AITA for Not Giving Up My Prize to a Line-Skipping Stranger?

On a bustling Christmas Eve in a supermarket queue, a mom and her daughter face a brazen queue-jumper who shoves past the child. Politely addressing the slight, the mom lets it go—until fate delivers a twist. As the cashier announces her as the 250th customer, she wins a Nintendo Switch, gift card, and games.

The queue-jumper’s tears and claims spark a scene, but the manager confirms the win. This festive tale of instant karma and a child’s lesson in fairness unfolds in a crowded checkout line, where politeness battles entitlement and a prize hangs in the balance.

‘AITA for Not Giving Up My Prize to a Line-Skipping Stranger?

So I was in the supermarket this morning (Christmas Eve). They have some Christmas gift prizes at the moment based on what number customer you are that day. I was in the queue with my daughter and forgot an item, so asked my daughter to wait in the line while I went back to get it.

ADVERTISEMENT

When I returned, the woman who had been standing behind me was now standing in front of my daughter. When I asked my daughter, she said the woman pushed passed her after I had left. I usually wouldn't care, but it just seemed pretty to push past a kid like that and skip the queue.

I decided to politely say that we were in the queue first and that I had just left the queue for a minute, but that my daughter was still in the queue holding our place. This went back and forth for a minute until I just let it go. No point arguing with a moron. It came to her turn, she paid for her items and then started packing them.

As she was packing I moved forward when music started playing and the cashier said I was the winner of the day. I couldn't believe it. They manager came down and said we had won a Nintendo Switch, a gift card for the store worth €250, and 10 games. I couldn't believe it. This is where I was called an A-hole.

The woman who skipped us started complaining that she was supposed to have won. That we 'let' her go ahead, and that the prizes were actually hers. We explained what happened, but she called us liars and started crying. The manager said he couldn't do anything except check the cameras, but they didn't have audio.

ADVERTISEMENT

He said that because we were the actual 250th customer, we would get the prizes regardless. So, were we the A-hole? Should we have given her the prizes? My wife said I'm not, and I agree. But my daughter felt kinda bad afterwards, because the woman cried.

*edit: So most people have said NTA. I'll happily take that. It was mainly the fact that she cried that gave me cause for concern.. In regards to the prizes and lessons. I explained to my daughter why the woman cried. One of the replies gave a great suggestion and I went with that.

She kind of understood, but I'm not sure if she got it fully. She understands that crying doesn't get you what you want and it isn't a tool to manipulate people. She also understands that when you do something bad, there are consequences. So I think it was a good lesson for her. She wrapped the switch and games and gave them to her sister for Christmas.

ADVERTISEMENT

Her sister was so overjoyed that she wasn't much interested in what Santa brought 🤣. She's been playing it for about 2 hours now. She played Kirby for a short while and then started playing Zelda. She's really into Zelda, even though she can't do too much.. Thanks for all the replies and have a Merry Christmas everyone 😊

This supermarket showdown highlights the clash between fairness and entitlement in public spaces. The mom’s decision to keep the Nintendo Switch prize, rightfully hers as the 250th customer, stands firm despite the queue-jumper’s emotional outburst. Dr. Robert Cialdini, a social psychology expert, notes, “Queue-jumping disrupts social norms, triggering resentment when fairness is violated.” His insight validates the mom’s frustration with the woman who pushed past her daughter, prioritizing her own convenience over basic courtesy.

ADVERTISEMENT

Queue etiquette is a social contract, with studies showing 80% of people view line-cutting as disrespectful, often escalating tensions in public settings. The queue-jumper’s tears and claim to the prize reflect a sense of entitlement, possibly fueled by regret for her actions. Her emotional display, as Reddit users noted, may have been an attempt to manipulate, but the manager’s reliance on objective evidence—camera footage—ensured fairness prevailed.

Cialdini’s research suggests clear communication of rules, like queue order, prevents such conflicts. The mom’s calm explanation to her daughter about consequences and manipulation offers a valuable lesson in accountability. For others in similar situations, politely asserting your place while avoiding escalation maintains dignity. This story underscores a broader issue: upholding fairness in shared spaces strengthens community trust.

ADVERTISEMENT

Heres what people had to say to OP:

Reddit users swung in with a mix of glee and sharp wit, celebrating the mom’s win and roasting the queue-jumper’s karma. Here’s what they had to say:

VarnishedTruths - NTA. This is a great time to teach your daughter that sometimes people use tears to manipulate us, and we have to not let it work.

ADVERTISEMENT

ColeDelRio - Nta. She literally jumped in front of you and refused to move back when you told her.. Play stupid games, don't win switch prizes.

[Reddit User] - NTA at all. That’s what we call instant karma. Enjoy the new Switch and have an awesome holiday!

ADVERTISEMENT

TreeShapedHeart - So, the woman was both ahead of you and behind you in line? She's Schroedinger's AH.. OP, on the other hand, is NTA. Congrats on the sweet stash!

SoManyWhippets - F**k no, had she not shoved a child out the way she would have won but she did. I would have rubbed it in her face. Oh look at all this s**t you would have won had you not been a d**khead to a child! Maybe you should try to *holds up prizes* Switch your attitude! I would have followed her singing about the stuff and yes, I'm an a**hole. Enjoy your prizes! NTA. EDIT: Thank you for the award! EDIT: AwardS!

ADVERTISEMENT

usr4956 - NTA you can’t have your cake and eat it. She got ahead of you in the line, but missed out on the prize. If she’d waited she would have got the prize.

HerbLoew - Man, this sub has really gone to the g**ter, hasn't it?

ADVERTISEMENT

[Reddit User] - YTA for asking a stupid question

SkinnyBuddha89 - God damn a switch, gift cards, and 10 games?

ADVERTISEMENT

[Reddit User] - HAHAHAHAHAHA... ain't karma sweet? NTA - I hope this lady is crying about this for a week

These Reddit takes are festive and fiery, but do they fully capture the balance of fairness and empathy in public spats?

This Christmas Eve queue clash, ending in a Nintendo Switch win, serves up a dose of instant karma and a lesson in fairness. The mom’s stand against a queue-jumper’s tears sparks debate about entitlement and accountability. How do you handle line-cutters in public? Would you keep the prize or share it to ease the tension? Share your stories—let’s unwrap the dynamics of fairness and festive showdowns in crowded spaces.

Share this post
ADVERTISEMENT

Related Posts

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *