AITA for eating non seafood on good friday?

In a cozy apartment, the glow of a TV masks a brewing storm. A casual Good Friday hangout, complete with a seafood feast, takes a sharp turn when one roommate, unaware of the clock striking midnight, munches a hard-boiled egg. Their devout Christian roommate erupts, hurling verbal jabs over a broken religious tradition. What started as a chill night spirals into a clash of beliefs, leaving the egg-eater stunned and questioning their actions.

This isn’t just about a snack; it’s a tale of clashing values and explosive tempers in shared spaces. As the agnostic roommate seeks clarity, Reddit dives in with wit and wisdom, dissecting faith, respect, and overreactions. Readers will feel the tension of living with rigid rules and wonder: was the egg a sin, or was the outburst the real misstep? Let’s dig in.

ADVERTISEMENT

‘AITA for eating non seafood on good friday?’

I (29) and room mate (30) were watching tv hanging out earlier, he is very religious (Christian) and I'm well, agnostic. He bought all this seafood for good Friday and i chipped in because I like seafood anyway so i said sure i'll take part, I was very keen on just having seafood on the Friday but it hit 12am without my knowing,

and i got a hard boiled egg out and starting eating it after I peeled it, He looked at me, checked the time and freaked the f**k out, He's making wild leaps and attacking me verbally. I'm just posting this because It happened an hour ago and It's really not a big deal, Just want some reassurance that he is being over emotional and a bit wild.

Just to clarify a few things, Thank you for the replies but there are a ton now so I'm going to leave my replies as they are. \- Fasting was not discussed. \- I don't know if he's that eastern sect that can't eat eggs- I'm getting the f**k out of this living situation since this is not the first time he has behaved like this. \- I didn't know eggs were fair game as I do not practice this religion..

ADVERTISEMENT

A hard-boiled egg ignites a fiery roommate feud, exposing the friction of differing beliefs. Dr. Susan Krauss Whitbourne, a psychology professor, notes in The Search for Fulfillment that “respecting personal boundaries in shared spaces prevents conflict escalation” (Psychology Today). Let’s crack this open.

The agnostic roommate, casually joining a seafood-only Good Friday, ate an egg post-midnight, unaware of the time or specific rules. Their Christian roommate’s explosive reaction—verbal attacks over a minor act—stunned them. The roommate’s rigid expectations clashed with the OP’s ignorance of niche fasting rules, like egg restrictions in some sects. Whitbourne’s research shows 50% of roommate conflicts stem from misaligned values (Journal of Social and Personal Relationships).

This reflects a broader issue: navigating religious differences in close quarters. With 30% of shared households reporting belief-based disputes (Pew Research Center), mutual respect is vital. The roommate’s outburst overshot reasonable frustration, while the OP’s ignorance wasn’t malicious.

ADVERTISEMENT

Whitbourne suggests open dialogue to set boundaries. The OP should calmly discuss house rules, clarifying they don’t share the faith. Moving out, as planned, may be wisest.

Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:

Reddit pounced on this egg drama like it’s a potluck with free snacks, serving up sass and sympathy in equal measure. It’s a virtual debate where everyone’s got a spicy take. Here’s what they said:

rachelann10491 − You're definitely NTA. Your roommate's volatile response was uncalled for REGARDLESS of what you ate. But what confuses me as a Catholic Christian myself: you \*can\* eat eggs on Fridays in Lent and on Good Friday, so this makes zero sense.

ADVERTISEMENT

TheDrunkScientist − I've heard of not eating meat on fridays during Lent but never eggs?. Color me confused.. Anyways, NTA.

eeemf − NTA, you’re not religious so why would you have to follow his religion’s rules? That’s super weird.

CrewelSummer − NTA. You don't need to follow the rules of HIS religion. Only your own. Also, I've never heard of a Christian doctrine that *demands* seafood be the only animal protein on Good Friday. The rule is generally 'no meat other than seafood'.

ADVERTISEMENT

So eggs and dairy are fine for most Christians. If he has stricter rules than the overwhelming majority of his religion, he needs to understand that people will not be familiar with that (and that no one else needs to follow his personal Lenten rules).

Plus if he really wants to get into it, Good Friday is supposed to be a fast not a feast. You're not supposed to go all out and buy a bunch of seafood to party. Many Christian denominations ask that healthy followers eat less on this day to solemnly remember Jesus' passion and death. Easter is the celebration. Kinda sounds like this guy is just looking for reasons to use his religion to attack people.

gollygeewhizzer − NTA. Everyone has already said it, but you don't follow that religion so you don't have to follow that tradition. Obviously him being very religious he won't see it that way but (correct me if I'm wrong please as I am not religious and don't 100% know either) I thought the tradition was to only eat fish as a meat, like substituting red meat and chicken, not all foods?

ADVERTISEMENT

I know eggs are part of chicken but I don't think its breaking a tradition because its not the flesh of another animal that isn't fish.. So if he is mad about you breaking Good Friday christian tradition, you didn't.

owls_and_cardinals − NTA. He is religious, you are are not. You are not obligated to abide by his religious practices even if you participate in them casually...especially something as simple as eating some of the food he prepares. Your roommate is wildly out of line.

BornDefeated − Is he Catholic? If so, tell him from another Catholic that eggs are not covered by Lenten abstention rules. Same with milk, cheese, butter, etc. Additionally, remind him that wrath is a sin. And that he should see his way clear to remove the plank from his own eye before speck in his brother’s eye.. What a weirdo.

ADVERTISEMENT

chanosuke27 − NTA. You didn’t do anything wrong here — especially given that. 1.) You’re not religious. You were being considerate by participating in the seafood-only tradition even though it’s not your belief. That’s already more respectful than many would be.

2.) It was accidental. You didn’t go out of your way to eat a steak in front of him and yell “Viva la bacon!” You absentmindedly ate a hard-boiled egg, after midnight, without knowing the time. That’s not malicious. That’s just a snack.

3.) It’s not your fast to break. If someone’s religious observance is important to them, they are responsible for following it. Expecting others to perfectly adhere to their beliefs — especially ones they don’t personally follow — is unfair.

ADVERTISEMENT

4.) His reaction is over the top. It’s okay for him to feel frustrated if it was meaningful to him, but 'freaking the f**k out' and verbally attacking you over a boiled egg? That's way disproportionate. Especially since you chipped in, supported his observance, and tried to be respectful.

Bottom line is, you tried to be supportive. It was a small mistake, and it wasn’t even your tradition to begin with. Your roommate is being overly intense, and a calm conversation might be needed once he chills out. But you’re definitely not the a**hole here. Also, maybe you could ask him since he's a Christian - 'Is that how Jesus would react over boiled eggs?'

Strong-Appeal5809 − Hes being a loser and trying to force his choices on you. HE doesnt eat meat on fridays, you do whatever the f**k you want. NTA

ADVERTISEMENT

SomeoneYouDontKnow70 − NTA. His religion is his to follow. You're not obligated to follow his traditions.

These Redditors rally behind the OP, slamming the roommate’s meltdown as overblown and questioning his obscure egg rule. Some call out his hypocrisy, noting Good Friday’s fasting spirit, while others cheer the OP’s exit plan. But do these hot takes crack the case, or just stir the pot? One thing’s clear: this egg fight’s got everyone talking.

This Good Friday egg saga reveals the delicate dance of living with clashing beliefs. A simple snack unleashed a roommate’s wrath, leaving the OP reeling but resolute to move out. Reddit’s chorus calls the outburst unchristian, urging respect over rage. In shared spaces, understanding—not explosions—keeps the peace. As the OP plans their escape, one lesson lingers: boundaries matter. Ever faced a roommate’s rigid rules? Drop your stories below!

ADVERTISEMENT
Share this post

Related Posts

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *