AITA: Sold our house, new owners angry items are missing?

A homeowner recently shared a confusing dispute that surfaced weeks after selling their house. The property included an in-ground pool, and like many pool owners, they stored the necessary maintenance equipment in large deck boxes near the pool during the winter months. When the sale reached closing day, the buyers raised a complaint during the final walkthrough. They insisted the deck boxes outside had to be removed before the transaction could be completed.

According to the seller, multiple messages were exchanged explaining that the boxes held important pool equipment, including the filter and maintenance tools. Despite those explanations, the buyers demanded everything be taken away or the deal would fall through. The sellers complied and later sold or gave away the equipment. Weeks later, however, the new owners reached out asking where the pool equipment had gone, leaving the former homeowners wondering if they had done something wrong.

‘AITA: Sold our house, new owners angry items are missing?’

The seller explained how the pool equipment was carefully stored before the sale.

We sold our house in early December 2023. The house has an in-ground pool and it was closed for the winter months prior to the sale. To hold all the...

These held things that most every pool owner needs: a vacuum hose/head, skimmer baskets/jets, chlorine containers, a submersible pump for the winter cover, a summer solar cover, and most importantly...

The issue began during the closing walkthrough when the buyers demanded the boxes be removed.

Everything was very neatly organized/stored for winter. Closing day comes and the buyers do their walkthrough. We get a call from our realtor that there are still items left outside...

We asked what items and they said the deck boxes. We said that the boxes contain the pool equipment which is why we left them behind.

Well, the new owners wanted them removed. We asked if they just wanted the physical boxes removed and to instead leave the equipment in the garage but they said they...

We had them send a request in writing (through email to both realtors, our lawyer, and to us) specifically and clearly stating what they wanted removed from the property.

After complying with the request, the sellers later received a surprising message.

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We replied that what they wanted removed was the pool equipment and they replied stating it had to be removed or no sale. So we agreed and removed it.

Our new house doesn’t have a pool so I either sold or gave-away most of it, including the filter. Last week we got an email from the new owners/their realtor...

We were super confused and forwarded them the email chain where they told us to get rid of it. They apparently didn’t realize the boxes contained the pool equipment and...

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We replied that we had stated multiple times that the boxes contained "the pool equipment" but they still wanted it removed.

They asked for reimbursement because now they have to buy equipment and we said no; we did exactly what they wanted and that this is no longer our concern.

Our lawyer says we are in the clear. AITA? They looked to be first-time homeowners (likely never owned a pool) but we were really really clear on what was in...

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Real estate transactions often involve detailed agreements about what items remain with a property after a sale. Fixtures and essential equipment connected to the home are commonly expected to stay unless otherwise specified. Miscommunication about these details can lead to disputes, especially when buyers and sellers interpret requests differently.

In this case, the seller appears to have taken several precautionary steps. They clarified multiple times that the deck boxes contained pool equipment and even requested written confirmation before removing the items. Written documentation is an important safeguard in property transactions because it provides clear evidence of what both parties agreed to. When misunderstandings occur later, those records can help resolve disagreements quickly.

From another perspective, first-time homeowners may not always recognize the importance of certain maintenance equipment. Pools require specialized tools and systems that might not be obvious to someone unfamiliar with pool ownership. While the buyers may have assumed the boxes contained unnecessary items, the responsibility for confirming details typically falls on the party making the request. Situations like this highlight why careful communication, thorough walkthroughs, and guidance from real estate professionals are essential to avoid costly misunderstandings.

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Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

Many users strongly supported the seller, saying the buyers created their own problem.

SnooPets8873 − NTA I’m baffled that their real estate agent didn’t advise them on the need for the items in there but maybe they didn’t read your email so didn’t...

But that’s not relevant, it’s just my curiosity working overtime on how they missed this between a presumably adult buyer and a real estate agent.

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But no, it isn’t your fault even by a “be nice to the people around you” standard, because you not only got confirmation that they wanted you to do it,

you tried to stop them and also, it wasn’t unreasonable to think that they might have had a reason for it like having a new set already from a gift...

It’s not the same as if they insisted you do something nuts like scuttle the water line or else the sale is off or some other nonsense like that.

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kaway24 − Absolutely NTA. You received a request, provided all relevant additional information and context, and were still instructed (borderline threatened) to remove the boxes including all the equipment.

You did. The fact that the new owners appear not to have actually read your responses is absolutely not your fault. Asking for compensation is just pure grift on their...

Good call getting the request in writing, else I suspect they'd try and threaten legal action unless you paid them. NTA

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ironchef8000 − NTA. But not just any NTA. You are the very special, pat on the back, good thinking, smart NTA. You get extra bonus points for 1) getting an...

2) putting everything including the (at the time) seemingly small-potatoes pool request, and 3) presenting them with the written evidence against them. You, your attorney, and your realtor did everything...

SLJ7 − NTA, for a few reasons. 1. You had no choice but to do what was asked of you—not the a__hole.

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2. After they realized the pool equipment was missing, they didn't bother checking the thread or seemingly even remembering that they had asked you to remove this equipment—a__hole.

3. They were total turds about it. "Remove the boxes or no sale. " "Are you sure? They're important. " "Remove the boxes or no sale. " . .. "WHY...

People who are that careless and rude deserve everything they get. I consider this an adequate a__hole tax.

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Others pointed out that mistakes during property sales happen more often than people expect.

Cocokreykrey − NTA- good for you in putting it in writing. I just bought a house where they said they were going to have everything cleared out & then come...

They left some electronic equipment but took the main system remote control. Just bizarre stuff. Real estate transactions always have some strange things I feel,

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but in your case this is on the buyers for making such a fuss about removing the deck boxes that they in turn were too hot headed to listen that...

Jujulabee − NTA These people are idiots in so many different ways, it is hard to imagine how they were able to navigate life successfully though to be able to...

I can't understand why any rational home buyer would want ANY pool boxes removed. Even if you disliked the way they looked, they are functional and when you move into...

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there are many expenses so that replacing pool boxes would be low on the list of what you would want to spend money on.

DancinginHyrule − NTA Their agent gave them s__tty advice, they can take it up with them. When they asked to have it removed, their agent should have advised against (or...

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When they wanted it back, their agent should have owned up or told them what you are telling them now. That they fafo. Not your problem, not even close.

Some users reacted with humor or disbelief at the situation.

OhioGirl22 − NTA. .. The new owners are idiots. Their realtor is an i__ot. You are not on the hook for their collective stupidity.

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If they had ever spent time around a pool, they would have opened the box and said, "Cool. Pool equipment! ". But, no. They looked and said, "Ew. Pool toys....

BulbasaurRanch − NTA You aren’t responsible for their stupidity. You took all reasonable steps and were smart enough to have it in writing. They can pout all they want, they...

trey74 − NTA. They need to be pissed at their realtor. You did as you were told after warning them several times.

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Misunderstandings during home sales can quickly escalate, especially when important details are overlooked. In this situation, the sellers followed the buyers’ written request and even clarified what the deck boxes contained before removing the equipment. When the buyers later realized what had been taken away, the disagreement resurfaced.

Situations like this raise interesting questions about responsibility in property transactions. Should buyers double-check what they’re asking to remove during a walkthrough? Should agents play a larger role in explaining what certain equipment is for? How would you handle a situation where someone demanded something be removed and later regretted it?

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