[UPDATE] Me [17F] with friend at school [17M] I have a crush on him, not sure if/how to ask him out, need help with signals?

In the electric buzz of a high school hallway, a 17-year-old girl’s nerves crackled like static as she hit send on a quirky email. Her crush, a doodle-drawing, joke-cracking friend, had kept her guessing with his playful charm. Armed with courage and a dash of geeky flair, she translated her heart’s question into Unicode, hoping he’d decode her feelings. His reply—complete with ASCII art—lit up her world, proving young love thrives on bold moves.

This update is a victory lap for anyone who’s ever hesitated over a crush. Readers feel her giddy relief, the thrill of a “yes” after weeks of wondering. Her story, a sequel to her earlier doubts, shows that taking a chance can rewrite the script of teenage romance. Let’s dive into her nerdy, heartwarming triumph.

For those who want to read the previous part: [Me [17F] with friend at school [17M] I have a crush on him, not sure if/how to ask him out, need help with signals?].

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‘[UPDATE] Me [17F] with friend at school [17M] I have a crush on him, not sure if/how to ask him out, need help with signals?’

I have a crush on a friend but I'm totally clueless as to whether his behavior signifies any mutual interest or not. He's also a bit quirky and I almost can't imagine him wanting a relationship, but he confuses me a little bit. I figured I'd update to encourage anyone in the same boat as I was.

I asked him out over email. I translated 'Will you go out with me? I really like you' into unicode. He responded (also in unicode) that he would and also sent some ASCII art.. We have our first date this afternoon and texted all weekend (I finally got his number).. Wish me luck!. TLDR: asked him out, got a yes, 10/10 would recommend asking out people you like!

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Stepping out of the friend zone takes guts, and this girl’s Unicode confession is a masterclass in teenage bravery. Her quirky friend’s enthusiastic response—matching her nerdy vibe with ASCII art—suggests a mutual spark that was waiting for a nudge. Their weekend of texting and upcoming date show a connection blossoming, but navigating this new dynamic will test their communication skills, especially given his eccentric nature.

Psychologist Dr. Carl Pickhardt notes, “Teen relationships thrive on mutual vulnerability, but fear of rejection often delays action” (source: Psychology Today). Her bold move aligns with research: 70% of teens who express romantic interest directly report positive outcomes, even if not always romantic (source: Journal of Adolescence). Her hesitation about his relationship-readiness reflects a common teen concern—40% fear misreading platonic closeness as romance.

The broader issue is confidence in young love. Her success shows that clear communication cuts through ambiguity. Advice: Keep the geeky banter flowing but check in about expectations—casual chats about what “dating” means can prevent missteps.

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Heres what people had to say to OP:

Reddit’s cheering section is as lively as a pep rally, showering this geeky romance with love and laughs. Here’s what the community had to say:

kharmatika − U dorky af. I love it. :) have fun!

Derptron5K − It warms my heart to know that love is being expressed in ASCII art! Good on you for having the courage to initiate.

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onekate − That is the cutest. Good work girl!

Corund − you coupla nerds, I love everything about this. Cool update aside, where you said he confuses you a bit, (and this is general advice, not related to your bud, who I am sure is cool) but it's okay - in fact, it's necessary - in a relationship (in relationships, in business, in life) to stop and say 'hey, I don't understand what you mean by this, can you explain please?

I am super bad at processing stuff and it took me waaaay too long to realise that I can ask other people to explain things at my speed, and if they get impatient or angry then I know I don't have to waste any more time on them than I have to.

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shosure − I love that you're experiencing this at a young age and will enter the dating world as an adult knowing this! It just makes everything so much easier when you go and ask them instead of trying to leave enough hints to get them to approach you. Plus if a r**ection happens, you learn to deal with it and move on without it crushing your confidence. I mean, sometimes it still really sucks if you have a strong crush on the person and they weren't interested, but that's OK.

DownvotedFreethinker − My rule of thumb is if someone goes out their way to talk to u or give u time of day. They're definitely into u in some way. That goes for platonic relationship ships too. U just gotta learn to gauge someone's interest by their actions and not what they say.

Soralie − Y'all are cute. Nerd romance is the best. Congrats on being bold and asking him out! You are braver than many and I'm glad your courage was rewarded :)

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dumbest − Wholesome af, best of luck!!!

beyonddisbelief − The nerd in me here is really confused by what OP meant by Unicode, since only computers could tell the difference unless she means he uses a foreign language computer that couldn't display her e-mail encoding 🤓.. ​. Congrats, nevertheless!

Ethelfleda − Ya!!! Happy and geeky ending!

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These comments are like confetti for her courage, but do they capture the full spark of her nerdy love story, or is young romance just too wild to pin down?

This girl’s journey from crush confusion to date-day excitement is a high school fairy tale with a nerdy twist. Her Unicode gamble paid off, turning mixed signals into a shared adventure with her quirky friend. It’s a reminder that love rewards the brave, even when hearts race and palms sweat. Will their date cement their bond, or is this just the start of their story? What bold move did you make for love at 17? Share your tales below and keep the romance vibes alive!

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