AITAH for quitting my job after finding out my boss takes 60% of my earnings?

A part-time dog walker, new to a city, quit their job at a dog walking/sitting agency after discovering their boss was taking a 60% cut of client payments—far more than the assumed 15-40%. After confirming the math with a client, they confronted their boss, who responded with a mix of insults, denial, and claims of unprofessionalism. Shocked by the boss’s reaction and the stark pay disparity, the worker stepped away, prompting a fiery debate about fair compensation and workplace transparency.

Was the worker’s decision to quit a justified stand against exploitation, or an overreaction to a standard business model? The online community largely backs their exit, questioning the boss’s ethics and urging independence. Let’s unpack this workplace drama and decide who’s really in the wrong.

‘AITAH for quitting my job after finding out my boss takes 60% of my earnings?’

OP worked part-time for a dog walking/sitting agency for three months:

I have worked part time for a dog walking/sitting agency for the past three months. My boss told me that she took a small percentage from each sit/walk and that...

Anyways, a month passes, I’ve just completed a 7 night sit with a client. Said client reached out to me two days ago and asks if I could do 4...

A client revealed the full payment, exposing a 60% cut:

I immediately realised it is A LOT more, I done the maths real quick and realised my boss was taking a 60% cut. I made sure I was correct and...

and honestly I’m kind of disappointed that I wasn’t aware of the percentage being that high. I understand you have to take your cut, but I do feel my rate...

The boss reacted defensively, calling OP rude and selfish:

Her reply was basically a mix of calling me selfish and rude, backtracking, telling me she doesn’t need someone like me, trying to claim she only takes 30% (untrue), and...

She also mentioned numerous times that it was extremely rude and unprofessional of me to of ever previously asked anything to do with my wage and percentages. I was quite...

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EDIT: This gained a lot more traction than I thought it would. I want to make it clear that my job was ruled under self employment, the boss did NOT...

With that information, you can decide how legit you think this business may be. I also want to add that I picked up this job as I had just moved...

This story exposes the murky ethics of gig work and the importance of wage transparency. The boss’s 60% cut, undisclosed and far exceeding OP’s expectations, borders on exploitative, especially given the minimal overhead (a website) and OP’s self-employed status, which shifts most liabilities onto them. Industry standards for dog walking agencies typically see 20-50% agency fees, covering marketing, insurance, and client coordination, per the International Association of Canine Professionals. A 60% cut, without transparency, is excessive and undermines trust.

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OP’s decision to quit was a rational response to feeling undervalued, supported by labor economist Dr. Lawrence Katz’s observation: “Transparency in pay structures is critical to worker retention in gig economies” (The Rise and Nature of Alternative Work Arrangements). The boss’s defensive reaction—gaslighting OP as “rude” and claiming a lower cut—suggests an intent to obscure unfair practices, as noted by workplace psychologist Dr. Amy Edmondson: “Defensiveness in leadership often masks unethical behavior” (The Fearless Organization).

OP’s youth and newness to the city likely made them vulnerable to such exploitation. Moving forward, they could research local industry rates (e.g., £15-25/hour for dog walking in the UK) and consider independent work, as suggested online, ensuring they secure liability insurance (£50-100/year) and client contracts. A calm follow-up with the boss, requesting a breakdown of fees, could clarify the dispute, but going solo or joining a fairer agency is likely wiser.

Here’s how people reacted to the post:

The online community largely supported OP, condemning the boss’s greed and lack of transparency, though some noted standard agency practices and urged caution in going independent.

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Supporting OP, Condemning Boss’s Greed:

Artistic-Tough-7764 − NTA. Time to find either a better boss or let your customers know you are going independent.

ArtistKeith333 − NTA. I could understand even 50/50, because she's getting the contacts and setting up the contracts, booking, book-keeping, etc. But taking 60 percent is just damn greedy. S__ew...

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[Reddit User] − Sounds like a great time to start your own Canine Cardio Corporation. I have friends who have a dog walking company. They are doing quite well.

TheRealRedParadox − Asking wage questions is never unprofessional. Lying to your employees and f__king them over is though. NTA you honestly had a right to know how much the percentage...

Adeviatlos − I have absolutely no idea what sort of business dog watching is but I can tell you for CERTAIN that many, many, many business owners in North America...

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Sounds like maybe you could cut the middle-man out here, though. Maybe you could cut ties and take some clients on your own? Also if an employer is suddenly defensive...

Lonewolfx0 − NTA. Her reply was rude. But unfortunately she is the one taking all the liability. The worst that would happen if something went south is she fires you....

Dana07620 − NTA Did you expect her to suddenly be ashamed? Bold as brass that one.

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GnarlsFarls − This is where you start your own business with the clients you have made. Good luck!

Explaining Agency Practices, Urging Research:

cdxxmike − In the business world it is common for a business to bill triple the rate they pay a consultant. Often the partner that brought the business gets a...

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Either_Management813 − If this is an agency rather than a regular employer, such as a temp agency where you only get work when there’s a client who needs a service,...

When I worked for temp agencies in the US the agency paid me 50% of what they received but they found the jobs, handled insurance - not health insurance, liability,...

You could do some online research and see what is customary or call other agencies and ask. If your research shows she was taking more than is typical, find another...

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Before you decide to do this on your own... make sure you understand what the licensing requirements are, what insurance you should have... as well as the cost if a...

JoffreeBaratheon − NAH. The money you made didn't change before and after the knowledge of what boss was taking, so you took the job getting the money you were making...

For the % itself, You also don't know if the % is consistent between clients... So you shouldn't be confident 1 client's info determines the overall % your boss actually...

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LtWilliamWonka − NTA. The truth is, if you agreed upon a wage for an amount of work, and did that work and got paid that wage, nothing wrong happened.

It's not a strangers' (your boss) job to be an advocate for you or your interests. That being said, you are absolutely free to seek employment for better wages and...

Criticizing OP’s Expectations:

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No_Stand8812 − I’m assuming that OP is young, and this is their first experience with the reality that in business, the value of their labor isn’t necessarily equal to their...

If you don’t think that wage is fair, then don’t do the job. The whole reason, people hire employees is to increase their total revenue and hopefully their total profit....

RaccoonNo5539 − You can tell the average redditor is and always will be a PAYE... So your boss has built a brand, advertises their company's services, finds the work, manages...

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while you turn up to the job then afterwards, you switch off and expect to get paid 70% or more of the total cost the customer is paying? That sounds...

Sharing Success Stories of Independence:

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Designer-Date-6526 − A small practical example of the kind of situation you're in and what the other guy did as follows: We had a large water filter in our house...

One day he calls me and says that he left his employment because his boss took the majority of what we paid... So I asked him what he was planning...

This dog-walking dispute reveals the harsh realities of gig work and the power of standing up for fair pay. OP’s decision to quit after uncovering their boss’s 60% cut was a bold move against exploitation, supported by the community’s outrage at the boss’s greed and lack of transparency.

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While some defend agency practices, the boss’s defensive lies tip the scales toward OP’s favor. Researching industry standards and exploring independent work with proper insurance could secure OP’s future. Do you think OP was right to quit, or should they have negotiated first? How would you handle this shady boss? Share your thoughts below!

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