AITAH for calling the cops on my sister after she snuck shellfish in my food?

In a sunlit kitchen, the clink of plates promised a warm family lunch, but danger lurked beneath the surface. A young woman, trusting her sister’s care, bit into a dish that sent her throat burning, her body betraying her with every cough. Her sister, fully aware of her severe shellfish allergy, had slipped the forbidden ingredient into the meal as a cruel test, turning a cozy gathering into a race to the hospital.

This chilling tale, shared on Reddit’s AITA forum, unfolds a story of betrayal and survival. The woman’s decision to call the police on her sister sparked heated debate, with family ties fraying under the weight of reckless actions. Her raw honesty pulls readers into a drama where trust shatters and consequences loom large.

‘AITAH for calling the cops on my sister after she snuck shellfish in my food?’

1(21 F) and my sister (23 F) have never had any issues until last week. She and her husband (23 M) had invited me over for a lunch, which is normal for us. I have a severe shellfish allergy, even touching it makes me extremely itchy, my sister is completely aware of this and has been since we were children.

When I got to their house she said that food was already finished and in the fridge, she claimed that it was just a tuna pasta (yes, I can eat tuna, an many other fish, just nothing with a shell). After she finished cleaning up we had a short conversation about what's been happening in our lives since it had been a while since we'd seen each other.

I got this strange feeling from her but just brushed it off as I was extremely tired that day. She grabbed the food out of the fridge and served it for me, giving me a small bowl 'in case I don't like it'. I couldn't smell much of it, and from what I could smell I just assumed it was fish, but when I took a bite l almost immediately felt my throat burning..

I was coughing and grabbing at my throat, and her husband kept asking me if I was choking.. My sister turned to me panicking and saying 'I thought you were exaggerating!!' An ambulance was called and I was rushed to the hospital, I was thankfully okay but they had made me stay to be monitored for next two days.

My sister and BIL had tried to visit me but I told her to get out. She kept apologising and refusing to leave. I told her that l'll be calling the police on her for what she'd done, as it's literally attempted m**der, and she lost it. She kept screaming at me saying 'I know you're faking this, you always act like you're allergic to shellfish so I wanted to test you!'

Id been pressing the call button for the nurse but they heard her regardless and had asked me if I wanted them removed. I said yes. I explained the whole situation to her and the hospital security and eventually decided that with the help of the nurse and security guards l'd file a report against her..

My mother is saying I'm overreacting and that I should have just cut contact, but I don't know anymore. Also: When I was a young child my sister had witnessed me have a severe reaction and went to the hospital where I underwent treatment.

She was also there when I was informed I had a shellfish allergy. You may be wondering why I never had an epipen on me, and that’s because I didn’t feel the need to as she was my *sister*. AITA?

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This harrowing incident exposes the peril of dismissing allergies as mere exaggerations. The sister’s reckless “test” endangered a life, revealing a profound lack of empathy. Dr. David Stukus, an allergist, stresses, “Food allergies are serious; even small exposures can trigger life-threatening reactions” . The sister’s actions, ignoring a known severe allergy, crossed a dangerous line, risking anaphylaxis.

The betrayal reflects a broader issue: disbelief in medical conditions. A 2021 study found 20% of adults with food allergies face skepticism from family, worsening emotional and physical safety . The sister’s denial, even after witnessing a childhood reaction, underscores this harmful mindset, escalating a personal grudge into a medical emergency.

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Dr. Stukus advises, “Respecting allergies means strict avoidance, not experimentation.” The victim’s decision to involve police, while drastic, signals the gravity of intentional harm. Her sister’s lack of remorse at the hospital further justifies this response, highlighting a refusal to accept responsibility.

Therapy could help address the sister’s motivations, while support groups like Food Allergy Research & Education offer resources for rebuilding trust. The victim’s stand prioritizes safety, urging families to take allergies seriously and fostering open dialogue about medical needs.

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Here’s the feedback from the Reddit community:

Reddit erupted with support for the woman, condemning her sister’s reckless act. Commenters unanimously agreed the sister’s intentional harm warranted consequences, with many calling her actions akin to assault or worse, given the known allergy risks.

The community’s outrage reflects a shared stance: endangering someone’s life over skepticism is indefensible. They praised the woman’s resolve to seek justice, noting her sister’s lack of remorse amplified the betrayal’s sting.

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Crying_rn_pls_help − As I said when I saw your original post, nta! Your sister was very aware of your allergy and has seen how you react. She absolutely intended to harm you!

Anxious-Custard6208 − That’s so weird…. Why would she care that much about proving something that quite literally doesn’t affect her life at all. She’s got problems

Gheshifette − NTA File charges against her, you don't test someone's allergies out of your own curiosity. Actions have consequences, and hers just happen to be bad. She should be thankful you didn't die. You could show her grace, but she doesn't seem to be remorseful of her actions.

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Lopsided_Put4682 − NTA, holy f**k the thought process of some people. I think my sister might be faking her shellfish allergy. I did see her need to go to the hospital before, but she must have tricked everyone! Sure, I might kill her if I'm wrong, but if I'm right I'll get to be smug and tell her that I wasn't fooled!

Also whatever compassion I had wondering if it was too much to charge your sister for attempted m**der (although that's what it was), vanished the moment when you told her you'd be calling the police on you

instead of apologizing profusely, she decided to double down and scream at you, still believing that you were faking it.. Do what you have to do OP because you'll never be safe around your sister.

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DeviousWhippet − How the lemon scented F**k can you be the arsehole? B**ch tried to kill you! NTA

RanaEire − NTA, u/Rude-Disaster1658. You have to be prepared for your Mom's BS, though... . However, your sister *has* to face consequences.. **This was not an accident, no matter what her 'thought' processes were.**

firefly232 − I explained the whole situation to her and the hospital security and eventually decided that with the help of the nurse and security guards l'd file a report against her.. NTA Your sister deliberately tried to poison you at best, and m**der you at worst. She knew that you were allergic.

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Even if she thought you were only mildly allergic, it's generally known that repeated exposure to allergens can tip a mild reaction into anaphylactic shock. Please continue to press charges, and don't be persuaded to drop it. I would suggest speaking to a lawyer ASAP.

I'm sad to say that it seems your mom is not on your side, you will need to get support from other people. You might want to point out to her that your sister attempted to kill you, knowing you were allergic.. Also, please carry your epipen with you.

Important_Flower_816 − NTA what makes your sister the allergy queen? She just automatically knows who is allergic to what and how severe? And then she doubled down in the ER after you had a reaction! File that police report, press those charges, because based on her reactions at the ER she will try that mess again.

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Secret_Double_9239 − NTA she literally tried to kill you because she didn’t believe you. If BIL is smart he will divorce her before they have any kids with allergies that she doesn’t believe are real.

SnooGuavas4531 − NTA. That’s at least a**ault and battery. I don’t know if it’s one of the attempted h**icide crimes because she didn’t think it would kill you but that is a decision to be made by the prosecutor and you are definitely justified in being upset and calling the police.

This story of betrayal and survival leaves a bitter taste, with a sister’s dangerous stunt shattering trust. The woman’s courage to act, even against family pressure, sparks reflection on accountability and safety. Have you faced disbelief over a medical condition, or navigated family fallout over tough choices? Share your experiences below.

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