AITA for wanting my roommate to take her cast off?

A 20-year-old college student found herself dealing with an unusual dorm room situation when her roommate arrived at the start of the school year wearing a medical boot for a broken foot. At first, the situation seemed understandable. Injuries happen, and medical recovery takes time.

However, weeks turned into months, and the boot never came off. Living in a small dorm room meant every movement, every step, and every Velcro strap echoed through the space—especially late at night. When the student eventually discovered that the boot was supposed to be removed before the semester even started, she decided to speak up and encourage her roommate to consult a doctor.

‘AITA for wanting my roommate to take her cast off?’

At the start of the school year, the roommate arrived wearing a medical boot.

My (20f) roommate (20f) could (easily) afford healthcare/ had insurance. We shared a dorm room about the size of a regular bedroom so very close quarters.

Onto the story: At the start of my junior year, in August 2019, my roommate tells me she broke her foot over the summer. (I believe in June but at...

So, she’ll be coming to school in one of those plastic/Velcro foot boot things. Ok, cool, whatever. School year starts and progresses.

The boot is pretty annoying and my roommate keeps weird hours, so there is stomping and Velcro ripping at all hours of the night.. Her boot frequently wakes me up...

Weeks later, curiosity about the noisy boot led to an unexpected discovery.

Cut to the middle of October. I ask my roommate when the boot is coming off out of curiosity and because the thing is insanely loud and annoying.

First, she tells me that she doesn’t know which I found odd and suggested she check in with her doctor.

Then... She informs me that the boot, which has been waking me up since August, was meant to come off before school even started but she missed the appointment and...

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Her plan, apparently, was to wait until Thanksgiving when she would go home to have her follow up appointment, several months late.

She also figured she needed to stay in the boot because her foot “felt weak.” Almost as if had it immobilized for months with very limited exercise but I digress.

After pushing for a medical opinion, the truth about the boot finally came out.

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Basically, I assertively suggested to her that she needed to consult a doctor because I wasn’t going to put up with hell boot for another month if it wasn’t necessary.

Lo and behold, she goes to the doctor who confirms the boot needed to come off in August and she may actually need physical therapy for keeping it on so...

My friends agreed with me pushing her to get a medical opinion, albeit for my selfish reasons while my family that I was an ass for interfering in something that...

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Editing post to add since people are mentioning it: She (luckily) did not need PT. Her MD gave her some foot exercises and she was back to normal within a...

Also editing to add that I don’t she was/is a bad person. She tends to be an anxious person and thought that she was less likely to reinjure herself,

because her foot felt weak, with the cast then without it. Obviously, she needed to talk to a doctor but that was her more specific reasoning.

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Situations involving shared living spaces often highlight how personal decisions can affect others more than expected. In this case, the conflict revolved around a medical recovery choice that extended far beyond its intended timeframe, creating tension between roommates who were already living in extremely close quarters.

From a practical standpoint, the poster’s reaction is understandable. Dorm rooms are typically small, and constant noise from a rigid medical boot — especially during nighttime hours — can disrupt sleep and daily routines. The roommate’s decision to delay medical follow-up for several months created an unnecessary situation that affected both her own health and the environment she shared with someone else. Encouraging her to seek professional advice was a reasonable step, even if the motivation partially came from frustration.

However, the roommate’s anxiety about reinjury also adds context. Many people recovering from injuries fear removing support devices too early, especially if the affected area still feels weak or unstable. Without medical reassurance, it can be easy to assume that extra caution is safer. What matters here is that the suggestion ultimately helped her receive proper guidance and avoid potential long-term issues. Viewed more broadly, the story reflects how communication between roommates can prevent small problems from becoming prolonged frustrations. Sometimes raising a concern — even when it feels intrusive — can benefit everyone involved.

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These are the responses from Reddit users:

Many users supported the poster, saying the roommate’s choice made little sense.

Krytrunner − NTA and what the actual heck, I can’t imagine staying in a boot/casts for a single minute longer than is absolutely necessary haha

Duukt − My uncle had a coworker who cut his finger once and would put a fresh band-aid on it everyday before coming in to work.

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The only problem was it got cut about 30 years earlier. Ask your roommate if her dad or grandad wears a band-aid on his finger daily. :P NTA.

AnselaJonla − NTA I was in one of those boots a couple of years ago. Between the weight, the muscle atrophy from the lack of movement in that foot,

and the inability to properly bend my leg (the top of the boot dug into the back of my knee whenever I tried) I wanted it gone as soon as....

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Weekly appointments at the hospital, with exercises to do at home in between. This was to make sure my a__le wouldn't lose _too_ much strength despite being immobilised for two...

[Reddit User] − NTA- Why would she wear the cast longer than she needed to? Her foot feels weak cause she hasn’t moved it for awhile. She needs to see...

He_cometh_in_peace − Absolutely NTA, regardless of whether annoyance was the underlying motivation.

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How can anyone have 18+ years of life experience and not know that immobilizing a body part for 3 times longer than medically necessary isn't good? I hope she thanked...

Other commenters took a more balanced approach, recognizing both perspectives.

Silent_Tome − NTA It DOES concern you because it's keeping you up and annoying AF. Also if she doesn't do the physical therapy, she's probably going to limp/have issues the...

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DiligentPenguin16 − *You did her a favor* by encouraging your roommate to consult a doctor when you did,

as the longer she unnecessarily wore the cast the more muscular damage she was doing to herself. As long as you weren’t mean to her while encouraging her to talk...

[Reddit User] − NTA. Also. .. I am speechless. This is the first time I hear about someone willingly not wanting to take their cast off.

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A few users added humor, imagining the boot as an unexpected third roommate.

LizardManelli − How did it not concern you when it was basically your third roommate for several weeks! ?

Any longer and you could have been the godmother at the naming ceremony ;) Good on you for doing yourself and her a favour and speaking up. Obviously, NTA! !

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tanlayen − NTA. The boot should have come off anyways.

The situation began as a typical roommate inconvenience but turned into a lesson about communication and common sense medical care. Once the poster suggested seeing a doctor, the issue was resolved quickly and the roommate recovered within weeks. What initially felt like interference ultimately helped both of them move past a frustrating living situation.

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Stories like this raise interesting questions about shared spaces and boundaries. When does someone’s personal choice become something that affects others enough to speak up? And if you were in the same situation, would you stay quiet out of politeness, or encourage your roommate to seek medical advice sooner?

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