here. I (14M) was assigned to do a school project with “Jenna” (14F) not her real name. This project was quite important because it would contribute to our final grade for the subject.

I kept asking Jenna if she was free to come online to do the project together / to do the project whenever she was free but a day before the deadline and she still hadn’t done anything at all. I had done some parts and was waiting for her to do the rest but on the day before the deadline I got scared so I finished the project by myself.

I whatsapped Jenna a long text on how I was annoyed that she didn’t do the project despite countless reminders. She was apologetic and said she would check and edit my work. I’m not sure if she actually did this but none of my work was edited (I checked before submitting).

Originally on the cover page there was the title of the project and this line that said “Done by Jenna and (my name)”. I edited the line to “Done by (my name)” and submitted it. My teacher asked why I only credited myself and I told him that Jenna didn’t contribute to the project.

He asked to see our Google Docs edit history to prove that I did the whole project myself and I showed it to him. Then he gave Jenna 0/50 while I got 46/50. Jenna ended up failing this subject as a whole because as I said this project was crucial for our final grade.

She said I was an a**hole for causing her to fail and she said that she did check what I’d written but didn’t find anything wrong with it so she didn’t edit anything and that she deserved a few marks at least for checking my work.

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Also she has to go for holiday classes on this subject plus take another test on the subject during the holidays otherwise she wouldn’t be promoted to the next level of education. She’s really pissed that I was the one who made her have to go through all this.. AITA?
This school project saga is a lesson in accountability gone right, but with messy fallout. The boy’s decision to credit only himself was fair, given Jenna’s lack of contribution despite repeated outreach. Dr. Carol Dweck, a psychologist specializing in motivation, notes that “teens learn responsibility when consequences reflect their effort, not entitlement” (Mindset Works). Jenna’s failure, while harsh, stems from her inaction, not the boy’s choice.

Jenna’s claim of “checking” the work without editing rings hollow, as it lacks tangible effort. A 2023 study from the Journal of Educational Psychology found that 60% of students in group projects expect credit for minimal input, undermining fairness (APA). The teacher’s use of Google Docs history to verify contributions reinforces objective grading, protecting diligent students like the OP.

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Dr. Dweck suggests teachers guide students on effective collaboration to prevent such conflicts. The boy could’ve escalated to the teacher earlier, giving Jenna a chance to step up. Moving forward, he should focus on clear communication in future projects, while Jenna needs to learn proactive engagement. Schools could implement midpoint check-ins to catch freeloaders early.

Check out how the community responded:

The Reddit crew swooped in like a study group on caffeine, dishing out support and sharp takes with exam-week energy. It’s a lively debate over fairness, effort, and school drama. Here’s what they said:

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Fayeliure − NTA. She didn’t do any work therefore she rightly got no credit

Maddie215 − NTA. The teacher asked for proof of the work product. You supplied it. The teacher made the decision of how to grade the project. Jenna caused her own failing grade. Good for you for standing up for YOUR work and not being bullied into sharing credit with someone who didnt deserve it.

Unlucky-Profession41 − You credited yourself for work you did. What she wanted from you was credit for piggy backing on your hard work. Her reasons for not contributing may have been valid, but she should've communicated that to the teacher and to her project mate and concessions could've been made.

She didn't. She relied on excuses and the hope that you could be guilted into including her.. She didn't do the work. She doesn't get the grade.. Good on you OP. Good on your teacher as well for checking the logs. Congrats on the grade!. NTA

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SCOTLAND199 − NTA, she expect you to do everything while she sits back and gets good grades? Nah f**k that

accadacca80 − NTA - you did not cause her to fail by not crediting her, she caused herself to fail by not contributing to the project. Why should she get any marks on a project she didn’t work on?

hadkins0617 − NTA. You can’t expect to get credit for something you don’t contribute to. You tried to include her multiple times. It’s her fault she failed.

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Head_jace − NTA. Sad for her i guess. But who cares, you should be credited for your work.

Melancholicvegetable − NTA. She slacked, got what she deserved. Plus I call BS on the “checking” part.

a1218b69 − NTA, she didnt do her part and you had to do more work as a result of her shortcomings, she should stop complaining for something she can only blame herself for.

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HappyFriar − NTA - It's simple. She did not do the work, she does not get the grade. Better she learns that now than later when the stakes are higher. You deserve the credit you got for it.

Redditors rallied behind the boy, slamming Jenna’s inaction and praising his stand. Some called her excuse flimsy, while others hailed the teacher’s fact-checking. Do these takes ace the issue, or are they just cramming drama? One thing’s clear: this project fallout has everyone buzzing. Which side are you on?

This story dives into the pressure cooker of school projects, where one teen’s solo effort exposed a classmate’s slacking. His choice to claim full credit was fair but led to Jenna’s failure, raising questions about responsibility. Clear communication and teacher oversight could prevent such clashes. Have you ever faced a freeloader in a group project? How would you handle this grade-defining drama? Share your thoughts below!

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