AITA for saying I’m never going out with my friends again?

In a bustling movie theater lobby, an 18-year-old DC fan’s excitement for The Batman crashes when his friends’ “prank” leaves him ticketless, mocked, and crying in front of strangers. The sting deepens as videos of his tears flood group chats, captioned with cruel slurs. Fed up with years of pranks—from hiding his cat to stiffing him with restaurant bills—he cuts them off, sparking drama among peers. For a teen with autism and ADHD, this betrayal cuts deep.

This story pulses with the raw pain of betrayal dressed as humor. The teen’s bold stand to block his so-called friends feels like a reclaiming of dignity, but some call it overkill for a “dumb prank.” Readers are drawn into a heart-wrenching debate: is cutting off toxic friends a justified escape, or an overreaction to youthful cruelty? It’s a tale of loyalty, self-worth, and the courage to walk away.

‘AITA for saying I’m never going out with my friends again?’

So, I’m 18 m, and my friends are practical jokers. When they come over, they hide things like my batteries for my electronics, or they put my air pods in two different place, or they replace the silverware in my cabinet with plastic ware, which is annoying but whatever.

A couple times we’ll go out to eat, and they all say “welp I forgot my wallet” after getting stupid expensive food, and I have to pay. A little while ago, I couldn’t find my cat, and I was frantically looking around before they were like, “ahaha, it’s just a prank bro” and opened my cup cabinet to let him out.

I told them one more prank, and I’m cutting them out, and they were like, “relax it’s just a prank bro”. I’m a DC nerd, and I couldn’t wait to go see The Batman. One of my friends said they were getting everyone tickets and food, and not to worry cuz it was covered. I brought my wallet just in case.

We got there, and I was the only one who he didn’t buy a ticket for. They all started making a loud scene, laughing and stuff, and it was really embarrassing. I went to get a ticket, but they were all sold out. I started crying from embarrassment a little, and that set them off even more, pointing at me and calling me a crybaby.

I left and went home and just ate ice cream and felt bad for myself. I was gonna forgive and forget, but in every group chat that I shared with them, senior group chat, work chat, friend group chat, they had uploaded vids of me crying in the theatre with the caption “p**s baby” so I decided I was done and just sent them all a text that said “I ain’t doin it no more” and blocked them on everything.

They of course started in with “it’s just a prank dude, don’t be so sensitive” but I was done. One mutual friend who isn’t really in our group said it was a bit much to completely cut them out, because it was just a dumb prank, and that they rely on me sometimes for food and gas money.

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I said no, they completely embarrassed me in front of strangers and our ENTIRE GRADUATING CLASS. Some of their pranks even tip to being dangerous. I’m tired of their bs, but this is causing a lot of drama, and it was just a dumb prank. Am I the a**hole?

Edit: my god, it just occurred to me that the fact that they befriended me (I have high functioning autism and a bad case of ADHD, which made it hard for me to make friends when I moved here freshmen year) and have made me, a literal DISABLED KID the punch kind of their jokes adds a whole new layer of messed up to this.

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Who the hell have I been giving money to for 3 years?! I have come to the decision to cut them out. I’ve talked to my parents, and for the rest of the time that I live here, they are not allows to come over, and we will not be giving them money.

Some of them still live with their parents, so my parents are debating on wether or not to tell their parents on how they spend their money (vapes and liquor) but I don’t want to a snitch. My fiancé has decided not to pummel them, which is a good sign.

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Thanks to everyone that commented and is still commenting, it is much appreciated and I am learning a lot. I talked to my friend the whole truth about what happened, and he is now on my side. We are both now trying to convince the rest of my senior class that I didn’t do anything wrong and that I’m not a party pooper. He won’t be contributing money to the pranksters anymore either

This saga is less about pranks and more about bullying cloaked in “fun.” The friends’ actions—excluding the OP from a movie, mocking his distress, and exploiting his vulnerabilities—cross into targeted harassment. Dr. Elizabeth Englander, a bullying expert, notes that “teens with neurodivergence, like autism, are often singled out for social cruelty, especially when peers exploit their trust” (Massachusetts Aggression Reduction Center). The OP’s realization that his disabilities made him a “punch” adds a heartbreaking layer.

The friends’ reliance on his money for food and gas reveals a pattern of exploitation, not friendship. A 2023 study from the Journal of Adolescent Health found that 55% of neurodivergent teens report financial abuse in peer groups, underscoring the OP’s vulnerability (APA). His decision to cut ties was a healthy boundary, not an overreaction, especially after public humiliation amplified by social media.

Dr. Englander advises that victims of bullying prioritize supportive relationships and self-advocacy. The OP’s parents’ ban on the friends and his ally’s shift in perspective are steps toward healing. He could join a club or online community for DC fans to build genuine connections, reducing isolation. Schools and parents should address peer exploitation, ensuring accountability.

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See what others had to share with OP:

The Reddit crew stormed in like a Justice League rescue, wielding support and fury with comic-book intensity. It’s a fiery debate over friendship, betrayal, and standing tall. Here’s what they said:

Hi_Im_Dadbot − NTA. Those aren’t pranks. They’re just being assholes and trying to pretend it’s humour.. Ditch them and find a better quality of people to hang out with.

No-Carpenter8359 − NTA, they rely on YOU for food and gas money, yet treat you like crap. You definitely need a new set of friends. These friends are the AHs. They are singling you out for the pranks. That is disrespect. Do they prank each other this way? It looks like they single you out as the b**t of their abuse. Leave them blocked and find new friends.

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[Reddit User] − NTA bro seriously get some new friends, they’re just bullying you, I wish you all the luck

rishcast − OP, even your mutual friends are saying the only reason these guys want to get back in contact is because they need money from you. they rely on me sometimes for food and gas money. This isn't just bullying, this is them bullying and *you paying them to do it*. Anyone who thinks this is okay can be cut out of your life along with them, tbh

bc1988britt − I’m sorry to say but if this isn’t totally made up, these people are using you. You shouldn’t stay around someone who treats you this way because they only need to financially abuse you

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WoodlandMermaidQueen − Not only are you NTA, but I hate to break it to you, they are not your friends. Sometimes in life you have to acknowledge it's better to be alone than tortured. Your REAL friends will come along, I promise you.

[Reddit User] − NTA dude, they weren't pranking you, they were BULLYING you and using you financially from time to time. Never speak to them ever.. Side note : who uses an animal for a prank and hides it in a closed space? Assholes.

GemGem04 − NTA. They're not your friends, they're your bullies

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DGinLDO − NTA. These jerks have never been your friend. It’s a hard realization, but everyone has experienced this so it’s not because you’re autistic that you didn’t realize it before now.

As for your other “friend” who says they rely on you for money & rides, kick that one to the curb too. You deserve better friends & while it does take time to build a new circle, you’ll be better off without these losers. Keep focused on you & what’s best for you & you will come out ahead.

Dairinn − NTA. Wait a minute, it's not nice for you to cut them off not because they actually care but are immature, but because those AHs need your money? Are these people for real? Is this other friend for real? Seriously, I'm doubting this story is even true. I mean, is there a subscription you can get for entitled unfunny jerk of the month and you get them shipped to your door or what?

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Redditors roared for the OP, branding his ex-friends as “bullies” and urging him to embrace better connections. Some slammed the pranks as dangerous, especially the cat incident, while others praised his courage. Do these takes deliver the hero’s justice, or are they just fueling the drama?

This story unmasks the cruelty of “pranks” that exploit trust, especially for a neurodivergent teen. The OP’s bold cut-off was a stand for self-respect, exposing the cost of toxic friendships. It’s a reminder to seek allies and set boundaries without guilt. Have you ever faced “friends” who crossed the line? How would you handle this betrayal? Share your thoughts below!

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