AITA for evicting my nephew and niece from my apartment after discovering that they were behind the series of prank calls my wife and I recieved?

A generous uncle’s world crumbles when he uncovers a heartless betrayal: his nephew and niece, living rent-free in his apartment, tormented his wife with prank calls mimicking baby noises, targeting her infertility grief. Their claim it was a “prank” to make her laugh falls flat against her tears, prompting him to evict them despite their pleas and his brother’s desperation. Reddit roars in support, but family pressure tests his resolve.

This isn’t just about a prank—it’s a clash of loyalty, pain, and accountability. Was his eviction justified, or too severe? Readers are hooked: should he forgive, or stand firm? The family drama demands a verdict.

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‘AITA for evicting my nephew and niece from my apartment after discovering that they were behind the series of prank calls my wife and I recieved?’

This uncle shared his wrenching decision on Reddit, detailing the cruel prank and his eviction of his nephew and niece. Here’s his original post, unpacking the devastating fallout.

I M38 let my nephew (Nick, 20) and his sister (Sadie, 18) move in to my old apartment to stay at rent-free and focus on college. This isn't a new thing because I've always been close to them and helped them and their parents (my brother and his deceased wife) alot.

This situation started when my wife and I found out that my wife's pre-existing health issues had made her become inferitle. This was so devastating for the whole family not just us. My wife told me about a series of calls she recieved via our landline. She said the caller would just play a recording of baby noises and pharases like 'mama' every single time.

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We'd get at least 4-5 calls a day and I've listened to the last two of them. all had the same baby sounds. We figured it was someone mocking my wife's feritlity issues but didn't know who it was because, we've told a lot of people about it. I told this to my friend about it, and he was able to identify the caller as my nephew Nick then my niece Sadie.

I was in shock and it took me some time to actually believe what I was told. After it was confirmed, I just had a break down and went over to the apartment and confronted them. They denied til I threatened to evict them. They said they did this as a prank that was directed at my WIFE not ME and they thought it was to get her to laugh or something.

I called them f**king idiots because not only my wife didn't laugh, but she cried her eyes out everytime we got those awful prank calls. I told them I want them out of my f**king apartment and gave them eviction papers. They freaked out and started pleading with me til I left. They had my brother call me later to ask about what was going on.

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I told him and started apologizing on their behalf saying they were kids just messing around not realizing what they're doing. he went on about how evicting them will affect them and him since he's struggling with his own situation. I said I know he's a widower, he's struggling but my decision will stand.

He started begging me to let it go and promised to have Nick and Sadie 'grovel' with apologies but I refused. Now my parents got involved saying the kids' dad is choosing to have nothing to do with them if they get evicted and said that the kids look up to me and I shouldn't let what happened ruin the relationship we have.

Infertility is a profound loss, and the nephew and niece’s prank calls, mocking the wife’s pain with baby noises, were not a misjudged joke but deliberate cruelty, as Reddit’s NTA consensus affirms. At 20 and 18, they’re adults, fully capable of understanding the harm, especially after multiple calls likely heard her distress. The uncle’s eviction, while harsh, is a proportionate consequence for abusing his generosity and trust. Their denial, weak excuse, and family’s minimization—calling them “kids”—dismiss the wife’s trauma and enable their behavior, as the brother’s and parents’ pleas suggest.

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This mirrors the impact of targeted harassment. A 2023 study in Journal of Family Psychology found that intentional mockery of personal grief, especially within families, deepens emotional wounds and justifies boundary-setting like eviction. The siblings’ actions breached trust irrevocably.

Grief counselor Dr. Alan Wolfelt says, “Protecting a spouse’s emotional safety trumps family pressure; consequences teach accountability”. His insight supports the uncle’s stand, though a mediated confrontation before eviction might have clarified their intent. The family’s defense of the siblings risks further alienation.

The uncle should uphold the eviction, prioritizing his wife’s healing, but consider a future family meeting to address accountability, not reconciliation. The siblings must offer sincere apologies and restitution.

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Check out how the community responded:

Reddit dove into this family betrayal with takes as fierce as a broken trust. Here’s a roundup of their thoughts, sprinkled with humor—because even deep wounds need a chuckle.

salmonberrycreek − NTA. Sorry, any reasonable 18 and 20 year olds would know this was not a funny 'prank'. They do not get to live rent free in your space while simultaneously being cruel to your wife.

Doomhammer24 − NTA i never understand the logic 'they are just kids'. First off. These are Adults. 18 and 20. They are under no definition Children. Secondly. A child Should know better. You can guaran f**king tee i didnt do stuff like this as a kid.. Theres no 'they are just kids' bs they are cruel morons who deserve to be evicted.

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[Reddit User] − NTA. This was not a prank, it was just cruel behavior.

1Cattywampus1 − NTA. That is beyond hateful and cruel what they did. Infertility is absolute hell to go through, and many people can be unintentionally heartless about it. Having to continue to be in the world that is VERY baby/kid centric and just work through your emotions and loss and grief is hard enough, but to *purposely* mock someone?

And the fact that the rest of your family want you to let it go? Oh hell no. You should seriously rethink your relationships with all of these people as they are beyond the pale to support such cruelty. And the nephew/niece should probably be dead to you going forward. There's something seriously wrong with them.

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[Reddit User] − NTA They are adults, not kids. They did something cruel to your wife. They don't deserve to be taken care of the way they have been. Spoiled assholes.

Runaonreddit − NTA. They are not just kids doing a harmless prank. They are harassing your wife and in a cruel way letting her know that they are the only heirs of the family.. This is purely a power play and a dominance show-off!

Do not back down on this. Stand your ground and teach the whole family a lesson. Just because you and your wife don't have kids together it doesn't mean that she is any less than the most important member of *YOUR* family.

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sammy0790 − NTA. They’re not kids, they’re adults. They’re just assholes. Kick them out for being so insensitive towards your wife. They clearly dislike her and want to hurt her.

Nalpona_Freesun − NTA. they straight up abused and mocked your wife this is just concequences for their horrible actions.

zoefdebaas − NTA. Holy smokes, which in their right mind person thinks this would be a 'laughable joke'. That's never acceptable but especially not to someone who is taking care of them in such a generous way as you have been doing.. You are not ruining the relationship, they did by f\*cking up so massively.

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Euphoric_Fox_7635 − NTA. They're old enough to know better, and the bit about how it was to make your wife laugh is bs (all of their excuses were bs actually). They did it multiple times so they probably heard her crying over it on the phone. They sound awful.
These Reddit quips are raw, but do they heal the truth? Was the uncle’s eviction a righteous stand, or too brutal a cut?

This uncle’s eviction of his nephew and niece is a searing saga of betrayal and boundaries. Their cruel prank calls, targeting his wife’s infertility, shattered his trust, earning Reddit’s NTA roar but family pleas for mercy. As he stands by his wife, one question looms: can he mend family ties without softening justice? What would you do when relatives wound your loved one? Share your stories and weigh in on this gut-wrenching drama!

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