AITA for not stopping my work-out for someone to make a video?

In the clang of weights and hum of treadmills at a bustling gym, a routine workout turned into a testy standoff when a woman demanded a prime spot for her social media video. Tapping a focused gym-goer mid-squat, she sparked a clash of priorities his dedication to training versus her quest for the perfect shot. This Reddit tale pumps with the energy of gym culture, laced with the irritation of modern entitlement.

It’s not just about a Smith machine it’s about respect, boundaries, and the clash of personal missions in shared spaces. With the gym-goer’s headphones on and patience off, his petty pushback against the video-maker’s attitude feels like a flex of principle. Let’s dive into this sweaty saga of gym etiquette and see who’s really lifting the weight of right or wrong.

‘AITA for not stopping my work-out for someone to make a video?’

This is becoming more and more common at the surrounding gyms, which is really annoying and a reason I've changed gyms more than once this year alone. Working out is a pillar of my everyday life, and it has been for the past ten years, and I'm at the gym every day of the week.

Now, I don't go to the gym to talk to people, make friends or make funny videos. I go to train and go home. However, now with the new video trends, many folks want to record their exercises to post on social media. This is their business and not mine, they can do whatever they want,

but I also don't think I need to stop doing my own work-out to accommodate them. Last night, I was doing squats on the smith machine. I work out with head-phones and didn't notice someone trying to get my attention. I suddenly felt a tap on my shoulder mid-squat, and only then I noticed a woman with a very annoyed expression.

She barely allowed me to finish the movement to start talking, which was muffled due to headphones. Long story short, she was annoyed because I was training in the smith machine, as she wanted to record herself doing regular squats.

However, she said the best spot was in front of that smith machine (there's more than one), and she didn't want me on the frame, so she wanted me to stop my series for her to record. Now, usually, if someone comes to me with a good attitude and asks if it's ok for me to stop for a series or two for them to record or even move machines,

I would absolutely not mind and comply. That woman did nothing of the sort, being extremely arrogant and honestly, extremely annoying. So, I was petty, and told her to record once I was done, and proceeded to do every single exercise I could on the same smith machine. Squats? Smith. Hip Thrust? Smith.

It was petty, and I know I shouldn't have done it. But I felt very vindicated, seeing her annoying expression. That being said, a few people said I was an a**hole for doing that, as there were other machines I could use. Honestly, they might be right, but hey, I thought I'd ask the internet, was I too much of an a**hole here?

Gyms are sanctuaries for sweat, not stages for social media, and this clash over a Smith machine lays bare a growing tension. The gym-goer’s refusal to pause their workout for a video was a stand for personal space, especially after the woman’s entitled interruption mid-squat—a move both rude and risky. Her expectation that others accommodate her filming highlights a broader clash between individual goals and shared gym etiquette.

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This scenario reflects a rising issue: social media’s impact on gym culture. A 2023 survey by Fitness Magazine found that 25% of gym-goers feel disrupted by others filming workouts. Dr. Michelle Segar, a behavioral psychologist, notes, “Shared spaces require mutual respect. Entitled behavior, like demanding others adjust for personal gain, erodes community”. Here, the woman’s attitude, not her filming, was the real misstep.

Segar’s insight suggests a need for clear boundaries. The gym-goer’s petty retaliation hogging the machine was understandable but escalated the tension. A calm response, like suggesting she wait or use another spot, might have diffused the situation. The woman could learn to approach others respectfully, especially during active sets. Gyms could help by posting clear rules on filming to balance everyone’s needs.

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Practical solutions include gyms designating filming zones or time slots to minimize disruptions. For individuals, polite communication like a quick, friendly request can prevent conflicts. This story reminds us that gyms thrive on mutual respect, not ego-driven demands. The gym-goer’s stand, while petty, was a push for fairness in a shared space.

Heres what people had to say to OP:

Reddit’s community pumped up the gym-goer’s stance, slamming the woman’s entitled interruption as a breach of gym etiquette. Users cheered the OP’s refusal to yield, especially after her dangerous tap mid-squat, and many called out the growing trend of social media filming disrupting workouts.

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The consensus leaned toward supporting the gym-goer’s right to train uninterrupted, with some suggesting gym policies against filming. The playful nods to the OP’s petty revenge added a lighthearted flex to the debate, affirming gym-goers’ rights to focus.

Any_Cantaloupe_613 − NTA.. First off, who the f**k interrupts someone mid squat? A lot of gyms have a no recording policy where I live. In my last gym, these people just got reported to the fitness manager.

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whatsmypassword73 − NTA LOL, for all those people trying to film themselves in a public place, get over yourselves. We don’t care about your 1327 followers seeing your gains. Stop disrupting public space with your ego.

Fun-Two-1414 − NTA. You go to a gym to work out, not to record yourself. If she wants to do that, she needs to wait until she has the right opportunity. She shouldn't expect others to stop what they are doing so she can get her own way.

okayish_22 − NTA Not only was it extremely dangerous for her to touch you while you were in the middle of a squat, but the extreme entitlement that followed just sent it right over the edge. Honestly, you were petty. But in this case? It was warranted. You don't owe her the 'good spot' for filming.

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Can you report her to the management? It really was very dangerous for her to interrupt someone like that, someone without proper muscle memory and technique could definitely get hurt if she startled them!

arrowsdeluxe − NTA. This is lowkey toxic gym culture. Even thejoeyswoll on TikTok has touched upon this topic bc it’s led to people being discouraged from going to the gym. It’s one thing to film yourself, it’s another to interfere with someone’s peace just for your own selfish attitude. How about next time she wants to film regular squats, find a private training room or something…

WhoKnewHomesteading − NTA. I hate the must video everything attitude

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Conscious-Survey7009 − NTA. You pay to use the gym and equipment provided. She can video herself squatting anywhere. Telling you it has to be there and you’re in her shot is complete entitled BS. You’re a lot nicer than I am because I wouldn’t move for any of them.

4legsandatail − My gym doesn't allow photos/videos. Maybe look for one like that.

HarryEspeland − NTA they can do their little workout videos in the privacy of their own home not inconvenience everyone in public.

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Bear_Cub_15 − NTA - These people don’t even go to the gym to work out. They just want people to think they do.. It’s embarrassing.

This gym showdown lifts the lid on how social media can strain shared spaces. The gym-goer’s stand against an entitled video-maker was a sweaty defense of personal focus, proving respect is the ultimate reps in a gym. Have you faced disruptions like this at the gym or elsewhere? Share your stories below—let’s talk about keeping shared spaces fair and focused!

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