AITA for getting my uncle in trouble and causing him to lose money?

When OP left their church, they didn’t expect a stream of volunteers knocking at their farm door to “save” them. But one candid chat with a pair of out-of-country volunteers flipped the script: one confessed they no longer believed and wanted to go home, only to find their passport locked away by OP’s uncle, the volunteer coordinator.

OP’s push to free the volunteer sparked a family firestorm, hefty fines, and their uncle’s ousting from his church role. This tale of faith, freedom, and family fallout pulls us into a moral maze—did OP go too far, or were they a hero? Let’s plow through this drama and find out.

‘AITA for getting my uncle in trouble and causing him to lose money?’

I left my church recently and my dad keeps sending church members to my house to 'save' me. Recently a pair of church volunteers came over to talk with me. They offered assistance with anything I might need some I had them help around my farm while we talked.

We talked about where they are from, (they're volunteering for 2 years from out of the country) what they plan on doing when they get home, how my life's going, and why I stopped believing. The next week one of them called and said they weren't sure if they believed when they left the country and after our talk they realized they didn't believe and wanted to return home.

The problem was that their volunteer coodinator was holding on to their important documents so they wouldn't get misplaced, and one of those things were his passport. The coordinator said he would only give it back after his 2 years were finished. He asked if I could get it back for him since the coordinator is my uncle.

I spoke to my uncle and he said he knew I was the one who corrupted him and basically told me to kick rocks. I told him I would call the police on him if he didn't give him back the passport and he said I didn't have the balls. So I called the police and they redirected me to the Australian embassy.

My uncle was fined quite a hefty amount and told him he had 3 days to return the passport or they would start the process to charge him with human trafficking. Word got around his church and now he's been released from his paid coordinator position.

My family are saying I went to far and that I only did this because he insisted me and that they knew he would have given the volunteer his documents back. That he has too many physical problems to get another job and I shouldn't have said anything. I'm starting to think maybe I did the wrong thing and should've tried other avenues before going straight to the police. AITA?

OP’s clash with their uncle unearths a chilling abuse of religious authority. By withholding a volunteer’s passport, the uncle trapped someone in a role they no longer wanted, a tactic experts liken to modern slavery. Human rights lawyer Dr. David Matas states, “Withholding travel documents is a hallmark of human trafficking, stripping individuals of autonomy” . OP’s intervention, escalating to the Australian embassy, was a bold move to restore that freedom.

The uncle’s defiance and the church’s initial inaction point to a troubling power dynamic. OP, fresh from leaving the church, likely saw through this control, especially after their own faith shift. A 2022 UN report notes that religious organizations sometimes exploit volunteers through coercive practices, affecting thousands globally . The uncle’s fine and job loss were direct consequences of his illegal actions, not OP’s report.

Dr. Matas advises, “Confronting such abuses requires swift reporting to authorities.” OP could further support the volunteer by connecting them with repatriation services.

See what others had to share with OP:

Reddit users rallied behind OP with gusto—here’s the fiery feedback fresh from the thread:

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bamf1701 − NTA. Not all heroes have capes, and, you, sir, are a hero. If your uncle could not get another job, then he should not have been breaking the law by illegally keeping those peoples’ documents. Your uncle’s predicament is not your fault - it’s his, 100%. And you saved those people who he was victimizing.

Delicious_Wish8712 − NTA. By holding onto the volunteer’s passport your uncle was human trafficking/engaging in modern day slavery. Thank you for helping the volunteer out and effectively setting him free.

Parking-Fix-8143 − NTA. All day, every way. You were right to call him out for an illegal act. The passports are property of the issuing nation so it was wrong for us ncle to hold them.. Case closed.

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PurpleGreyPunk − NTA! That church/cult is basically setting up an indentured servitude situation for “missionaries”. They are not above the law.

Alloddscanteven − NTA AT ALL and congratulations for getting out of whatever religious movement this is. Whether it is Scientology, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Mormons, or anything else, this is trafficking, and a well-documented abusive cult tactic used to keep members in line. You should be so proud of yourself.

Side note - I’m an avid scholar of New Religious Movements and cults and if you are ever interested I can provide you with a ton of resources to read, watch, engage with, and/or seek help from. You are not alone.

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[Reddit User] − NTA He literally kidnapped someone and then dared you to call the police.

marvel_nut − Yep, I used to work on transnational crime issues and withholding travel documents is a classic technique deployed by human traffickers and exploiters of migrant labour. Your uncle deserved what he got; glad the Church actually did the right thing and fired him instead of just tut-tutting piously. Absolutely NTA.

qtd267 − NTA at all you did the right thing no one has the right to basically hold someone prisoner you saved them from not only the church but from being stuck where they didn't want to be you absolutely did the right thing. Thank you

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DankDankmark − NTA. You simply can’t force somebody to work/volunteer against their will. Your uncle f**ked around, and found out. You have nothing to feel bad about, I would say quite the opposite.

TheMadHatterOnTea − NTA I think you absolutely did the right thing; you're a good human - opposite of an a**hole in fact. Your family is saying they knew your uncle would give the volunteer his documents back, but why did you uncle have them in the first place...? Glad he got punished!

These Reddit roars are loud, but do they preach truth or just fuel the fire? One thing’s certain: OP’s courage struck a chord with many.

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OP’s showdown with their uncle exposes how far some will go to enforce loyalty, even at the cost of freedom. By reporting the passport hold, OP freed a volunteer but split their family, leaving them questioning their choice. This saga challenges us to weigh personal ethics against family ties. What would you do if a relative crossed a legal line? Drop your verdict or stories below—let’s dig into this ethical quagmire together!

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