My BF wanted me to do an IQ test to prove how intellectually superior he was?

One ordinary evening turned into a stage for a guy’s dramatic display of intellectual bravado. The ex-boyfriend of a 17-year-old girl was relentless in proving his superior smarts, from online IQ tests to a heated chess match. With her sharp wit and laid-back attitude, she accidentally left him in the dust.

This story is a hilarious memory, and it shows how overconfidence can lead to unforgettable embarrassment. Let’s dive into her journey of facing her ex’s massive ego, alongside the lively reactions from the online community.

‘My BF wanted me to do an IQ test to prove how intellectually superior he was?’

One evening, a 17-year-old girl found herself roped into taking an online IQ test by her boastful boyfriend.

When I (F) was 17 at the time, I had a boyfriend who was VERY pretentious. I personally always found that funny, so I didn't mind. However, he was hell-bent...

One day, he was bragging about an online IQ test he did and how smart he was. He begged me to do one as well. However, I had just smoked...

Despite being high I scored higher on the IQ test. He was so pissed it was hilarious! He never bragged about his IQ test again.

Not content with the IQ test, her boyfriend decided to flex his skills in a chess game.

Another time, he really wanted to show off by playing chess against me. I'm really bad at the game and told him so. But I knew people who were good...

So I did just that. Half way through I had captured most of his pawn and he raged quit!!!! AT CHESS!!! He flipped the board and broke some of his...

After these memorable moments, their relationship quickly fizzled out.

Needless to say, a week or two after we were no longer together. I made him too insecure and he went back to his ex who he called extremely stupid.......

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What happens when an oversized ego sabotages a relationship?

The 17-year-old’s story reveals her ex-boyfriend’s obsession with proving intellectual dominance, from IQ tests to chess. This behavior points to deep insecurity, often rooted in a need for validation. Psychologist John Gottman notes, “Strong relationships are built on mutual respect, not competition” (The Gottman Institute, 2020).

His rage after losing suggests emotional immaturity, which strained their bond. His insecurity overshadowed any affection for her, ultimately dooming the relationship.

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The online community called his actions childish and fragile. His return to an ex he deemed “less intelligent” indicates a preference for control over equality.

For those in similar situations, seek a partner who respects you, not one who competes with you. Open communication and clear boundaries can prevent unnecessary conflicts.

See what others had to share with OP:

The online community jumped in with reactions ranging from witty jabs to thoughtful insights.

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These comments didn’t hold back, slamming the boyfriend’s immature need to prove himself.

TheSoulborgZeus − anyone who wants and needs to prove that they're smarter usually isn't

DonaIdTrurnp − Anyone who wants to play chess only against people who won’t win has issues that need a therapist.

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off_rark_grames − The fact that he bragged about getting a high "IQ" from an "online IQ test" tells a lot about how intelligent he is.

Some users couldn’t help but chuckle at the unexpected outcome, cheering the girl on.

Powerful-Ad-4292 − Bullet dodged successfully

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[Reddit User] − Great story. He's probably still mad. (Point of information: You do know that those online IQ tests are invalid, don't you? )

CrazySpookyGirl − What a fragile individual

Zoreb1 − Dating is designed to weed out losers; which you did.

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These comments dug deeper, connecting the story to personal experiences with sharp insights.

SwampyBiscuits − My xhusband was like this, but much more covert. He would likely act like neither bothered him, or invalidate the test & say he was taking it easy...

As we speak, I’m trying to talk my daughter back into going to college because his self-worth is SO wrapped up in how smart he is, that he convinced her...

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I know that’s what he’s doing, as farcical as that seems, because he did the same with me. Then, when I went back to school a few years ago, &...

he wouldn’t pass up a chance to laugh at my “easy” classes & my major in Psychology, AKA “unemployment”. So freakin’ slimy. Good job putting that creep in his place!...

km_irl − I used to play chess with my wife, then girlfriend, and I was really impressed how quickly she went from not knowing how to play to being a...

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30 years later she has 4 degrees and is principle scientist at her company. She's smarter than me, she makes more money than me, she's better looking than me. All...

Wolfdagon − Around 20 years ago, I worked with a guy named Thomas who always thought he was smarter than everyone else. He had taken an online IQ test and...

I finally broke down and took it just to shut him up and scored 149. Surprisingly, that did not bother him as much as I expected. There was a girl...

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She confided to me that she had already taken it, but scored much lower than Thomas. She did not want him to know because she knew he would never let...

Later in the shift, Kristy tood me that she had told Thomas she had scored 155 on the test. He did not believe her. He knew, beyond a shadow of...

I told her to let him know that she would email it to him. That night, I went home and took the test again. I knew which questions I most...

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I printed those out and took them to Kristy the next day. That day, she told Thomas that she forgot to email him her results but would do so the...

She said she had to take the test a few times to miss the right number of questions and finish in a time frame that gave her a 155 score....

I made a point of rubbing it in when I saw Thomas that Kristy was smarter than him. He still couldn't believe it, but could not deny the "proof". The...

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he smugly said something like "Well, she scored higher than you, too. " I just looked him straight in the eye and said, "The difference is, it doesn't bother me...

He went on for the rest of the day about how he couldn't believe Kristy was that smart. Once in a while during the time I worked with Thomas, I...

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These reactions highlight the community’s empathy and humor in watching the boyfriend’s fragile ego unravel.

This story shows how overconfidence can backfire into cringe-worthy moments. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect and support, not rivalry. What do you think of how the girl handled this? Have you ever dealt with someone overly boastful—how did you respond?

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