My neighbours kept blocking the driveway to my garage, so I called council and got them towed. Help AITAH, any advice?

A young woman moves into her new Sydney home excited to finally use her garage driveway. But right from day one, neighbors and their guests treat the spot in front like free public parking, forcing her to lug groceries in the rain or park blocks away.

After months of polite requests, notes, and partial blocks from their huge family fleet, she snaps on a scorching 40°C day. Coming home loaded from the beach, she finds the wife’s truck half-blocking access again—for the third day straight. This time, she snaps photos, reports to council, and watches as the tow truck hauls it away almost immediately.

‘My neighbours kept blocking the driveway to my garage, so I called council and got them towed. Help AITAH, any advice?’

The problems started the moment she moved in four months ago, with a van fully blocking access on a rainy day:

I moved to this house 4 months ago I noticed a van parked entirely in front of the driveway, so I had to park far away and move in, walking...

Finally, I was gardening out the front I see the neighbour park his van in front of my driveway. I went up to him and introduced my self kindly, and...

I’m not sure if you had an arrangement with the previous tenants, but could you stop because I would like to use it. He looked shocked and said, “oh can...

Most people on our street don’t use their actual garages, but instead park in front of their driveways (I know this is illegal). I would like to do the same...

The polite approach didn’t stick, and blocking continued despite their massive double driveway:

Since then ; cars often still block or partially block my driveway. There is usually street parking anyways, but occasionally I have to park 200m away, with heavy groceries or...

First couple of notes were nice and friendly simply asking them to stop and that is like 24/7 access to the garage, the last 3 were more stern. They have...

Often they just park in front of it- however they are a huge family with 6 cars and a huge boat + always have guests and parties. I couldn’t care...

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The final straw came during extreme heat, leading to an immediate council response:

For some reason (entitlement), his wife parks her huge truck half blocking my driveway AGAIN! This time leaving it for 3 days. Today it was 40c (104f), I got home...

Annoyed, I decided to leave the note but this time I took pics and reported to council. I was unsure what would come of it. Unexpectedly, council came immediately, and...

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I believe they will know it was me that reported them to council. Now I feel like they are going to try and confront me or do something because they...

I am a 29 F but look a lot younger, my housemates are 24 and 25 F so I feel like they thought they could just do what they wanted...

Blocking a driveway isn’t just rude—it’s outright illegal in NSW because it can stop emergency vehicles from reaching your home quickly. Councils enforce this strictly when reported with evidence, which explains the fast tow response.

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She went way beyond what’s expected: a friendly in-person chat, then five notes ranging from polite to firm. Most people would’ve skipped straight to reporting after the first ignore.

If the neighbors confront her, the best move is calm and factual—remind them of the prior warnings, the law, and that council made the call based on photos. No need to apologize; entitlement thrives on pushovers.

Going forward, a clear sign like “Active Driveway – No Parking – Towed at Owner’s Expense” plus a cheap security camera will deter guests and provide instant proof for future reports. Consistency wins these battles.

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Take a look at the comments from fellow users:

The online crowd overwhelmingly declared her not the asshole, praising her patience and cheering the swift tow:

DescriptionFew6118 - After they disregarded you the first time, I would have informed council then.

TerriDiA - NTA - And if they block you again, contact the council again. Keep having them towed until they get the message through their thick heads.

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navedane - NTA. There are plenty of people who would’ve called a tow as the first option. I think that’s excessive, but even those people could be argued that they’re...

Takiri_aerilaya - NTA. You were polite and TRIED reasoning with them. They contined to be rude. I'm glad you got the council involved and took pictures. If they confront you...

Last-Butterscotch-68 - It is illegal the block access for a reason, an ambulance cannot afford to park 200m away if there is a medical emergency. NTA. Report. Report. Report.

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Only-Breadfruit-6108 - NTA it’s refreshing to hear that local council did something useful! Also Aussie here, and when I had someone part across my driveway and I couldn’t get out...

I called the police and they said they couldn’t do anything. It was nighttime, but I still wouldn’t have thought to call council. Well played

BurdenedMind79 - This happened to me in the past. A neighbour kept parking across my drive, even when my car was on it. I caught them doing it one day...

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They said they could park wherever they like because they were a nurse. Not sure what that gave them permission to park where they liked, but that's what they claimed.

Anyway, it was still there the following morning when I needed to go to work, so I called the council and they towed it. She never did it again. If...

If they did, the council wouldn't have towed them. They're in the wrong and have no right to complain. Tell them if they do it again, you'll do it again....

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HealthNo4265 - Good work. Towing is probably the only thing that will get their attention. However, since you note that parking in front of even your own driveway is illegal,...

Gringa-Loca26 - NTA. Do this every single time someone parks in front of your driveway. They’ll eventually learn.

nickisfractured - They can complain but you have them warning many times, no more warnings and every time they do it call the tow trucks

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angelicak92 - Just keep having them towed.

Dorzack - NTA - They continued to F around after they were politely told to stop, now they are in the Find Out stage.

DeepBlueSweater - In the US it’s illegal to block someone else’s driveway. I’m assuming it’s similar in Sydney. IMHO you’ve been too accommodating and should have had them towed earlier....

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k23_k23 - NTA But: Why ask for help or advice? Sounds like the issue was solved to your satisfaction. Keep towing. just deny it was you.

South_Jellyfish1635 - Why not just put up a sign that says ACTIVE DRIVEWAY Illegal Parkers will be towed

You handled this textbook-style: polite warnings first, escalation only after ignoring them. The law is on your side, and council’s quick action proves it. If they push back, stay firm but calm—retaliation usually stops once consequences hit the wallet. Your driveway, your rules.

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