AITAH for calling the ambulance for my co-worker even though I know she was kind of faking it?

A language center worker in Southeast Asia repeatedly stages dramatic fainting spells to score snacks, attention, and skipped duties—until one colleague quietly dials an ambulance. The $50 ride shocks her into silence and ends the routine pampering sessions that once ruined everyone’s lunch breaks.

In addition, the faker now avoids the caller like the plague, while coworkers quietly cheer the end of her act. What makes the story more complicated is the possibility she might actually need medical help, yet five months of identical performances point squarely to manipulation.

‘AITAH for calling the ambulance for my co-worker even though I know she was kind of faking it?’

Lunchtime naps turn into mandatory caregiving whenever the coworker clutches her head and collapses.

I (28M) am working in an English language center in a Southeast Asian country. There's a female co-worker in her 20s here who often touches her head and wobbles like...

We take midday naps here, so whenever she does this, everyone's lunch and nap time is ruined, especially the ones who keep caring for her. This would happen at least...

One time she even asked me to order ice cream for her. (info, it's a big, crowded city, so you can just walk to the ice cream shop nearby to...

Another episode unfolds, but this time the poster escalates straight to emergency services.

This Monday, she did it again, and this time she asked a girl to order her an iced drink, a sandwich. A group of co-workers fanned her, did the whole...

I stood up from my chair, walked towards her, asked if she was OK, then I went to the men's washroom, dialed for an ambulance and went back to my...

Her face CHANGED, you know, that face, when someone knows they fked up, other girls asked if I called, I said yeah, it seems more severe this time. It's best...

The ambulance is here already, you'll have to pay for it regardless (the ambulance fee is about 1-2 days worth of her salary, \~50 dollars). Other coworkers actually agreed and...

ADVERTISEMENT

Now that I think of it, no one called an ambulance for her once. Ever since that incident, she stopped interacting with me beyond hi's and hello's (Thursday now, not...

Attention-seeking through feigned illness disrupts workplaces and exploits kindness, but calling emergency services forces accountability. The poster’s discreet move ends the cycle without public shaming, while the bill delivers a tangible lesson. Repeated identical episodes make genuine illness unlikely.

Some might argue ambulances should stay for real crises, yet no prior medical validation existed. What makes the story more complicated is cultural midday naps amplifying the intrusion. In addition, coworkers’ instant support signals shared frustration. As organizational psychologist Dr. Adam Grant notes, “Calling out bad behavior publicly can backfire, but private consequences teach faster” (source: Think Again).

ADVERTISEMENT

In short, the stunt worked; monitor for relapse, but celebrate the restored peace.

Check out how the community responded:

Most users hailed the ambulance call as genius, predicting a full recovery from her “condition.”

stefaniki − Curious to know if her "spells" have been miraculously cured now

ADVERTISEMENT

graupeltuls − I had someone I was supervising act like they were having a heart attack. I was pretty confident their plan was to skip the ER and head home...

Unfortunately for them, there is policy that does not allow someone having a heart attack to drive, so they had to go through with the ER. Expensive fake heart attack.

Frankifile − I’d have called the ambulance too. As far as you know she could be severely unwell and nobody has got her medical attention, just been buying her food.

ADVERTISEMENT

layingblames − This is the definition of FAFO.

ApprehensiveBook4214 − NTA. Pretty manipulative way to get people to buy her stuff. I'm betting she's miraculously "cured". If not keep calling. She needs to knock this off or she...

A few suggested follow-up tactics to cement the lesson.

ADVERTISEMENT

pigandpom − NTA. She has been taking advantage, now she has FAFO. It'll be interesting to see the miraculous recovery she has

MissxJabroni − Damn this is something I actually want an update on. After that incident did she stop her faking for a bit? Did she continue? I feel like if...

you should tell your coworkers the ambulance trick worked n they need to do it. Every time you see her you should be annoying n just ask if she is...

ADVERTISEMENT

No_Entertainment5968 − If she was really sick a decent human would say, " please pass me my purse" get the money, ask if someone could buy her whatever and give...

Light-hearted jabs rounded out the cheers.

[Reddit User] − NTA. It might stop her using others for freebies, attention seeking and dodging work. If it’s such a regular occurrence she needs it checked out and you...

ADVERTISEMENT

If it’s faked, FAFO. Fact she’s not talking to you is telling, pissed you didn’t follow the script and dared to put a stop to her antics.

I’d guess the hospital didn’t provide free snacks or minions to fan her and wait on her needs. Be interesting to see if she stops doing it now, in fear...

NewNameAgainUhg − NTA I would make a point to ask her in public if she is feeling better, and that you were "so worried" for her

ADVERTISEMENT

The office breathes easier, the couch stays empty, and the faker now pays for her own iced drinks. One $50 ride may have cured a six-month scam.

Ever had a coworker milk fake ailments for perks—how did you shut it down? Would you call 911 again or confront directly next time? Drop your office drama below: miracle cure or secret relapse?

Share this post

Related Posts

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *