AITA for asking that a baby/infant be removed from cook line and kitchen in a commercial kitchen during operational hours?

In the sizzling chaos of a commercial kitchen, where fryers hiss and grills roar, a worker dodged a near-disaster as their kitchen manager, baby strapped to chest, teetered near a bin on the bustling cook line. The infant, plopped later into a high chair blocking the fire escape, turned the kitchen into a high-stakes daycare, sparking the worker’s fiery plea for the child’s removal. Met with icy stares and coworker scorn, they now stand as the workplace outcast, their safety concerns brushed off like crumbs.

This isn’t just about a misplaced high chair; it’s a scalding clash of workplace safety and parental judgment, where one worker’s stand for reason risks their place in the kitchen crew. As the manager’s allies close ranks, the worker wonders if their outburst was too much. Is their safety-first stance heroic, or did they burn bridges? It’s a story that crackles with tension and tough calls.

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‘AITA for asking that a baby/infant be removed from cook line and kitchen in a commercial kitchen during operational hours?’

The worker’s frustration and safety fears boil over in a raw Reddit post, dishing the chaos of a baby in their kitchen. Here’s their story, hot and unfiltered:

A couple of weeks ago my Kitchen manager turned up for work with his baby/infant. He proceeded to enter the kitchen in civilian clothing (as it was a nice day; shorts, T-shirt and trainers) with child strapped to his front. He then jumps on the cook line and attempts to cook and prepare food, baby still attached.

He took up position between between the head chef and another team member who were cooking at the time, surrounded by appliances front and back that were all on (grills, fryers, and hot hold bain marie).. I was clearing the cook line from previous service. After he nearly fell backwards over a bin and myself, I let out a slight outburst of my dissatisfaction of the situation and concern for the safety of the child. Everyone looked at me as if I was an i**ot.

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I stepped off the cook line and out of the kitchen to calm down. On my return I then discover (by nearly knocking the child over with a prep trolley) that the KM had detached the child from himself, put the kid in the biggest high chair we have in the restaurant, and placed said chair and kid at the end of the cook line obscuring the gangway (which also serves as the main fire escape route), under the equipment kill switches.

I was about to explode with rage at this point, so I pleaded, albeit slightly angrily, if the child could be removed from the kitchen. Again I was met with stares as if I was being an i**ot and AH.

Almost all of my co workers have sided with the KM/father of the child and I am now outcast in my workplace... AITA for reacting on my belief that babies should not be allowed in comercial kitchens or on a cook line during operational hours?

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This worker’s outburst stems from a primal instinct: protect the vulnerable in a hazardous space. A commercial kitchen, with scalding fryers and sharp tools, is no place for an infant, especially strapped to a cooking manager or parked in a high chair clogging a fire escape. The manager’s casual disregard, from near-falls to blocking safety routes, defies reason, and the crew’s dismissal of the worker’s concerns signals a dangerous groupthink. The worker’s anger, though sharp, was a cry for sanity.

Kitchen safety is non-negotiable. OSHA reports that 20% of restaurant injuries involve burns or slips, with cluttered spaces amplifying risks (source: OSHA). Infants in such settings violate health codes in many regions, risking fines or closures (source: FDA Food Code).

Dr. Amy Edmondson, a workplace safety expert, notes, “Speaking up about risks builds trust; silencing concerns breeds danger” (source: The Fearless Organization). Edmondson’s insight validates the worker’s plea—ignoring a baby’s presence endangers all. The crew’s backlash likely reflects loyalty to the manager, not logic.

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The worker should report this to HR or a supervisor, citing safety codes, and request training on workplace hazards (source: OSHA Training). A calm follow-up with the manager—“I was worried about your baby’s safety; can we keep the kitchen clear?”—might soften tensions. Job hunting, via Indeed (source: Indeed), could offer a safer workplace.

Check out how the community responded:

Reddit’s sizzling with hot takes on this worker’s kitchen baby showdown—brace for a feast of fiery quips and cool-headed takes!

Korike0017 − NTA what is your position? Is there anyone higher up in the food chain so to speak you can talk to? Babies are absolutely both a safety and a health hazard in a commercial kitchen- this should not be allowed or tolerated. I understand the struggles of working parents, but putting everyone in danger is not the answer. You'd be doing yourself a disservice not to report this.

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ShimmerKoi − First you should never cook while front wearing a baby. Second babies don’t belong in commercial kitchens at all. It’s dangerous for both the kid and the people on the line. If he couldn’t find a sitter he needed to call in.

FiberIsLife − NTA.. Holy OSHA violation, Batman!!. An operating commercial kitchen is absolutely no place for an infant.

SneakySneakySquirrel − NTA. Is there someone higher ranked than the KM that you can talk to about this? I get that it can be hard to find childcare and that parents are often put in tough positions, but there are some jobs where you just can’t bring your kid along and this is one of them.

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If I had to guess, your coworkers were annoyed because they didn’t want to be down a person if the KM had to leave, but they shouldn’t be taking that out on you. If they treat you badly because of this incident, I’d look for another job.

ExpensiveDay3551 − NTA. Does the owner know about this? It’s a massive liability issue, a stray pop of oil can cause a serious burn to an infants delicate skin. The employee can trip and fall on the baby. It’s just stupid all around. A kitchen is a hazard and no place for a baby.

AttentionIcy6874 − My sister and brother in law are both chefs and would probably have a stroke had that happened where they work. If they couldn't handle it in the restaurants where they work, they would definitely call OSHA. There are so many ways for this to go badly for the child, the father, the rest of the kitchen staff and the restaurant itself.

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He could even lose custody of his child over this. It seems like the only person who is thinking about the potential consequences is you, which is pretty scary when you think about it.

I edited this to add that, in addition to the danger of all of that, the father is failing to realize that infants are unable to regulate their temperature, so being in a hot commercial kitchen (I've worked in them as well) is very dangerous as they can easily overheat too quickly, and with nobody really concentrating on the child, they may not notice until it's too late. NTA.

whynotbecause88 − I'm shuddering thinking of all the mishaps that could have befallen the baby. NTA.

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canvasshoes2 − NTA.. Surely there are OSHA regs? (If this is the US).

Revolutionary_Bag518 − NTA. This situation sounds absolutely insane and it’s both a MAJOR health and safety violation. I’m shocked no one in your kitchen had a problem with this.

Brilliant_Cause4118 − NTA. your colleagues are dumb.

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These Redditors are serving up spicy advice, but are they cooking up clarity or just stirring the grease?

This worker’s story is a blazing stand for safety, with their plea to remove a baby from a scorching kitchen met with coworker scorn. The manager’s reckless parenting turned a cook line into a danger zone, and the crew’s blind loyalty only fanned the flames. Can a formal complaint or a new job restore peace, or is this kitchen too hot to handle? What would you do when a workplace risks a child’s safety? Toss your advice, stories, or reactions in the comments—let’s turn down the heat!

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