Son Blasts His Estranged Dad Over A Childhood Filled With “Magic Curses” and Fake Moms

We all know that moment when a persistent caller finally catches us off guard. For one 19-year-old, answering a call from an unrecognized number didn’t just ruin his afternoon—it forced a confrontation with the man who turned his childhood into a psychological battleground.

After surviving years of bizarre accusations involving “magic curses” and forced stepmother aliases, this young man finally gave his estranged father a piece of his mind. But when extended family caught wind of the blow-up, they demanded he play the bigger person. Want the juicy details? The full story is right below.

Son Blasts His Estranged Dad Over A Childhood Filled With "Magic Curses" and Fake Moms

AITAH for telling my dad he's a terrible person and father when he wanted to know why I want nothing to do with him?

The foundation of this family dynamic was built on manipulation, setting a chaotic stage for the children's earliest memories.

My parents divorced when my sister (21f) and I (19m) were very young.

Our dad cheated on mom and immediately tried to alienate us from her by saying the woman he cheated with was our new mom.

She was pregnant too, which only made everything more f***.

The other woman lost the baby at like 5 months, and she ended up leaving dad because of it and because of us and our mom.

Dad blamed mom for all of that.

He used to say mom cursed the pregnancy and did some kind of magic to make her lose the baby.

It was an insane thing to hear as a really young kid.

He eventually got married again to someone else, and my sister and I were still really young, so he tried to turn her into our mom.

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He would punish us for using her first name, and she would punish us for it too.

They used to tell everyone she was our mom.

They told our teachers, our friends' parents, and literally anyone they interacted with that she was our mom.

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We got into huge trouble for saying otherwise.

The conflict escalated from bizarre name games to outright psychological warfare, forcing the kids into an impossible loyalty bind.

My dad would tell us mom was trying to stop us from being a family.

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He said mom made his wife sterile and accused her of all kinds of f*** up things.

His wife went along with it and would go crazy at mom in front of us and then try to make us side with her.

Because we didn't turn against mom and didn't believe them, they got more crazy with the accusations and attempts to ruin our relationship with mom.

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My mom fought them in court, she had us in therapy, we spoke to people from CPS and the courts, and CPS let this go on for years.

I was 14 and my sister was 16 before they reduced dad's contact with us to supervised visits once a month.

And even still, we needed to talk to him twice a month on the phone too.

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We hated it.

We hated them.

We saw how awful our dad was, and mom never had to say a thing against him for us to see it.

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Me and my sister went no contact with dad once we turned 18.

She hasn't spoken to him in 3 years, while it's 16 months for me.

I might have f*** up though because he kept reaching out via fake accounts on socials, and then he used a family member's phone to call me. I answered because...

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I told him he was the one who cheated, yet he tried to alienate us from mom and tried to get us to replace her with some rando, and he...

I told him all that stuff made him a person I didn't ever want in my life, and I told him there's nothing to fix it.

I ended the call and texted that relative that I wouldn't answer their calls again or texts that were clearly from dad.

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I have family members on dad's side asking me why I had to be so awful to him and why my sister and I aren't grown enough to approach an...

They even said he fought so hard for us and we should appreciate him being there.

This explosive phone call highlights the deep emotional scars left by such a chaotic upbringing. In psychology, the father’s behavior is recognized as a textbook case of parental alienation, a severe form of emotional abuse where one parent systematically manipulates a child to reject the other. Adult children who survived this dynamic often experience profound depression, a lack of trust, and complex trauma.

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Furthermore, alienating parents often use severe emotional control—including making children feel guilty or fearful if they don’t comply with the distorted family narrative. This explains why the father and stepmother resorted to punishing the kids simply for refusing to call the stepmother “mom.”

For the original poster, maintaining strict boundaries is crucial. Extended family members who push for reconciliation often lack the full context of the abuse, and engaging with them usually only re-opens old wounds. Consider muting these enablers and focusing on protecting your peace.

Community Opinions

Reddit came in hot—nearly unanimous in their support for the original poster, with many pointing out the absurdity of the father's "magic" claims.

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u/Fragile_reddit_mods
NTA, you owe nobody your time. This would be entirely his fault.

u/Numerous-Bet3575 NTA. It sounds like the family on his side is as horrible as he is. You are well rid of these people who don’t acknowledge the damage that was...

u/BeachSuspicious8656 NTA and to answer his family’s question, you can just say “that’s how he raised us.” Eff him and eff them. I’m sorry you had to endure that and...

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u/TaintedButtercup
NTA. He IS a terrible person and father. Good on you for telling it like it is.

u/MegaNymphia no, you arent, at all. NTAH I say this as someone who also had a family dynamic similar to yours in that the parents were separating with one hyper...

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u/ThotHugger2005
NTAH
I stopped talking to my parents for FAR less than what your father did.

u/Snarkonum_revelio “…and why we couldn’t see the good in him.” My response would be “WHAT good? He cheated, lied, traumatized us as children, and tried our entire childhood to alienate...

u/buzzkillyall NTA • Dad blamed mom for all of that. He used to say mom cursed the pregnancy and did some kind of magic to make her lose the baby. ...

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u/Vegetable-Cod-2340 NTA Sadly, you will probably have to defend your position for the rest of your life. There will always be people that don’t want to or refuse to understand...

u/Individual-Paint7897
You can also tell your father & his family that if they don’t leave you alone, you will have your mother put a “curse” on all of them.

u/Background_System726
NTA. the relatives expect you and your sister to be more mature and better than your father ever was, and you are.
Eff him. 

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u/Odd_Tea4945 NTAH What you suffered under your father is a form of abuse called "parental alienation". And what he's doing now is called "harassment". Those family members have good will,...

I have family members on dad's side asking me why I had to be so awful to him You do not have to be in contact with your dad, and...

u/GerbilMilkshake NTA. Cut the relatives out who are enabling him and bullying you on his behalf as well. He made your childhood and adolescence hell by terrorizing you, your sister,...

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u/tekwlf
nta, you are allowed to go no contact with awful people

A few commenters even suggested that the son threaten the father's side of the family with more "curses" if they refused to back off.

Ending a relationship with a parent is rarely an easy choice, but sometimes it is the only way to break a cycle of toxicity. This story highlights the immense courage it takes to stand up to an abuser, even when extended family applies pressure to forgive and forget.

Do you think the son was too harsh on the phone, or did the father get exactly what he deserved? And how would you handle relatives demanding you make peace with a difficult past? Drop your thoughts in the comments!

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