AITA for leaving a $700/Night Airbnb That Didn’t Live Up to the Hype?

A lucky couple hit the jackpot on a dream vacation, booking a $700-a-night Airbnb that was heavily advertised with five-star reviews and photos of a luxury ocean view. The arrival of the apartment shattered the dream: cramped rooms, outdated furniture, visibly dirty, and completely unlike the apartment. The husband demanded an explanation; the host brushed it off as “subjective.”

What complicated the story was that the host quickly left with a full refund and scathing reviews—leaving the host furious, thinking it “ruined their business.” The wife, though disappointed, still believed her husband had acted recklessly without giving them a chance. Now the internet is debating whether running away from a scam is justified or excessive.

‘AITA for leaving a $700/Night Airbnb That Didn’t Live Up to the Hype?’

A long-awaited splurge turned sour the moment they crossed the threshold.

So my wife and I finally decided to splurge on a dream vacation, thanks to a nice little windfall. Found this Airbnb with glowing 5-star reviews, looked perfect online, $700...

Photos showed this luxury spot with ocean views, high-end decor, and all these nice touches. In reality? It was cramped, outdated, and honestly, it looked like the place hadn't been...

The host’s dismissal sealed the decision to bail and warn others.

I'm not usually the type to make a fuss, but when you’re dropping that kind of cash, you expect what you paid for. I contacted the host right away, told...

and they were kinda dismissive, telling me it’s “subjective” and that it’s a popular spot. After seeing how dirty it was and how sketchy some things were, I decided to...

Backlash from the host and second-guessing from the wife followed.

Host flips out, starts sending messages saying I should’ve given them a chance to fix it and that I’m ruining their business. Meanwhile, my wife is saying I was too...

She gets that it sucked, but thinks I was too quick to pull the trigger and that the bad review was too much. Now I’m second-guessing myself. I just didn’t...

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Paying $700 per night creates a strong expectation that the apartment will match the listing price—anything less is fraudulent. The husband’s “photos plus refund” approach strictly adheres to Airbnb policy; the host’s “subjective” avoidance is a classic distraction. Reviews exist precisely to expose “bait and switch” tactics that often target special occasions.

The counterarguments to giving a “chance to fix” a collapse are under scrutiny: no cleaning crews renovate outdated decor or extend the space mid-stay. Complicating matters is the wife’s discomfort with confronting it, but facilitating fraud hurts future travelers. Airbnb reported a 40% year-over-year increase in fraud complaints in 2024, with fake photos at the top of the list.

“When listings significantly misrepresent a property, immediate removal and honest reviews are the only leverage customers have,” said consumer advocate Christopher Elliott, defending both his wallet and the integrity of the platform.

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Here’s what Redditors had to say:

Every single commenter declares the husband NTA and applauds the escape.

MissingBothCufflinks − This was a scam and you did the right thing

DutchDaddy85 − NTA. Wouldn't have mattered if it was $70 a night: If the photos aren't of the place you're actually renting, they're 100% in the wrong. The host wouldn't...

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barugosamaa − Airbnb  $700 a night was the AirBnB in the moon? Atlantis?

374852 − NTA for leaving the place or the bad review. That’s what reviews are for. You’re doing a service to other people looking to get an experience that matches...

And honestly, if you’re spending $700 a night, what are they going to do to fix it? You’ll spend half your trip with people coming in cleaning and fixing stuff....

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Ornery-Platypus-1 − If the owner of the ABnB didn't lie on the listing, there wouldn't have been an issue to begin with. You aren't "ruining their business", *they* are. NTA.

A few roast the host’s contradictions and back the wife’s mild pushback with logic.

[Reddit User] − NTA. They were trying to scam you, and you called them on it and got the f__k out of there. And for your wife . . ....

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[Reddit User] − The owner insisted that his Airbnb matched his listing and then whined that you didn’t give him a chance to fix it… ? ! What was there...

Light sarcasm keeps the mood from turning too hostile.

[Reddit User] − I don't understand why people use Airbnb at all.

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DREADEDun − Nope. for 700 bucks a night I would have expected the place to be even better than advertised not worse.

poopinagroup37 − I'm curious how you got your refund so easily? there was a lady on my local news who found cameras in her airbnb and she was only given...

A dream vacation crashed into a filthy, misrepresented Airbnb, prompting an immediate exit, full refund, and honest review. The host cried sabotage; the wife wished for patience. Commenters unanimously crown the husband a hero for exposing fraud and saving future guests from the same trap. One bad stay doesn’t define a trip—dodging a scam does.

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Have you ever walked away from a booking gone wrong? When does “giving them a chance” cross into wasting your own vacation?

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