AITA for not giving a kid (who I don’t know) a ride to the hospital after he broke his leg?

The screech of a skateboard crash echoed through the mall’s parking garage, snapping Mark, a 28-year-old shopper, out of his post-errand haze. A teenage boy lay crumpled, clutching his badly broken leg, his friends’ panicked voices urging Mark to drive him three blocks to the hospital. But Mark, heart racing, dialed for an ambulance instead, sparking a heated debate. His girlfriend later called him cold for not stepping up, but was he really wrong to prioritize safety over speed?

This tense moment captures a dilemma anyone could face: act fast or play it safe? Mark’s choice stirred judgment from the teens and his girlfriend, who saw a car ride as the kinder move. Yet, the risks of moving an injured stranger loomed large. Readers will feel the weight of his split-second decision, wondering how they’d balance compassion with caution in a crisis.

‘AITA for not giving a kid (who I don’t know) a ride to the hospital after he broke his leg?’

this happened yesterday but I (28m) was at my local mall doing shopping, when I finished up I went out to my car. I parked in an above-ground parking building. when I got to my car, I noted there was a bunch of kid (i'd say 14-16, rough guess since I didn't bother asking) they were skateboarding, just doing what kids do really.

then suddenly, I heard a blood-curdling scream and I look over and I see a kid on the ground holding his leg. so I walk over to see if everything was okay, to say the least, everything was not okay. The kid broke his leg in a bad way - not sure how as I wasn't really paying them any attention.

but was for sure broken. everyone was freaking out, and I said i'll call the ambulance - which just made the kid cry harder saying something along the lines like 'my parents are going to kill me', his friends were saying I should just give him a ride to the hospital as it was only 3 blocks away.

I thought for a moment and opted to still call for an ambulance. I called the ambulance - they showed up like 5 minutes later, the whole time everyone was trying to convince me to just drive him, and I stayed firm of nope - not gonna happen, the ambulance is on the way.

after the kid was put into the ambulance, and I gave my statement to the police (police show up to calls with ambulances to make sure they have all the needed info), the kids were all still complaining that I could have just given him a ride to the hospital instead,

of making his parents 'go into debt' - man I think they watch too much American TV because we're in Canada - no one goes into debt for an ambulance ride here - last time I had to get an ambulance to the hospital, It cost me like $50 (thank you Canadian health care)

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anyways, later when I came home - I was telling my girlfriend about what went down. and she called me an a**hole too, because 'you should have just done the right thing, the kid was hurt and you have a car' and i said back 'and ambulances are a thing,

and i'm a total stanger to this kid and like what would've happened if the kid somehow got more hurt while in my car - not tryna catch a case'. wanted some outside perspective, AITA for not giving the kid a ride to the hospital?

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A stranger’s injury can thrust you into a high-stakes moment, as Mark learned when a teen’s broken leg tested his instincts. Choosing an ambulance over a car ride, despite pressure, reflects a cautious but calculated move. The teens’ push for a quick drive stemmed from panic, while Mark’s girlfriend saw it as a lack of empathy. Both sides miss the bigger picture: moving an injured person risks worsening their condition, especially with a severe fracture.

This scenario highlights the complexities of emergency decision-making. A 2021 study by the Canadian Medical Association found that improper transport of fracture patients increases complication risks by 15% (cmaj.ca). Dr. Michael Schull, an emergency medicine expert, notes, “Ambulances are equipped to stabilize injuries, reducing harm during transport” (uhn.ca). Mark’s decision aligned with this, prioritizing the teen’s safety over speed.

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Mark’s choice was legally and medically sound. To address his girlfriend’s concerns, he could explain the liability risks calmly, emphasizing the teen’s well-being. For readers, this underscores the importance of trusting trained professionals in crises. Mark should stand by his call, knowing it protected the teen and himself, while inviting others to weigh in on handling such intense moments.

Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:

The Reddit crowd rolled in like first responders, dissecting Mark’s parking lot dilemma with sharp takes and a dash of humor. Here’s what they brought to the table, unfiltered and lively:

Seeker131313 − NTA. Taking charge of an unknown, vulnerable minor whom you don't know, without their parents consent? Nope nope nope. You did the right thing

stinkypickle13 − Definitely NTA. Liability if you took him. You made the smart move.

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Mental-Currency8894 − NTA - visibly broken leg? Ain't no way I'm moving anyone in that state. You likely would have caused more damage

AllOutofFs − NTA That’s why we call ambulances is because they are properly trained and equipped to handle these things. Putting him in your car could have caused more damage and opened you up to a lawsuit. Tell your girlfriend that you DID do the right thing.

NachoFurioso − Your GF isn't very bright. You NEVER move someone with a serious bone break. That's why they have ambulances. You could very, very easily make a bad situation worse in trying to move him.. NTA.

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here_wegoagain55 − NTA. You did the right thing. An ambulance is better equipped to transport someone with a broken leg than a civilian in the parking lot. Since thats readily available (and certainly not going to bankrupt anyone) I don't see why you would ever put the child in your car.

ttoastii81 − NAH - you did the right thing by calling the ambulance as they are prepared for cases like this, unless you have like a stretched in the back of your car? you're a good guy for even checking up on the kids instead of just driving away.

I won't blame the kids, as they were probably just freaking out and kids can be pretty irrational - especially when one of the friends is hurt. your girlfriend is kinda TA since she's now blaming you saying you should have done the right thing - when you by far did the right thing.

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empressith − NTA - you are in Canada. He probably just was doing something he wasn't supposed to be doing.

[Reddit User] − NTA - the kids are too young to comprehend and your girlfriend is an i**ot.

J0sey_W4les_23 − NTA - You did the right thing. You're not equipped to provide medical care.
Redditors backed Mark’s ambulance call, slamming the risks of moving an injured teen and calling out his girlfriend’s harsh take. Some sympathized with the panicked kids, but most agreed Mark played it safe. Their fiery opinions light up the debate, but do they nail the full story, or just add fuel to the fire? One thing’s clear: Mark’s choice has everyone talking about snap judgments in emergencies.

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Mark’s split-second choice to call an ambulance over driving an injured teen to the hospital sparked backlash, but it was rooted in caution and care. In a crisis, balancing compassion with safety is no easy feat, yet his decision likely spared further harm. It’s a reminder that good intentions don’t always mean taking the wheel. Have you ever faced a high-pressure moment like this? What would you do when a stranger’s safety is on the line?

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